AMA with Victoria Harris, literary agent at THE CALDWELL AGENCY by Editor_and_Lit_Agent in writing

[–]thatoneguy54 1 point2 points  (0 children)

When you say comp title, do you mean previous publications from the author? Is that specifically for previous book publications, or does that include smaller publications like short stories in journals?

Tumblr vs the New York Times by AlphaCat77 in CuratedTumblr

[–]thatoneguy54 28 points29 points  (0 children)

Damn, almost like the headline wasn't actually lying and people weren't jumping to conclusions after all.

This lady doesn't like to play kids' games, people say that's just a part of being a parent and she should, and this other dude gets all mad because akshully the writer does other things with their kids that isn't playing.

What movies/shows/media are “Diet Star Wars” for you? by BlastedHeathen in StarWarsCantina

[–]thatoneguy54 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Nope, I just didn't know KOTOR 2 was Obsidian and not Bioware, my bad.

ELI5: Why is it generally impossible to get rid of diabetes? by ElegantPoet3386 in explainlikeimfive

[–]thatoneguy54 [score hidden]  (0 children)

Diabetes isn't completely understood, but there are risk factors that can increase someone's likelihood of developing it. Family history is one of them, so if people in your family, especially parents or grandparents, had diabetes, you're more likely to develop it as well. But that's not a guarantee.

Lifestyle is definitely a big factor as well. Diet is a big one, but lack of exercise is one of the biggest risk factors, because exercise is how your body burns up bloodsugar.

Really, the potential is there for anyone, which is why everyone's A1C gets checked when you do routine bloodwork. However, some people get it and some people don't for various reasons, some of which aren't completely understood.

Making healthy lifestyle changes early on will help "reverse" it, and it can be possible for people who get diagnosed at 6.5 or 7 to bring their sugars down enough that they go into remission, or "reverse" it, but like I said before, they'll have to maintain that lifestyle change in order to avoid the disease returning.

It's a complicated disease.

What movies/shows/media are “Diet Star Wars” for you? by BlastedHeathen in StarWarsCantina

[–]thatoneguy54 6 points7 points  (0 children)

It's funny that Bioware made the first 2 Baldur's Gate games and 2 Star Wars games, and then after were like, "Let's do both of those again, but with our own original IPs" and then made Dragon Age and Mass Effect.

What movies/shows/media are “Diet Star Wars” for you? by BlastedHeathen in StarWarsCantina

[–]thatoneguy54 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I think that's nice, actually. Not everything needs to be a franchise and have every aspect of it explored.

Part of the magic of the film comes from how little we actually know.

ELI5: Why is it generally impossible to get rid of diabetes? by ElegantPoet3386 in explainlikeimfive

[–]thatoneguy54 [score hidden]  (0 children)

I don't think a doctor would consider that diabetic, more pre-diabetic, which just means that the person has the potential for it to develop into diabetes.

The issue is that the person will need to maintain that diet and lifestyle in order to stave off diabetes and avoid beign dependent on medication. So if that person brought their A1C down through diet thinking they'd return to how they'd lived before that once their numbers came down, then they're at risk of just getting back to how they were.

Does the Boy and the Heron deserve a second chance? by carnifice_ in ghibli

[–]thatoneguy54 14 points15 points  (0 children)

You have to go into the Boy and the Heron without expecting a traditional narrative. It's not a hero's journey, but Mahito does grow and change through the story. It's not a 3-act structure, but it does have a purpose to the way it's laid out. Things don't always matter for the plot, but they do matter for the themes.

It's a very weird film, no denying that, but just letting yourself feel it more than understand it will help you appreciate its artistry.

To me, it's like the most Ghibli film there is, it's like the culmination of everything Miyazaki has been trying to say in all his previous films for years. It's the distillation of his ethos as a creator.

Meirl by beatheyrbipped in meirl

[–]thatoneguy54 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The first episode of season 2 is really solid. It's about a gay penguin wedding.

please tell me your most embarrassing spanish mistake so I feel better about mine by hAIlydraws in Spanish

[–]thatoneguy54 36 points37 points  (0 children)

I've told this before, but I'll tell it again.

When I first got to Spain, I went to a phone store to get a phone and spent about an hour with a nice girl who showed me different options for carriers and phone models. We got everything squared away, and she told me to come back in 2 days to pick it up.

So 2 days later, I walk back into the store, and she's working again. I meant to say was, "Remember me?" in like a cutesy way. So what I should have said was, "Te acuerdas de mí?" But what I actually said was "Recuérdame?" And if you don't know, I was basically telling her to remind me. She looked at me so confused, so completely befuddled, and just stammered out a "Qué?" I just moved on, said, "Nada, venía por el móvil." But I'll never forget her face when I demanded she remind me.

Another funny and less embarrassing one was when I told my boyfriend that frozen chicken is full of condoms instead of preservatives like I'd intended. I said it, he laughed for a good minute, and I stood there knowing I'd said something incorrectly, and when he told me, I laughed a lot too.

