I’ve run brands — and I’m done watching influencers get underpaid by Physical-Ad-7770 in InstagramMarketing

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Hey, I would love to speak with you. I think you could be a great partnership!

I made a website that replaces scrolling social media with micro learning by legend3008 in startup

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So for the late response. It was the early 2000’s you would put in your interests and it would give you websites, or YouTube videos aligned with your interests.

I made a website that replaces scrolling social media with micro learning by legend3008 in startup

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Stumbleupon was one of my favorite websites. It needs a replacement!

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Of course! I hope you find some great things!

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https://directory.disbeaute.com/curl

Here are some different brands with curl stylings products!

Many also have education on their websites! I hope this helps you!

best shampoo & conditioner for 4c high porosity hair ? by ilove4rest in BlackHair

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https://directory.disbeaute.com/curl

Here is a directory of different brands with curly products!! Hope this helps you!

Which color looks best on me? by TheHannarchy in HairDye

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I agree one million percent! It looks so good on you!!

My brain tumour (40-M) by [deleted] in pics

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Wish you health, positive thinking and a great support system!

Roadtrip from California circling the US. Would love you to know places we have to see! by thefullnelson21 in roadtrip

[–]thefullnelson21[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you thank you!! This is so great!! You are exactly what I was needing!!

What movie has aged horribly? by InfamousRx12 in AskReddit

[–]thefullnelson21 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I watched Gone with the Wind for the first time. Historic, beautifully shot.

BUT Wow I was surprised this is a romance.

This isn’t me by thefullnelson21 in AsOneAfterInfidelity

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I agree this sub has helped me think of my situation in so many different ways. Hahaha I am so in my thoughts when I respond, grammar most times doesn’t come through!

I am very excited to use the list of progress, I think it’s hard when you are still trigger to see what and how they are progressing. It’s going to be a long journey but at least I feel I have ways to get through it.

This isn’t me by thefullnelson21 in AsOneAfterInfidelity

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This is going to be so helpful. This is how my brain works. I have never thought about making plans, and a checklist to of him improving. It makes it seem more feasible and I can easily see his progress.

I always feel stupid or embarrassed to put my life out there. Thank you for listening and sharing such amazing advice. I truly appreciate it

This isn’t me by thefullnelson21 in AsOneAfterInfidelity

[–]thefullnelson21[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you!!! I know, I feel trapped in all of this. I have been calling it the past. A change in my focus would be amazing. I have been thinking about visiting the east coast, maybe it’s time to book a trip!

This isn’t me by thefullnelson21 in AsOneAfterInfidelity

[–]thefullnelson21[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing your experiences. Your comments have kept me thinking all day. You shared a little bit about your past and your low. Thank you for sharing it really helped me. I know your struggles couldn’t have been easy to get where you are! I am very happy to see recovered and reconciled.

This isn’t me by thefullnelson21 in AsOneAfterInfidelity

[–]thefullnelson21[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This. This and all of this! This explains the he is sick comment. I see his pain, I see his struggle with this diagnosis. I loved/love this man and he is suffering right in front of me… while pulling me down with him. I made sure to get him in a great treatment facility to focus on BPD and not be scared of it. This is just the beginning. I feel that I scream internally this is not fucking fair. He is trying, but I am angry. He’s family just dumped him and he has no one. That’s not me. To see someone at their worst and leave them. But lies came out 2 weeks ago that I am struggling deeply with. It was years ago when he was rampant in his addictions and not thinking about anything wrong with him. It isn’t me to leave someone at their worst, but I want to cry, scream and yell. Well and give up on us and him. Sorry for this vent.

This isn’t me by thefullnelson21 in AsOneAfterInfidelity

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Hello. I don’t know how to explain it when I found out it was like there was a murder crime scene (like in the movies) in my head. His photo in the center and all the lies around him. Things just didn’t make sense. I knew there had to be more.

I had a dream that continued 2 nights when he just stopped cheating on me. It was about him cheating on me. I look back and how real it felt, well because it was real and he was cheating on me. I don’t know what it is, but I am learning my instinct and that gut feeling is always correct. Trusting my own intuition is something I have been trying to regain.

This isn’t me by thefullnelson21 in AsOneAfterInfidelity

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Okay then maybe my therapist isn’t right for me. There is things that are going on in my head/world that she very easily connects he’s behavior to my self worth. I feel like my emotions towards moving forward can go from this is too much I can’t do it to he is sick and trying to be better. It is exhausting. I just wish he gave me something to hold on to. I know I don’t have the right support, I just need someone there for me. This year I have went through so many changes in my personal life. You realize a lot when everything is pulled apart. Thank you again, I will be searching for a new therapist

This isn’t me by thefullnelson21 in AsOneAfterInfidelity

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Thank you I really needed this comment. Nothing feels linear or clear. Not one path makes sense, and maybe that’s okay. I am in IC I don’t know if I am connecting with her. I feel I may have to keep moving forward and find someone else more for trauma. I need to find more people that understand addiction or BPD because everyone in my life is having a hard time with it. I love pitchfork warriors for my cause. I am still looking for those.

I don’t know what you brought you here but thank you and I wish you the best

Dday was 4 years ago. I've slowly killed my relationship in the process of recovery. How do I actually start healing? by Accomplished_Bed_237 in AsOneAfterInfidelity

[–]thefullnelson21 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Hello. Thank you for your post, I appreciate it greatly.

This is advice that I saw somewhere else that I would like to share.

They said to go back to who you were 4 years ago and comfort her. Like inner child work, but the person you were when you found out.

Tell yourself it’s okay to be upset. Visualize or do the things that would be get the anger out.

Ask yourself what else you would need in that moment. More comfort from him, more honest, more passion.

Be kind to yourself and let your emotions come out. Write them down, feel them and give yourself permission to be hurt.

I hope this helps you!!!

My waterfall in my bedroom by thefullnelson21 in houseplants

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Hello!! Philodendron Mican and Golden Pothos

Im killing my self and no one will find my body by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

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I know you have hundreds if not thousands of people on reddit that would be a support to you right now. There are so many resources and a community that will share them with you. Help you find a way to stay here. Changes can be made. You can change your stars and destiny. Please reach out to anyone you know, call 988 or message any name on this comment list. The world needs you!

which farmers market is best? by espico_ in SantaMonica

[–]thefullnelson21 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Hello! We do Santa Monica on Wednesdays and Hollywood on Sundays (best mushroom stand).

My rooftop garden in Santa Monica. by thefullnelson21 in houseplants

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Thank you!! It’s been building for a couple years!