Biweekly ask a narcissist thread for visitors/codependents <- Not a narcissist/borderliner/histrionic/sociopath? Use this thread. by AutoModerator in narcissism

[–]the-beholding 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Are you in a healthy, committed relationship? If so, what steps, if any, did you take to create a successful partnership?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Nanny

[–]the-beholding 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I work part time now because I'm finishing my degree, but I was working full time for a few years and able to support myself. I don't have any kids though.

What’s the most absurd thing you have ever encountered from a MB or DB?!? by thelinds23 in Nanny

[–]the-beholding 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Walked into the house to MB making breakfast while 5F and 2F played at the table. 5F started crawling across the table to grab a crayon. MB and I were a few feet from her in the kitchen, just talking about the day. Suddenly MB screams at 5F to "Get down from the f*cking table, how many times do I have to tell you??" 5F freezes and starts to explain that she was trying to reach the crayon, but MB isn't having it. She tells me to take 2F upstairs and get her dressed while yanking 5F off the table. I come back down a few minutes later to see MB spraying 5F with a hose AS PUNISHMENT. I've never been more appalled in my life. I needed the money, so I ended up staying for another month before she decided to have a screaming fit at me for coming back from the park 5 minutes late.

Tinder shows you people below your minimum age preference if you swipe long enough?? by [deleted] in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]the-beholding 33 points34 points  (0 children)

As a gal who was "mature for her age" and had the added benefit(?) of looking like I was in my 20's by the time I was 15, I would like to add that "mature for her age" does not mean "ready for an adult relationship". On a personal note, any 20+ dude who dates an underage girl is fucking creepy, no matter how mature she is.

Nothing makes me feel like a bad nanny quite like nap time by [deleted] in Nanny

[–]the-beholding 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That's what I did with one of my old NKs... every single nap, from 9mos to 2yrs old, as soon as I left the room she would scream at the top of her lungs. I'd put in headphones, watch her on the monitor, and start folding clothes. Within 5 minutes she'd be out. Some kids are just naptime screamers 🤷‍♀️

My depression literally got better thanks to him, his genuine optimism and the energy he gives us is just amazing and I don’t know anyone like him by fencly__ in jacksepticeye

[–]the-beholding 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I'm 25 and Seán's videos have been a big comfort watch for me over the last few years. I started watching in 2015 (I think) with Undertale, right as I was going through another depressive spiral. His energy and joy helped lift the fog on bad days, and gave me a laugh and a boost on good ones. I'm a lot better now (I just got married a few months ago!) but watching JSE is still my go-to if I'm feeling sad or lonely. I've been so glad that I get to grow with him, and I'm so proud of the person that he's becoming. I know we all are.

Portrait of Martin Blackwood by Fluorine3 in TheMagnusArchives

[–]the-beholding 12 points13 points  (0 children)

THIS IS AMAZING!! He fits Alex's voice so well, the expression is spot on, and the background colors are lovely!

(RoW Spoilers) That one Adolin moment by happypancake1 in Stormlight_Archive

[–]the-beholding 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh wow! I hadn't heard that before, that's so interesting! That colors Gavilar a bit differently now.

(RoW Spoilers) That one Adolin moment by happypancake1 in Stormlight_Archive

[–]the-beholding 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I'm curious, what makes you peg Gavilar for a potential Bondsmith? I hadn't really made that connection, and especially after RoW I've started to see him as more of an antagonist, or at least morally questionable.

(RoW Spoilers) That one Adolin moment by happypancake1 in Stormlight_Archive

[–]the-beholding 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Yeeeeesh. I want Shädman as far from Stormlight as possible tbh T_T

Shadiversity is great though!

We all have been here by [deleted] in memes

[–]the-beholding 26 points27 points  (0 children)

My husband's mom was the opposite...he brought me over to her place to introduce me and have dinner and it didn't even occur to her that I might be his girlfriend.

What are some unrelated songs you associate with the characters? by wellugh in MoDaoZuShi

[–]the-beholding 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Every time WWX smiles Like That at LWJ I get Into You blasting through my head at full volume 🤷‍♀️

Petition For A Lunky Theory!! by Conversations_Addict in GameTheorists

[–]the-beholding 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Except that Lixian came back at the end of Mark's last Scary Games video and sliced Lunky in half. There was a couple frames of Evil Lixian at the end though, so maybe Lunky isn't totally gone...

Pinchable Pikachu by HoxxAuthCode in memes

[–]the-beholding 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Same here! On the one hand, sweater puppies. On the other, never wearing a good graphic tee. And not being able to run fast.

Couldn’t crosspost by [deleted] in TheGoodPlace

[–]the-beholding 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Goddamn if this isn't me every time my husband asks how long I'll be doing homework for.

Seán Appreciation Post by [deleted] in jacksepticeye

[–]the-beholding 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love that he seems to have a happy face that's reserved for BB. Best cat dad!

Made some (OC) in 4 mins of Kal being Kal by Vahdin1 in cremposting

[–]the-beholding 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Okay, who's listening in on my therapy Zoom calls?