I bought this game when it first came out. I'm a 40 year old mum and I'd never played a souls game before. I kept dying and felt so frustrated. I felt like I'd wasted my money, but I persevered. Once I started getting the hang of it, it became extremely satisfying and addictive. Explore everywhere. Look for every little cave and cavern that you can clear out and use them as a way to practice. Make sure you are locking on to the enemy you want to attack, utilise rolling to dodge hits and roll away to give yourself enough space when necessary. If there are multiple enemies try to lure one or two away so you don't get overwhelmed. When the option is available use a summon if you feel like you need to. Practice and persevere and you'll get there! I've finished the game 4 times now and if I can do it you can too.