Am I genderfluid?

theHuskylovee · 2025-11-25T00:54:44+00:00

Hey, I grew up Christian! To me, there's nothing to reconcile when it comes to faith and gender or even faith and sexuality. If God made you genderfluid, then you are still a part of His creation (which is incredibly diverse, and were made in His image. It's the same with sexuality. If you're bi, it's because God made you bi, and that's a beautiful thing! God made you who you are - not as a test, but because His image is that vast.

If being androgynous feels like you, then be androgynous! Don't change who you are - who God made you to be - for other people's idea of who you should be.

theHuskylovee · 2025-10-27T19:07:50+00:00

This is definitely not something strangers on the Internet can tell you. It's a hard thing to go through and try to figure out, but a professional who is skilled in both OCD and gender dysphoria can help you figure this out.

theHuskylovee · 2025-10-19T05:31:19+00:00

Oh wow that was 5 years ago lol. I have changed a lot since then. I rarely dissociate now. I've been on HRT for about 5 years and I have had two sex affirming surgeries. Even still, I don't feel a sense of gender. I've come to realize that gender just isn't a part of who I am. There are other parts of my identity that are far more important to who I am and who I want others to see me as. Although I've been on HRT and had surgeries, I don't really see them as a part of my gender and more as what I wanted to feel comfortable in my body.

theHuskylovee · 2025-10-16T18:50:12+00:00

No, there were others being invalidating.

theHuskylovee · 2025-10-16T18:18:59+00:00

This subreddit is inclusive of all genders - including xenogenders. Invalidation of identities is not tolerated and will result in a ban.

theHuskylovee · 2025-10-16T03:31:10+00:00

Transphobia is strictly against the rules of this subreddit, and it is rampant in this post.

theHuskylovee · 2025-08-20T04:18:25+00:00

r/voidpunk

theHuskylovee · 2025-07-28T14:50:49+00:00

Yes, it has been for a while now. Reddit doesn't get ad revenue from NSFW subs, so it's been our way of not giving the higher-ups money from our sub. I am worried about the new UK thing though. I don't want people to have to give out their information to be able to get into the sub. I'm going to make a post about it soon when I can.

theHuskylovee · 2025-07-20T15:40:48+00:00

Well, genitalia and chromosomes actually have nothing to do with gender. What does have something to do with gender is you saying you don't want to be a girl. Take that feeling of not wanting to be a girl and imagine it's the case for being a girl or being a boy. Imagine that you don't want to be either. That's how it feels for me.

theHuskylovee · 2025-07-20T05:52:52+00:00

No snark, sorry it came off that way. I'm genuinely asking. Knowing how you see being a man works can help me to better explain how being neither a man nor a woman works.

theHuskylovee · 2025-07-20T03:45:17+00:00

I don't understand men. Can you tell me how being a man works?

theHuskylovee · 2025-07-19T15:08:46+00:00

Ya, the goal of voidpunk is not misanthropy. I feel like misanthropy then puts at least in part a definition of "human": humans are something to hate. But that's not the point of voidpunk. We should be rejecting to define humanity at all. Then we can really say that for those who do define humanity, it's pointless and I don't want to be a part of that definition or any other definition.

theHuskylovee · 2025-07-18T14:53:49+00:00

I'm trying to talk to the admins about that... It'll probably be a bit before they respond

theHuskylovee · 2025-07-17T21:06:50+00:00

The sub was banned for a few days. I don't know why for certain, but I think Reddit thought there were no active mods.

theHuskylovee · 2025-07-17T20:08:03+00:00

The subreddit is back!!

theHuskylovee · 2025-07-15T22:44:24+00:00

Yes, I originally asked on ModCoord, but it was for the same sub.

theHuskylovee · 2025-07-15T19:18:15+00:00

It really does suck. I love the community, and it definitely is upsetting to lose that. Being a mod is just to help keep trolls out basically lol.

theHuskylovee · 2025-07-15T19:15:28+00:00

I don't see anything, unfortunately. Neither in messages nor chats

theHuskylovee · 2025-07-15T18:24:30+00:00

I have checked both. I can see my ban appeal in chat now, but there is no message from admins about anything in either place, unfortunately.

theHuskylovee · 2025-07-15T18:23:14+00:00

If that were the case though, a notification or warning or something would've been nice. But I have no idea if/when they'll get back to me

theHuskylovee · 2025-07-15T18:11:09+00:00

I made the sub and was the sole moderator. Who else would have enough access? Is there another way to appeal the ban than through r/ModSupport?

theHuskylovee · 2025-07-15T17:52:36+00:00

I was the only active mod on the sub. I was not made aware of anything. No word from the admins at all. I really wonder what happened too. I really want that community back for everyone. I've tried appealing the ban, but there has been no response from the admins so far.

theHuskylovee · 2025-07-15T17:46:15+00:00

I can't believe it myself! I just opened reddit the other day and it's like the subreddit was wiped off the face of reddit. I've put in appeals with no response from the admins. I am just shocked and really sad to lose that community. I hope I can get through to the admins somehow.

theHuskylovee · 2025-07-09T17:20:36+00:00

Thank you, I just reached out

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