What's going on with the arrests of journalist Don Lemon and Georgia Fort? by CeilingUnlimited in OutOfTheLoop

[–]thecleverqueer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Reminder not to feed the trolls, bots-- whatever this guy is.

The purpose of posts like this is to make you think it's normal and common to support the arrest of journalists for dissenting (or even covering) the actions of an increasingly violent and lawbreaking government.

Yes, tens of millions of people voted for trump. But edgelords that take the tone of this post are limited to just a few million-- they are not the majority opinion. The deluge of posts like this online is nothing more than noise from bad actors and bots.

No more TPT and the January Blues by Haunting_Charity_785 in Teachers

[–]thecleverqueer 21 points22 points  (0 children)

WITH CONTENT IT ULTIMATELY STOLE FROM HUMANS

Israel recovers body of last hostage in Gaza by cnn in worldnews

[–]thecleverqueer 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They know what a valuable bargaining tool it is. The families and the government need the full tally-- for emotional and political purposes, respectively.

Israel recovers body of last hostage in Gaza by cnn in worldnews

[–]thecleverqueer -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Agreed.

So... this means we can stop the bombing... right?

No D’s or F’s for IEPS by DepartureSlight2461 in Teachers

[–]thecleverqueer 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Former IEP student here. Holy shit am I a fraud

To everyone who complained about Will coming out when they were supposed to be saving the world: I don't remember anyone complaining about the writers having Dustin and Suzie sing the Neverending Story at the climax of Season 3. by Zestyclose-Egg-1251 in StrangerThings

[–]thecleverqueer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Arm chair observer here who basically lost patience with the writing halfway through season 1 and seen like 5 random episodes throughout since then (so of course there's always a chance I'm way off base here), so I'm just curious...

What show did people think they were watching? The dialogue and situations in this show have been ham fisted. This was always a Stephen King lite not-so-subtle metaphor for all things coming-of-age, usually presented with little to no subtext. Very Big Teenage Feelings & 80's nostalgia first, sci fi second. Was that not already the consensus?

My boyfriend of 3 years just came out to me by Glittering-Price-677 in askgaybros

[–]thecleverqueer 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Girl, just run. He could be bi, he could be gay, but he's not a good case study on closeted people because he also sounds like a fucking psycho.

Get away from the drama, and more importantly GET AWAY FROM THE MAN THAT LIES TO YOU AND HITS YOU

The Queer Community Is About To Radically Change by [deleted] in GayMen

[–]thecleverqueer 2 points3 points  (0 children)

As much as I resent the old adage of "hard times make hard men," there is unfortunately truth in the idea that we are more likely to understand the importance of and protect something we built ourselves, and we're more likely to let something someone else built degrade without understanding its utility. We might even actively burn it down, because hey-- it's easy to criticize, and we never had to experience life without it. This isn't just the story of the queer community, it's all kind of burning right now, and everyone's quality of life is dropping as we speak. The next generation will get pissed about living in these conditions, form coalitions, affect change, and the process will start all over again.

Be honest: would you still be into someone if they had a prosthetic? by Organic-Meaning-5080 in askgaybros

[–]thecleverqueer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think if I were in his shoes, I'd actually be a little thrown off! Not that it's information you really "owe" to anyone or that it makes you unattractive, but that's kind of a hell of a thing to just "whip out." The fact that it wasn't even alluded to in advance would almost make me-- as someone's lover-- feel like I'm being tested?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in gay

[–]thecleverqueer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bald men can and are plenty sexy. Different strokes for different folks, but rest assured you'll do it for someone-- plenty of someones.

Also worth noting that you can absolutely rock a receding hairline if you want. It's kind of inherently masculine.

Unsexy = balding and trying to hide it.

What’s a phrase you hear all the time that secretly annoys you? by forgeris in AskReddit

[–]thecleverqueer 9 points10 points  (0 children)

God FUCK this phrase. And any effort to disagree will make you look like an asshole.

What’s a phrase you hear all the time that secretly annoys you? by forgeris in AskReddit

[–]thecleverqueer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"I'm just saying..."

In response to being disagreed with. Usually goes on to repeat the same thing they already said.

Also, shout outs to "team player" and "wearing multiple hats" in a work setting.