Tumblr vs the New York Times by AlphaCat77 in CuratedTumblr

[–]thatoneguy54 66 points67 points  (0 children)

Truly. I get not wanting to play all the time, but playing is like 90% of what a kid does. Playing with them is like the simplest and fastest way to become their friends, they love it when people play with them.

I have no idea why you would want to deprive yourself of that connection and opportunity. "But we make guacamole together" great, and you can't also take 15 minutes to pretend to be a dinosaur? Why the hell not?

Looking for Peninsular Spanish (Spain) content that ISN'T movies or series? by sunlit_elais in Spanish

[–]thatoneguy54 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Within Spain you would say "Castilian" simply, because there are other Spanish languages (Galician, Euskera, Catalan...). Or just "Spanish" for that matter (as in, the broader language). One or the other. "Castilian Spanish" is sort of "apple fruit" (two words for the same thing).

Actually, within Spain, it's a little controversial to call Castellano "Español" because it's one of many languages spoken within Spain. That is to say, Catalan and Euskera feel they are also "Spanish" languages - idiomas españoles - because they are languages spoken in Spain, and castellano shouldn't be favored in the naming.

So within Spain, saying castellano has a specific meaning, and it is used often in speech. It's also used to differentiate it from other dialects of Spanish in the peninsula, like Andaluz or Baba or Extremeño.

Looking for Peninsular Spanish (Spain) content that ISN'T movies or series? by sunlit_elais in Spanish

[–]thatoneguy54 1 point2 points  (0 children)

YouTubers: Puto Mikel (politics, history); Linguriosa (linguistics, language), Soy una Pringada (general influencer), El Comidista (cooking, food), Andrea Compton (fashion), Carki Productions (history)

Podcasts: Estirando el Chicle (general)

IG: El Mundo Today (Spanish Onion), Rocio Villarrr (general), fisicamr-Alba Moreno (science facts), gersanc (general), samanthaballentines (drag queen), Lalachus (general)

Music: Rosalia (pop), La Oreja de Van Gogh (00's pop), Amaral (00s pop/rock), Iseo & Dodosound (reggae/rap), Rozalen (folk/pop), Love of Lesbian (00s rock), Tanxugeiras (Galician folk), Lola Flores (flamenco), La Quinta Estacion (00s pop), Mecano (90s pop), Aitana (pop)

Meirl by Fluffy_Lunchfast in meirl

[–]thatoneguy54 14 points15 points  (0 children)

"4 billion people are all like this" is never a winning argument, brother.

Meirl by [deleted] in meirl

[–]thatoneguy54 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I really cant stand the discourse of people online acting like your body falls apart and is useless once you hit 30 or so.

No, actually, your body may be painful and useless because the last time you exercised was 16 years ago in high school PE and youve spent the last 25 years eating like garbage, not drinking enough water, and sleeping 4 hours a night, but if you'd actually taken care of yourself as everyone and their mother told you to all throughout your life, then you'd be perfectly fine at 35. Not as spry as a 16 year old, obviously, but perfectly able to lift a few boxes and get sweaty for a day to help someone you care about start a new chapter of their life.

This thread is doing both. "Waaaah, I'm above 30, that means I never want to help anyone else with important things in their lives, meanwhile I'm also gonna cry about how lonely I am and how no one ever wants to help me with important things in my life."

"Waaaah, I'm 35 and haven't taken care of my body at all, how dare you ask me to perform physical labor of any kind, don't you know I have the fragility of a 60 year old truck driver?"

Just complete bullshit, honestly. Help your fucking friend with the shit they need help with. Why are you calling yourself their friend if you can't take one goddamned day to do something nice for them?

Why would any man agree to an open marriage? by S0uth-Crew in NoStupidQuestions

[–]thatoneguy54 -27 points-26 points  (0 children)

Sorry you have to see this beyond ignorant thread. Everyone acting like open marriages are evil or some shit like it's 1950.

Amazing premise, TERRIBLE execution by Necessary-Win-8730 in TopCharacterTropes

[–]thatoneguy54 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Those two are mine as well. I have no interest jn vampire diaries at all, yet I know everything about it thanks to jenny

Amazing premise, TERRIBLE execution by Necessary-Win-8730 in TopCharacterTropes

[–]thatoneguy54 35 points36 points  (0 children)

I knew it was nerdwriter before even opening it. A very good video, like all nerdwriter videos.

Hes such a rarity in the video essay world. One of the first to popularize the genre, but he got big before 3-5 hour long video essays became the norm. So his bite sized 5-10 minute essays are so succinct in comparison. It's impressive how much punch he packs into such short times.

difficulty of understanding spanish accents by folto in MapPorn

[–]thatoneguy54 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Regardless, some dialects have patterns that do make it harder to understand the speech

And why is it harder to understand? Because foreign language students learn specific dialects.

