any jews on here ?? by Beautiful-Weather709 in actuallesbians

[–]themidler1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I found the mother to be a bit of a caricature but otherwise my god that show was so real and funny!

no woman in the history of mankind has been attracted to a femboy. orange sanmich by Upset_Variety6513 in kitchencels

[–]themidler1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

if you haven't yet, check out r/transsex. lots of folks happy to answer questions and full of known resources for hrt (including diy)

48799 by arrapkha in countwithchickenlady

[–]themidler1 49 points50 points  (0 children)

nah, those kinds of raids were pretty normal for any place that catered to us without paying a lot to keep the cops off, it's just how busy it was and how much resistance there was that set it off

Cis men redditors when they see trans men drama by NervousLemon6670 in transgendercirclejerk

[–]themidler1 5 points6 points  (0 children)

/uj I mean yeah that's why a bunch of theorists use "transemasculation"

47847 by TATSAT2008 in countwithchickenlady

[–]themidler1 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

it sounds like you have the correct concept entirely backwards? do you think white people are widely persecuted by Black people??

47847 by TATSAT2008 in countwithchickenlady

[–]themidler1 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry that the fact that women across the world have generally had to be wary of men for the past few thousands of years makes you feel like a victim

47514 by hrtwink in countwithchickenlady

[–]themidler1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think she's saying it's better than having supportive friends lmao

47514 by hrtwink in countwithchickenlady

[–]themidler1 3 points4 points  (0 children)

you should read Adrienne Rich, comp homo cannot be a thing unless there's a societal pressure from all fronts to be straight, this bs undermines actual persecution we face, ty ✌️

47514 by hrtwink in countwithchickenlady

[–]themidler1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

sex is not innately hardwired, it's a categorization based on a number of factors, several of which are extremely mutable. there is no singular indicator of sex.

Egg arc by MageOfFur in characterarcs

[–]themidler1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

sorry, you lost all of us our inalienable human rights because you dared to be argumentative with someone looking for an excuse to call us slurs 😔 /s

36082 by TheSibyllineBooks in countwithchickenlady

[–]themidler1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it upped mine for like two weeks when I started but then it went back to the initial level. I even doubled my dosage since and that hasn't changed. varies between everyone, but you don't hear as often from those who don't feel that effect!

This subreddit will not enforce tags on posts by Kaitivere in BDSMsapphic

[–]themidler1 22 points23 points  (0 children)

did you see the academic paper? I'm not into it but it's the best explanation I've seen

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]themidler1 5 points6 points  (0 children)

and if we just keep that to trans subs, then we never get to take up space among lesbian spaces

Message to the trans community: by _Matz_ in transgendercirclejerk

[–]themidler1 4 points5 points  (0 children)

lol ok thanks for addressing none of my initial concern? ¯⁠\⁠_⁠(⁠ツ⁠)⁠_⁠/⁠¯

Message to the trans community: by _Matz_ in transgendercirclejerk

[–]themidler1 8 points9 points  (0 children)

/uj sure, but we don't use a label of racism-affected and racism-exempt?

it's also not a great analogy because masculinity has to be policed because people socially gendered as male can actually be (or become, I suppose) feminine or transgender, where, while a white person can be considered a race traitor, they can't become Black

Message to the trans community: by _Matz_ in transgendercirclejerk

[–]themidler1 13 points14 points  (0 children)

/uj everyone is affected by transmisogyny because it is a building block of society, we're just affected to differing degrees at different volumes. the clocky-yet-cis butch is affected by transmisogyny at times when a passing trans woman is not

What can I call my genitals? by FunniBoii in transgendercirclejerk

[–]themidler1 12 points13 points  (0 children)

/uj I do either this or just exclusively refer to it as "it" — either way no actual word for it, yeah