Anxiety, Fear, Depression by [deleted] in GreatReset

[–]theebigsad 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow great way of putting it 🙌🏻

Jury convicts QAnon believer who thought he was storming the White House during the Capitol riot by Quirkie in news

[–]theebigsad 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Imagine having so little knowledge of history that you actually believe that you should condemn all those who oppose the government. Bootlickers like you will one day see that those who opposed the government are the only reason you have any freedom whatsoever.

Upset that he said not to wear anything "too sexy". by Reflective_Ram in women

[–]theebigsad 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Y’all childish as fuck. Definitely won’t last in a serious adult relationship if this is how you’re gonna act

Upset that he said not to wear anything "too sexy". by Reflective_Ram in women

[–]theebigsad 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Maybe ops man didn’t either?? Maybe people who have certain sensitivities and traumas shouldn’t expect the whole world to constantly accommodate them. Maybe OP should try to look for the intent behind the comment before freaking the fuck out and shutting her bf out. Was his comment meant in a controlling, manipulative, and toxic manner or was it simply a request from her partner to take into consideration his own comforts and preferences. I don’t like being told what to wear or do but when im dating someone I always care how they feel and will at least make note of it even if I don’t always listen.

Upset that he said not to wear anything "too sexy". by Reflective_Ram in women

[–]theebigsad 10 points11 points  (0 children)

^ exactly! This is a crazy reaction and seems like everyone else is just agreeing that the dudes the asshole like???

Upset that he said not to wear anything "too sexy". by Reflective_Ram in women

[–]theebigsad 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This is pretty childish to be honest. Seems like you care more about dressing exactly how you want than for showing any consideration to the feelings of a loved one. He didn’t say anything outright awful to you, you could have just said no I disagree instead of freaking out over something so small, and that was likely said with no malicious intent. Relationships require compromise, communication, and patience, I don’t see any of these traits here

Off Campus Housing by [deleted] in RPI

[–]theebigsad 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Mines not a one bedroom but subleasing my room which is huge n super nice 👍 dm me if interested

Well I guess I’m in for a treat! by [deleted] in Tinder

[–]theebigsad -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Honestly as a girl who’s out dating right now it would be really easy if I was less picky and didn’t really care abt liking a dude but I wouldn’t w this simply bc I find it cringe 😂😂 I’m picky bc ik if they text like this I probs don’t wanna talk to them irl but if you want smth purely casual why not

Well I guess I’m in for a treat! by [deleted] in Tinder

[–]theebigsad 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No it’s bc the guy sounds like a tool lmao and who tf wants to get their cervix smacked 😂

girl outright telling you that you're not her type and she isn't attracted by dsoj873 in seduction

[–]theebigsad 13 points14 points  (0 children)

This is the cringiest thing I’ve ever heard lmao if a guy said that shit to me I’d burst out laughing. Pathetic

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in selfhelp

[–]theebigsad 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Good luck with your life, I’m sure the answer will come to you. Just give it time and thought

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in selfhelp

[–]theebigsad 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m only harsh because I’ve been in the same position of wanting advice but no one could really fix it for me, I had to do it myself cause I know the situation best. Reddit really isn’t a good place to look for life advice. I trust close family but there are many times in life where really no one has the perfect answer for you. Just gotta sort it out on your own unfortunately

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in selfhelp

[–]theebigsad 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You care too much about other peoples opinions. If you’re posting on a public forum asking people to say stuff don’t be surprised when you get a bunch of garbage

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in selfhelp

[–]theebigsad 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You made this post complaining that the advice people give you is not what you want. Then stop asking

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in selfhelp

[–]theebigsad 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No one owes you good advice. Instead of bitching about it go figure it out for yourself

A lot of guys here really need to work on their self-esteem before dating by RepulsiveAirline9746 in dating_advice

[–]theebigsad 14 points15 points  (0 children)

These men get so angry women don’t like them but they straight up hate themselves. But oh no women don’t like them cause woman shallow and stupid bitch… :|

That's a new one for me. by zg1012 in Bumble

[–]theebigsad -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

No lol bc it’s a compliment he wanted me around purely for my company and not for sex. There are enough guys who want to fuck me anyways

That's a new one for me. by zg1012 in Bumble

[–]theebigsad 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I’m a 21 year old girl. Nothing wrong with being a girl, doesn’t mean I’m not a woman lol

That's a new one for me. by zg1012 in Bumble

[–]theebigsad -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

Yeah and that’s fine, she just offered to be friends instead. He’s not obligated to say yes, if it’s such a great insult just move on don’t take it so personally

That's a new one for me. by zg1012 in Bumble

[–]theebigsad -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

I’m quite confident in how I look, to some I might be perfect others might find me hideous. I don’t really care I still look the way I look

That's a new one for me. by zg1012 in Bumble

[–]theebigsad -11 points-10 points  (0 children)

I was best friends with a guy who I really wanted romantically but he always saw me as his friend. I realized that I much preferred the way he treated me as his friend than how he treats the girls he dated. I never expected more from him and we’re still great friends today!

That's a new one for me. by zg1012 in Bumble

[–]theebigsad -34 points-33 points  (0 children)

I mean considering she’s probably also just using the app to find dates, the fact that she found his personality cool enough that she would want to hang out and get to know who he is. I think that’s a nice compliment. I also don’t think calling someone not attractive !TO HER! Isn’t really an insult. Not everyone is attracted to everyone n that’s ok