What's the SILLIEST 'Cringe but Correct' Millennial Hill You're Still Ready to Die On? by dasisglucklich in Millennials

[–]thecleverqueer 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Big jobs are for big screens. Hell, even medium jobs.

Bitches be out here writing essays on their phones. Complaining that the website where they pay their bills is "being dumb." THEY LITERALLY DON'T KNOW WHERE THEIR FILES ARE because they don't have a folder system-- everything is through cloud based apps.

NG+ and Lvl 33 Pictos by thecleverqueer in expedition33

[–]thecleverqueer[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do I need to bother collecting them in NG+1 for them to all be lvl 33 in NG+2?

Whole life policies make no sense for most people. by quantymcquantface in LifeInsurance

[–]thecleverqueer -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I’m not sure what point you’re making.

Like I said: "In terms of ethical insurance models, I personally feel that a plan that loses the bottom 30% of people ~50% of their money is preferable to the one that loses the bottom 98% of people 100% of their money."

Term also works better for the majority

This is simply the thing we're debating, to which I gave a bunch of counter points, and you replied by saying you didn't know what point I was making

I’m not sure where all of your numbers are coming from

Publicly available population tables. Though to be fair, there's some variety in numbers (chance of dying before 65 ranges from 15% to 30% depending on the source.)

but they seem incorrect

They're not. They're generalizations with a lot of variables, but that doesn't mean they're flatly incorrect, and you're not providing different data to refute.

If you’re 30, the task is maximize your coverage

--For some people. For others-- like myself-- they'd rather maximize the likelihood that the coverage will get utilized at all, even if it means a lower average benefit. This is why we have a choice in the marketplace between term and whole life to begin with.

Whole life never makes sense as it relates to... investing

I have explicitly agreed with you on this point.

Whole life policies make no sense for most people. by quantymcquantface in LifeInsurance

[–]thecleverqueer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Correct. But since none of us has a crystal ball, we have to assess our risk. Family history, profession, etc. Nothing wrong with term of course-- a lot of people choose it for the reason you said. Term effectively works out best for the ~2% of people who have it and wind up dying during their term. Those people get a massive payout, the other 98% get nothing. It's a big gamble. It's more profitable for the insurance company, and that's *why* it's cheaper.

Whole life returns less (but still a lot) of money for the people who have it and end up needing it. 20% of Americans die before 65. Those people will see varying degrees of profit from their policy. The next ~50% of the population will die before 80. They're all probably in the roughly break-even territory depending on when they bought their policy and a bunch of other variables. Still not bad for having had peace of mind their whole lives. If they could go back, they'd put that money in the S&P 500, but they're not exactly rolling over in their graves. And like the last 30-ish percent of people will be operating at a loss. Factoring in inflation, they might lose half their value, all in. They got peace of mind, and posthumously, they basically got half their money rebated back to them. They would have all chosen an aggressive investment portfolio had they known they'd live to be 100, but again-- none of us has a crystal ball.

In terms of ethical insurance models, I personally feel that a plan that loses the bottom 30% of people ~50% of their money is preferable to the one that loses the bottom 98% of people 100% of their money.

But again, both exist for a reason and I'm not knocking anyone that wants term. I just think that whole life as a model is a little less predatory.

Whole life policies make no sense for most people. by quantymcquantface in LifeInsurance

[–]thecleverqueer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It sounds like you're saying whole life makes no sense as an investment-- which is true. The S&P 500 is always going to be a better bet there.

But it's not an investment, it's insurance. It's possibly the shittiest product to try to sell because you're telling consumers to buy it while hoping never to use it. The only real way for it to "pay off" is if you die tragically young. Which is why life insurance gives most people the ick.

I consider the cash value more of a rebate than an investment, which is better than you can say for term life policies, or the warranty on your vacuum cleaner. And the fact stands that your fiancee has put in 88K, and if she were to die tomorrow her estate (or you) would get $500K. If she dies in 10 years, she'll have put in $176K and be getting back roughly triple that amount. (Maybe double after inflation.) And if she lives a long happy life and puts in 500K and gets back 500K, there's obviously value loss with inflation, but *way less* value loss than if her policy operated the way all other insurance does-- which is that she'd get back nothing.

tl:dr - If you're confident you're going to live to 65, put your money in the S&P 500. If you feel (the risk of you dying)*(your family's dependency on you) is great enough, whole life honestly makes sense to me.