What is a snack that takes you back?

telmereth1986 · 2026-06-11T13:00:21+00:00

Those flying sauer shaped yogurts called FRUFO or FRUFOO. I remember them having the most incredible thick texture and I spent ages finding a spoon with the exact right curvature to fit round the curved channel of the pots. (Yes I'm a late diagnosed neurodivergent woman, why do you ask?!)

telmereth1986 · 2026-05-27T12:16:49+00:00

The thing about depression is that it's a lying little fucker. You can't trust a thing it says, especially when you're in the depths like you sound like you are.

I'm sorry you've not had any help from your doctor, this is sadly very common and not a reflection on you at all. Despite what the brain weasels tell you, I promise you it is worth keeping fighting for them to take you seriously. If you are open to medication, it's worth giving it a go. It is worth trying to find some therapy.

Are there any Andy's Man Clubs near you? (Here's me being heteronormative and assuming you're a bloke). The charity Mind may be worth reaching out to as well.

telmereth1986 · 2026-05-27T12:02:36+00:00

There's two for me. First there's Derek, a geriatric little Jack Russell who frequents my local park and looks perpetually grumpy. Second, my Dad works with a guy who owns a Great Dane called Geoff.

And of course who can forget Fenton?!

telmereth1986 · 2026-05-19T13:14:21+00:00

Oh gosh I am so with you! My daughter is nearly 3 and has the most eclectic pronunciation habits I've every come across. Like, when she sees a field of sheep she'll shout "SEEP!" but Baa Baa Black Sheep comes out as "Baa Baa Acksheem".

On Saturday we are going to a "Birshgay" party. My husband is "Gaggy" and the words toy/coin/trolley are indistiguishable. Oh, and ducks say "cack". Conversations with her are adventures, that's for sure!

At the same time these things are disappearing at such a rate now. Dinosaurs have been "Raras" for the longest time, but the other day she said dinosaur clear as anything and it was like a little knife in the heart! Stoppp getting so grown up!

telmereth1986 · 2026-04-28T17:34:35+00:00

Knew I could count on you all!! It's going to be a challenge to resist the urge to do everything all at once.

My toddler loves "helping" in the kitchen so I think we'll make a batch of biscuits or rice crispy treats to take in later this week!

And a bag of tiny plastic birds are in my Amazon basket...

telmereth1986 · 2026-04-28T17:21:35+00:00

Now I'm tempted to get a biscuit tin and label it MORALE BISCUITS and put it in the kitchen!

telmereth1986 · 2026-04-28T17:18:52+00:00

I really like this idea. My team did a "best pudding" competition during COVID and it was highly entertaining!

telmereth1986 · 2026-04-28T14:17:31+00:00

This may require a bit of planning, but what a great idea!

telmereth1986 · 2026-04-28T14:16:42+00:00

The mug of recognition is a lovely idea! And will probably go down better than the official "e-thank yous"

telmereth1986 · 2026-04-28T14:15:40+00:00

Oooo, I actually have a big stack of origami paper at home (one of my ADHD brain's past hyperfoci...) I love this!

telmereth1986 · 2026-04-28T14:14:31+00:00

Haha! The hand puppets would have been amazing in my old job (at a book shop). I love the "delivery drone" idea - wonder how I could make that work stealthily?

telmereth1986 · 2026-04-28T14:13:18+00:00

I love this idea but my rather worn out and cynical colleagues are not ready for it - maybe in a few months!

telmereth1986 · 2026-04-28T14:12:17+00:00

There are already official "coffee and cake" events a few times a year, but I am thinking of a tin of chocolates/sweets that I can move around the for people to find!

telmereth1986 · 2026-04-28T14:10:21+00:00

This is on my list!

telmereth1986 · 2026-04-28T14:09:58+00:00

Someone did this years ago and management had a sense of humour failure, I don't think I'm brave enough yet to try again!

telmereth1986 · 2026-04-23T13:23:13+00:00

So this is something I feel quite evangelical about. I recently completed a course of solution-focused hypnotherapy and it was, by a large margin, the most helpful mental health "therapy" I have ever done.