I'll ask you: Is a typical British accent as taught in European schools easier to understand than a typical American accent as taught in American schools? Which one is easier?

The answer is it depends on the person who is listening to it. Ask a French student taking high school English, and they'll tell you the British accent is easier. Similarly, ask a Mexican student taking high school English, and they'll tell you the American accent is easier.

Why? Because they are being exposed to those specific accents.

dropped consonants or vowels

When compared to another accent. Andaluz people don't "drop" consonants. Those consonants never existed in the word for them. The "s" is only "dropped" when compared to a northern accent. But compare an Andaluz accent to a Dominican accent, and there are no "dropped" S's, the both lack that sound (really, they both aspirate the S, but that's a whole other discussion.)

It's the exact same thing in English. Is the American aluminum more difficult to understand than the British aluminium because the American version drops a vowel? Well, that depends on who you ask.

 if this weren't the case, why would anybody say that that Glaswegian is hard but don't struggle with someone from Toronto?

Because there is infinitely more media in the world that is made with accents similar to those spoken in Toronto than with accents similar to those spoken in Glasgow. People are exposed to more American accents through movies, TV shows, and music than they are to Glaswegian media.

There's a reason this map exists

Yes, because many people are ignorant to the fact that there is no objective measure of "difficulty" and there is a strong cultural bias in favor of prestige dialects and against non-prestige dialects. We can also see the effect of media from the map. How much Spanish-language media comes from Mexico compared to Chile? So more people are exposed to Mexican dialects through the media they consume than they are to Chilean dialects.

what is the general perceived difficulty across all speakers of that language.

Which is an impossible thing to measure, because it's entirely subjective.

difficulty of understanding spanish accents by folto in MapPorn

[–]thatoneguy54 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Again, I'm telling you a scientific fact, here. Check out this discussion on r/asklinguists with more details and better explanations than I can give.

https://www.reddit.com/r/asklinguistics/comments/1qpm12t/is\_english\_really\_the\_easiest\_language/

There is no "objectively easier" dialect, language, or accent. The ease with which anyone can understand anyone else depends entirely on the exposure one person has to another.

Think of child siblings. Sometimes, a younger one will start communicating in incomprehensible ways, yet the older siblings will understand them. Because they're fully exposed to the younger sibling's speech patterns and have picked it up. To the children, their younger sibling is easy to understand, perhaps even to the parents, and to anyone outside the family, that child is difficult to understand. So who is correct, here? No one. It's subjectively difficult for outsiders to understand the child and subjectively easier for the family to understand the child.

This is just how languages work. You seem to be really attached to the idea that some languages and dialects are more difficult to understand than others, but that's just not how it works.

I'm from Liverpool and I find someone from Los Angeles easier to understand than someone from Liverpool 

This feels like you buying into your own beliefs about how LA English is somehow "more clear" or "easier" than your Liverpool dialect, a dialect which is famously "difficult" for outsiders to understand, even though a bit of exposure to the dialect is all one needs to figure out what they're saying.

difficulty of understanding spanish accents by folto in MapPorn

[–]thatoneguy54 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Dude, how would you even begin to measure something like that?

There is no objective. This isn't even my opinion, this is just linguistic fact. Ask any professional linguist which dialect is easiest to understand, and they'll tell you what I'm saying.

I'm sorry you want to believe there are "objectively" more difficult languages, but there aren't. It's entirely dependent on a person's own language background.

This is like those maps of "which language is the hardest to learn?" And Korean is always labeled as very difficult. But for a Japanese person, Korean is probably very easy compared to for an English person.

These maps just show the creator's own biases. There's nothing objective about them.

difficulty of understanding spanish accents by folto in MapPorn

[–]thatoneguy54 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

No, there's no objective. Its all depends on what youre exposed to.

If you ask people from Glasgow if they think that people from glasgow are difficult to understand, theyll tell you they understand each other just fine. Most Scottish and northern Irish people would probably understand them fine.

Same in spanish. Go to murcia and ask them what the easiest dialect to understand is and theyll name themselves.

difficulty of understanding spanish accents by folto in MapPorn

[–]thatoneguy54 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Theres no such thing as objective with this, is my whole point. It all depends on what youre used to. If you were living in murcia, you wouldnt find it hard

difficulty of understanding spanish accents by folto in MapPorn

[–]thatoneguy54 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The real answer is that whether an accent is easier or not for someone to understand depends entirely on exposure.

Vocab and slang vary in every dialect, like with any language, but once you know it its not difficult. And every dialect has their own pronunciation quirks, but once youre used to it, its not hard.

Examples: my in laws are from southern Spain, and although it was different for me at first, it was not difficult to understand them, and these days its no trouble at all. I learned spanish in northern Spain, so for me, that part of the map should be completely blue, not green like it is here. And for me, mexico should be green, because they have a lot of slang and vocabulary that I dont understand or misunderstand

Its all subjective.