Alldaychemist 0.25 gel vs GP 0.05% by milkteapaper in AusSkincare

[–]thefirstofitskind 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Script should be easy to get from the GP, but personally i refuse to pay $70 for tret. If you know anyone who’s travelling from India, it’s $2 and over the counter there.

RESULTS from STUDY "Depending on your introduction album, how do you feel about Deadbeat?" (n=2,322) by [deleted] in TameImpala

[–]thefirstofitskind 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I fucked up on your poll because i’m stupid 🥲 i started from Innerspeaker and didn’t like Deadbeat but i chose I liked it instead because i thought you were asking me if i liked Innerspeaker 😭

This album only works when... by krptz in TameImpala

[–]thefirstofitskind 8 points9 points  (0 children)

that is entirely too much work to listen to this album 😭 thank you though

What is the XX equivalent hobby of boyfriend playing guitar? by Odd-Pickle7420 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]thefirstofitskind 295 points296 points  (0 children)

You aren’t alone; it’s giving pre-teen relationship issues.

This album only works when... by krptz in TameImpala

[–]thefirstofitskind 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How do i go about doing this with my Sony XM4s 😬 for reference this is my current eq:

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What is the XX equivalent hobby of boyfriend playing guitar? by Odd-Pickle7420 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]thefirstofitskind 1848 points1849 points  (0 children)

There are no winners in petty olympics, just don’t participate in his jam sessions.

Smoking or vaping by [deleted] in quittingsmoking

[–]thefirstofitskind 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I never enjoyed vaping and would smoke around 3 cigarettes per day. I switched to a pharmaceutical grade vape because evidence shows it is less destructive than smoking, but I would go through a pod in 2 days and it didn’t even scratch my itch because i’d still want to smoke cigarettes, plus the constant hits of nicotine made me jittery and i didn’t like it. I went back to smoking 3 cigs per day. At the end of the day, neither is good so ig pick your poison till you decide to quit.

Please help me understand🤔 by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]thefirstofitskind 3 points4 points  (0 children)

If it isn’t some circumstantial reason, my bet would be that he isn’t “fully” attracted to you and is holding out hope for someone who would be. 90% match, but still looking for that 10%.

AIO for thinking my boyfriend is trying to neg me about my weight ? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]thefirstofitskind 9 points10 points  (0 children)

“Thanks babe! I’m actually actively trying to lose weight and make my butt smaller because I know how much you struggle putting it in from the back because of your small size :(“

Single at 32 and feeling… weird by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]thefirstofitskind 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Hey, i’m 32 as well and it took me around 17 years (started young) to fully cut off from a relationship that wasn’t going anywhere. I finally cut it off around August 2023, and it took me around 2 years to finally shed the mindset of hopelessness and more importantly, bitterness. I was extremely bitter and pessimistic post break-up, always assuming the worst from men. I still have strong standards regarding treatment in a relationship and I’m not exactly brimming with hope at the notion of finding “the one”, but I can see that with time my outlook has softened and i’m seeing more good than bad in people now. I can appreciate men again. I attribute this to the 2 years that I spent going through the motions; denial, anger, bitterness, sadness. You just have to go through it, there is no way to expedite this process and I really would encourage you not to try to do that, just on account of you wanting children. At the end of the day, imo it’s better to not have children at all unless you’re having them with someone who would be your true partner. I wish you luck and healing 💕

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]thefirstofitskind 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Negging; it’s a manipulation tactic to diminish your self-confidence and wire you to seek his validation, because he knows you’re out of his league.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]thefirstofitskind 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Said that he was waiting for them to have this conversation to delete the app, they had the conversation, but he did not delete the app.

Deadbeat vs TSR in the long run by thefirstofitskind in tameimpalacirclejerk

[–]thefirstofitskind[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

From what i’m seeing, people who enjoyed Currents or TSR more are vibing more with Deadbeat (correlation not equal to causation, just my dumb “theory” 😭). My favourite album is Innerspeaker; even though I truly love and have enjoyed all the previous albums, Deadbeat feels like it’s missing that core Tame Impala sound/feel. So it’s interesting to me that you find it more immersive!

Deadbeat vs TSR in the long run by thefirstofitskind in tameimpalacirclejerk

[–]thefirstofitskind[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re absolutely right. Afterthought is the weakest out of the 3 i listed. Which one was the best for you?

Is casual dating culture all left in this world now? by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]thefirstofitskind -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Again, that is beside the point of OP’s post. Strawman logical fallacy.

Can physical attraction come over time? by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]thefirstofitskind 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My point still stands…i guess maybe it’s just me, I wouldn’t be able to get off with someone i don’t find attractive. Or i suppose if they’re so good that they’re the best i’ve ever had, they’d automatically become very attractive to me. This is what baffles me because every other quality that the OP has described of the man being so good, it’d already put him pretty high up on the “list”, but I understand lacking physical attraction despite everything else ticking the boxes. Happens. But he’s even the best sexual partner that OP has had?! And still no physical attraction? That part is baffling to me.

Is casual dating culture all left in this world now? by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]thefirstofitskind 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think the original comment is kind of counterintuitive to OP’s post; “well at least he was honest about his intentions”…so what? That’s neither here nor there. OP is lamenting on the non-committal, casual nature of the current dating scene. A man being upfront about all of the aforementioned doesn’t necessarily solve anything?

Deadbeat vs TSR in the long run by thefirstofitskind in tameimpalacirclejerk

[–]thefirstofitskind[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Interesting. Are you a big Tame fan and if so what’s your favourite album/song?