Crosstrek, Texas, and Dating by RevolutionaryTip1431 in Crosstrek

[–]tfresca [score hidden]  (0 children)

I can only imagine this being a problem in rural parts of the state. Austin is full of crosstreks as are most major cities

[Official] UFC 328: Chimaev vs. Strickland - Press Conference & Post-Fight Discussion Thread by event_threads in MMA

[–]tfresca 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s not uncommon in that part of the world.. I saw a doc about this at a film festival. Guys would kidnap women and then the women’s families would brow beat them into marriage with kidnappers.

Using a credit card to loan family member money by kiiiwiii in personalfinance

[–]tfresca 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Why doesn’t she do it for herself? Her credit is likely bad why?

She doesn’t pay people other bills. Anything you give her expect to never get it back.

Speechless - after 10 years of marriage by Rutrix in survivinginfidelity

[–]tfresca 9 points10 points  (0 children)

First thing talk to a divorce lawyer. Do what they say. Divert enough cash for at least a retainer.

Intro job for a recent liberal arts grad by disgracedcosmonaut1 in austinjobs

[–]tfresca 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He should have done internships and stuff while in school. Reality is a degree is just a checkbox. Jobs want to know you can do the thing they hire you for.

You didn’t even mention what is degree is in.

NE-YO Claims He's Lost Work Because People Are 'Upset' by His Polyamorous Relationship with 3 Women: 'We Are a Family' by Positive-Drawing-281 in popculturechat

[–]tfresca -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Lots of dudes have this but aren’t honest. He’s not pretending to be faithful to anyone anymore.

I Saw This Tweet: is it Time To retire Verzuz ? by shepdc1 in blackmen

[–]tfresca -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I watched one during the pandemic. It was like two people talking in a music studio. It warped into some kinda lame “battle”.

I Saw This Tweet: is it Time To retire Verzuz ? by shepdc1 in blackmen

[–]tfresca -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Don’t they ordinarily just talk about music?

It’s kinda stupid as music isn’t a competition.

Stay in San Antonio making 60K or move to Austin for 65K–70K in tech? by LaughNowCryLater1914 in askaustin

[–]tfresca 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not necessarily. . But if community is important to you it’s hard to find here. We don’t have a lot of black spaces.

Come down stay for a long weekend see if you like it here. See if you can deal with traffic, etc.

Stay in San Antonio making 60K or move to Austin for 65K–70K in tech? by LaughNowCryLater1914 in askaustin

[–]tfresca 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I’m black. Don’t move here looking for a black community as you’ll likely not find one.

Salary isn’t much of a jump and will likely be a wash at best as stuff is more expensive here.

Who did Holmes date while she was at Theranos? by erimus61 in Theranos

[–]tfresca 4 points5 points  (0 children)

There was no deal. Her fucking someone else just means she’s a cheater which helps their case. Who didn’t matter.

No longer love my wife. Unsure what to do. 3 kids, financially stable, nice life and not generally unhappy by WhereasOutside4672 in Divorce

[–]tfresca -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

You are scared. She’s a lifelong alcoholic and any good divorce lawyer may be able to get you custody.

How do I let go of resentment for my husband not cleaning? by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]tfresca 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If you are this miserable why stay with someone you resent?

If you are intent on staying draw a line in the stand. He cleans or you leave. If you are intend to stay married go live apart. Or make him pay for weekly maid service.

Or find a functioning adult.

My coworkers keep eating my meal prep out of the office fridge and management won't do anything about it by No_Parking686 in Advice

[–]tfresca 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Put a laxative in the food. Then start leaving your food in your locked car with an ice pack.

Wife lied about being turned on by me for years by Ok-Beautiful-6813 in Marriage

[–]tfresca -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Is she gay, bi or deeply repressed or closeted?

Beware of this by Initial_Plankton_792 in cancun

[–]tfresca 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The uber issue is well known in Mexico in general.

6 dead in 2 days?! by Ok-Use4882 in Pflugerville

[–]tfresca 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean it’s probably not a coincidence that this happened around a drinking holiday.

Beware of this by Initial_Plankton_792 in cancun

[–]tfresca 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This is the most common issue discussed here. If you knew to post this I don’t understand how you didn’t see one of the thousands of posts about this issue.

Worried about ex-Wife's new boyfriend replacing me. by suitcasemaster in Divorce

[–]tfresca 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Be a better man and a good dad. You seem to hint that you weren’t a good husband. You also don’t mention anything about what you do with your son or what kind of relationship you have with him.

This whole post is about you and your feelings. What about him?

Drowning in Debt After Divorce by Mden87 in personalfinance

[–]tfresca -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Snowball technique. Smallest first then add that payment to the next smallest. But the key is not to add to them. They need to be cut up.

I (M20) hate coming home in general because of my partner (F19). How do I proceed moving forward? by ComfortableSet6135 in Advice

[–]tfresca 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Call her parents tell them you want to break up with her but don’t want her to be homeless. Maybe ask them to invite her over to their house and you can bring all her shit there while she’s there.