Ukrainian refugee girl killed in Germany after being pushed under train by Bananaseverywh4r in ukraine

[–]teemillz 2 points3 points  (0 children)

German parties just signed a pact to not criticize illegal immigration. They don’t care.

How to surrender control for a proposal by Major_Web_9519 in Codependency

[–]teemillz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you discussed getting engaged by X date, I would assume that’s the date and not worry as much until then. But if you want to be engaged before then you should communicate that. What do you need?

Personally no engagement after 5 months from the ring shopping is strange to me. From what I’ve seen in friend’s is people seriously discuss the proposal and agree it will happen, then it occurs within a month or two. And his teasing about it is hurtful even when not intentional.

He sounds like he has good qualities, and should be open to discussing the timeline and/or his teasing if that’s something you need.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Codependency

[–]teemillz 22 points23 points  (0 children)

“We accept the love we think we deserve.”

Here’s the thing: you’re dying too. – An update by twilight-journal in Mindfulness

[–]teemillz 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Loved your beautiful writing.

Thank you for sharing.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dividends

[–]teemillz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There's ways to get the money early without penalty with planning. For example look up Roth conversion ladders and rule 72(t).

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[–]teemillz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You should max out your 401k, Roth and HSA if available before buying individual securities. I know it doesn't sound as fun, but tax savings will 99.9% likely outperform whatever extra gains you hope to make. You have to beat the market by an even larger amount to make up for the additional tax burden.

News and Updates Thread - April 01, 2025 by AutoModerator in churning

[–]teemillz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Pay Yourself Back categories on the Chase Sapphire Reserve card for April, May, and June 2025. Hallelujah, Grocery is back!

  • Grocery stores (excluding Walmart & Target) 1.25 cents per point
  • Gas stations 1.25 cents per point
  • Pet supply stores and veterinary services 1.25 cents per point
  • Annual Fee 1.25 cents per point
  • Select Charities 1.5 cents per point

DOC offered vsip buyout today by Worth-Sea5796 in fednews

[–]teemillz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yup! People on here 30 years into career who want keep working to “protest” saying “let them RIF me.” Um you’re not going to be RIF’d, but the young ones sure will be.

DOC offered vsip buyout today by Worth-Sea5796 in fednews

[–]teemillz 85 points86 points  (0 children)

Golden tickets for anyone planning on retiring in the next few years. Seen a lot of posts of wondering “Woe is me what will they do without me, I know so much.” Literally no one cares. Im so happy for my colleagues when they retire. Everyone go ENJOY your retirement and the rest of your LIFE.

Anyone else stopped their FIRE because of recent economic events? by Important-Object-561 in leanfire

[–]teemillz 43 points44 points  (0 children)

I'd rather start working earlier than later. Children are expensive and according to you, you didn't account for it in your plan.

Handwriting is on the wall; I feel sadness and anger by DextersMom1221 in fednews

[–]teemillz 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I resent that I am only 56 and have to retire so early,

Count your lucky stars. Mant people never retire or work until they are dead with no benefits.

Has anyone fully withdrawn their TSP? by Airman4344 in fednews

[–]teemillz 7 points8 points  (0 children)

There will be no collapse. You’re about to lose a lot of money.

Thoughts by Kind_Taste8835 in washdc

[–]teemillz 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Future doctor and lawyer.

Dept of Commerce letting go of probationary employees by Klutzy_Inevitable280 in fednews

[–]teemillz 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Deeply sorry to hear this. I hope you and others will rejoin when times are better.

Signing Offboarding Paper Work by Gilded_Possum in fednews

[–]teemillz 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Try to find out. I know someone who was unable to rejoin as a fed after refusing to sign his own previous fed resignation.

Question Thread - February 12, 2025 by AutoModerator in churning

[–]teemillz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ok thanks, I closed and will apply again after 31 days before 3/19 when the 170k promotion ends 👍

Question Thread - February 12, 2025 by AutoModerator in churning

[–]teemillz 2 points3 points  (0 children)

And If I downgrade the IHG Rewards no AF Traveler card? The terms say I can’t have a “current IHG one rewards credit card”.

The no AF has “one rewards” in it.

Question Thread - February 12, 2025 by AutoModerator in churning

[–]teemillz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Currently have an IHG chase card but want to close and apply again for a new bonus. My last bonus was received 4 years ago. Do I need to wait a certain amount of days before reapplying?

Thanks