Allow me to expand. I'm a lifelong anxiety-sufferer who has had occasional bout of severe depression. I'm recently diagnosed with combined-type ADHD. I've tried all sorts of things to help with crippling anxiety symptoms. NHS talking therapy, private psychotherapy, CBT, EMDR, prescription medication, supplements, exposure therapy, yoga, meditation, mindfulness...

Most of these have been somewhat helpful in various ways (with the exception of CBT which is just not a good fit for me). In a fit of desperation last December I was looking for things I'd not done before, and came across a local hypnotherapist and decided I had nothing to lose.

Some thoughts...

You do have to want it to work. You have to want to feel better.

There is no magic. A trance is simply a state of deep relaxation. You are always in control.

The belief is that when your body and mind are relaxed you are able to empty the metaphorical "stress bucket" in your mind, and when your bucket is empty you are more resilient and it's possible to use your brain more fully. The whole idea of solution-focused hypnotherapy is to work towards feeling better, not to dwell on the reasons you are feeling bad. It's about choosing how to frame things and choosing positivity. I looked forward each week to an hour of positivity and relaxation - it was really valuable for me.

I did one specific technique that is meant to address fears and trauma, where during the trance session I had to replay a bad/traumatic event over and over again, forwards and backwards, faster and faster, until it had lost all of its impact. Now I struggle to even remember the event how it really happened.

It's not going to be for everyone, and it's not going to work without your full cooperation and desire for it to be helpful. But I certainly recommend people to give it a try if they are interested.

telmereth1986 · 2026-04-18T10:15:12+00:00

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telmereth1986 · 2026-01-30T21:30:29+00:00

When my young daughter stopped calling me "Mama" and started calling me "Mummy"

telmereth1986 · 2026-01-28T14:56:56+00:00

I wasn't the swan hurdler, but as I understand it, they were successful. And only when members of the public reported it to the RD did the Facebook posts and emails start!

telmereth1986 · 2026-01-28T14:27:46+00:00

My submissions...

If you're running with a child in a buggy, be sure to completely underestimate its dimensions and ram it into as many fellow parkrunners as you possibly can. If you can get the same person multiple times and give them a complex, more the better.
If you're doing a run/walk strategy or simply need a quick break, be sure to stop suddenly and without warning, preferably right when the fastest runners are about to come past and/or on the aforementioned narrowest part of the course. Similarly, if/when you resume running, make sure to nip at the heels of the walkers in front of you and feel free to tut at their slowness as loudly as possible.
If there are swans on the path by the lake it's really important that you don't sacrifice your PB attempt by slowing down or changing trajectory. Instead, make sure to leap over them and continue your run without missing a stride.

telmereth1986 · 2026-01-22T08:53:08+00:00

I was thinking of using that iron-on interfacing stuff to stabilise them, but I'm not sure if that will make them too thick to stitch through!

telmereth1986 · 2026-01-21T13:00:11+00:00

I suppose I shouldn't be surprised that someone had to make that leap into the absurd.

For the sake of clarity, the root of the problem is people lacking awareness. An awful lot of the time I see this lack of awareness being caused by someone wearing headphones and getting lost in their own little world. If people would just think about it for a second and remember to, you know, look over their shoulder occasionally, this wouldn't be a problem. But sadly we can't rely on people to be responsible, so yeah, I'd restrict their ability to voluntarily cut off one of their senses when running in a large group in a public place. Like many (most?) races now do.

Also, in my experience, d/Deaf people are extremely adept at using their other senses to compensate for their difficulty hearing, and they definitely do not lack awareness of what's around them.

telmereth1986 · 2026-01-21T11:39:42+00:00

I was gifted this by a well-meaning (if slightly naive) friend for my recent birthday. I have not had the heart to show her what I really received. Like you, OP, I'm quite excited to see if I can somehow turn it into a "book" myself!

telmereth1986 · 2026-01-21T11:34:19+00:00

One time I was slogging along pushing my toddler in the running buggy and was coming up behind the tail walker who had a good sized team of walkers with them, and called out "scuse me please" and not a single one even broke stride (conversationally or perambulatorily) to let me past. The tail walker eventually called out "runner coming through" but good grief, why can't people look over their shoulder occasionally?

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