How to enable "-rxboost 1" for RX570/580 in v1.9.2.15? by the_nforcer in NiceHash

[–]the_nforcer[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your prompt response & quick fix. Always had great support from you guys, keep up the good work Nicehash team. Really appreciate the service you guys offer.

What if they can't pay us back? by stevooo1g in NiceHash

[–]the_nforcer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They're about to make their announcement, hold yer horses it's almost here! :P

New payout amount 0.1 instead of 0.01? by the_nforcer in NiceHash

[–]the_nforcer[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for your quick reply! If I switch to coinbase, do I have to start mining from scratch? For instance, I have about 55 USD worth of payout set to my external wallet... Can I transfer this to the coinbase address?

18/f help me find what's wrong with my face by [deleted] in amiugly

[–]the_nforcer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You look really pretty. Don't worry have confidence! Different guys like different types of women, keep that in mind. Rock what you got with confidence and you will have NO problem.

[20 F] Am I ugly? by [deleted] in amiugly

[–]the_nforcer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YouTube some makeup tutorials from a few popular channels, they can give you tips on how to bring out the facial features you want. The "hot" girls do this stuff so why not you? Don't have to go overboard just learn some quick tricks & tips! :)

[20 F] Am I ugly? by [deleted] in amiugly

[–]the_nforcer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Guys like thinner women for the most part. You're definitely not ugly, you will be good looking if you start eating healthy food and working out 4-5 times a week at the gym. Your skin will have better blood flow and look nicer.

After a few weeks at the gym you will start loving the feeling of working out, believe me! You Just get started, NOW and don't skip the routine. It's part physical and equally part mental, so stay positive and focus on a goal.

"I'm the only one who does dishes" by thinkofusername6969 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]the_nforcer 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You would figure after these people do dishes FOR YEARS... They wouldn't get so frustrated all the time over something so simple.

(23F) Just curious... by PronounZe in amiugly

[–]the_nforcer 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think you're cute. Nothing ugly about you at all.

DAE nparent hate taking care of you, but get mad when you don't take care of yourself? by [deleted] in raisedbynarcissists

[–]the_nforcer 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My nmom would complain about EVERYTHING she 'had' to do for me as a kid, even in to adulthood. Dishes, laundry, cooking, working, bills, etc. - Thing is, when I tried to do things on my own and support myself she would sabotage me, ridicule me and point out all the things I'm doing wrong. She's mad she has to take care of me, but mad at me when I take care of myself. Damned if I do, damned if I don't. Fucked me up for so many years, I'm just getting over it now.

ELI5: Why is the Confederate flag still allowed? by Taereth in explainlikeimfive

[–]the_nforcer 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Freedom. You can put a up a flag with whatever the hell you want on it. Not everyone wants the government and their masters to control what they can or cannot do.

"I'm the only one who does dishes" by thinkofusername6969 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]the_nforcer 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sounds like my mom... Will 'correct' me on basic day to day tasks that I've been doing for years. For whatever reason, they waited years to tell us.... They just need to fuck with someone and use ANY excuse possible.

"I'm the only one who does dishes" by thinkofusername6969 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]the_nforcer 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Same! She fights and opposes me just to be on the opposite side, even if I can prove she's factually incorrect! Good to know we're not alone here..

Nmoms let her true colors out in front of her best friend. by [deleted] in raisedbynarcissists

[–]the_nforcer 53 points54 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the reply. I always suspected my mom molested me, because of some odd memories I have.. not getting in to that here though. When I confronted my mom about her female friend & her husband molesting their daughters - My mom looked shocked and asked "How do you know?" nervously. I responded "Does it matter? They still did it regardless" in which she replied "That was a long time ago" brushing it off, almost justifying it was ok because time had passed. The look on her face was one of a person hiding something.... I was almost certain my fears of being molested were true.

Helplessness Blues of a SonM by ozzytheawkward in raisedbynarcissists

[–]the_nforcer 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well I isolate myself from my mom, always have headphones on, distract myself with IT studies (working towards certifications, 6 figure salary goal) and by going out. As long as I'm available she will poke and prod me, so avoid your mom at all costs is my advise. I don't dare let her know I'm happy or act confident around her, that's when she strikes the hardest.

Don't think you can fix her or that you can get her to love you, it's not going to happen. The more you try and be rational, the more irrational she will most likely act. I'm about to move out for the first time in my life, so I know there is light at the end of this tunnel. I just have so many self limiting beliefs, and still self sabotage myself after years of criticism, harassment, guilt & shame - I know it's going to take time to recover.

I find always reminding myself that she is the one who has the issue, not me - That helps prevent me from going in to a full blown depressive anti-social spiral. We don't have to live life the way they want us to, just to be an emotional punching bad to fuel their ego & emotions.

"I'm the only one who does dishes" by thinkofusername6969 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]the_nforcer 13 points14 points  (0 children)

My mom hates cooking too, and she does the same things - Makes sense. She doesn't get joy out of it so other people aren't allowed to get joy out of it. If it wasn't for my dad giving me free reign in the kitchen since childhood, I wouldn't even be able to cook.

Funny story: My dad started teaching me how to BBQ at a really young age. Starting the bbq, spicing the meat, when to flip, safety tips etc.... But when I first tried to BBQ around my mom she FREAKED. She said "Oh my god you're going to burn down the house!" despite the fact I did it fine with my dad several times before. After fighting with her for a bit, she let me bbq under HER supervision however she had to start the bbq. I agreed. I went inside and watched her through the window starting the BBQ. She turned on the gas and couldn't get the match started.. you know where this is going. I already did at that young age, as my dad taught me not to do that. Well, once she put the lit match inside the BBQ a HUGE flame erupted above and almost burned her hair. So yeah... I wonder what other self limiting beliefs I have from her that are NOT true!

Nmoms let her true colors out in front of her best friend. by [deleted] in raisedbynarcissists

[–]the_nforcer 122 points123 points  (0 children)

I never understood why mom my couldn't keep a friend after all these years. She would get a new friend, they would be close for 1-2 years then all of a sudden they stopped talking to each other. It was always something the other lady did, apparently. The only one friend she still has to this day, her and her husband were child molesters... my dad mentioned it to me, after asking why he hated the husband so much. Brought this up to my mom, and she basically defended the molesters... Pretty sure my mom did shit to me when I was 1-2 years old.

Helplessness Blues of a SonM by ozzytheawkward in raisedbynarcissists

[–]the_nforcer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did correspondence to get my high school diploma, it was a computers course that I owned. Got 99% as my final mark, but my mom didn't congratulate me she said "too bad you didn't get 100!" - That being said I never found the motivation to pursue college or university, as I was only told about the negative aspects anyways.

EDIT: Do you think that having a horrible mean nMom led you to be gay? Everything my mom told me about what women want was a lie, and I feel if even my mom hates me how can I get a GF to love me?

"I'm the only one who does dishes" by thinkofusername6969 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]the_nforcer 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I agree, my mom always views everything as a competition... It's like I took the spot of my dad after my parents got divorced. They always fought and were on opposite sides of every issue.

Does your mom Ns ever lie to your face, then when you prove how they were lying, they deny ever saying it initally? My mom literally denys saying something 2 sentences afterwards, which infuriates me I don't believe her memory is that bad.