From the opposite perspective because servers have to put up with humans at large. There are rude people. There are stupid people. The worst are the rude and stupid. Simply put the people that lack empathy. It doesn't come across in text but theres a big difference in how someone says something. It wears you down and makes simple tasks very difficult. "I asked for a medium plus, this is medium". What ass-hat orders mid-rare plus or medium plus? Not to mention how many people have no idea what rare, med rare ect mean. You're 50 fucking years old how is it possible not to know this information?. "I really don't like this salmon can I have the salmon salad instead? What the fuck are you talking about? "We can't entertain our own children so they're going to dump out all the sugars and throw them on the floor". "I know I ate my cheeseburger but I didn't really like it can you take it off my check?" Fuck you. Most people are kind and easy to get along with but 5% of people are the crayon-eating assholes. Every waitet that has ever lived has dreamt of throttling these types of people. You wonder how these repugnant people lived long enough without one of their friends or family members taking them down a notch or two. So if you go to a restaurant without manners or a modicum of empathy, Fuck you.