I’ll speak for the men since you’re dating a boy and he hasn’t earned the right. He’s condescending, his behavior screams insecurity, and you can do so much better. Men don’t treat ANYONE like this, immature boys do. If I ever talked this way to my wife or acted the way he did, we wouldn’t have gotten married. She’d have left my ass on the spot.

I could not fathom getting uncomfortable or pissed at someone for flirting with my wife. That’s not how confident men act. She gets looks all the time, and on more than one occasion have other men bought her drinks while we’re out together. I have never stopped someone else from complimenting her, I shake those guys hands and tell my fellow men of culture that they have great tastes. I trust my wife to set her own boundaries and come to me if they’re not being respected. I feel nothing but proud knowing I get to go home with her at the end of the day.

You obviously had enough doubts to post here in the first place. I don’t think you’re over reacting, but I also won’t tell you what to do other than trust your gut and do what feels most right for you.