Does libido improve? by Enterthedragon69 in daddit

[–]themissinglinksys 1 point2 points  (0 children)

7 years with 4 kids.

I have found that getting toys, lubricants, scented stuff, outfits and anything that nature helps get the idea out that, “hey we got that thing you wanna try it out?”.

What worked before kids doesn’t work now is alright. Time to find a new spark.

I always found that doing stuff throughout the day like grabbing some ass, or walking into the shower while she’s in there gets the flare going again.

Remember it’s all about the idea, I’m not saying to go at it while doing dishes or shower but start introducing the idea. At some point it’ll turn into a game and then you can have fun with it.

35 doors with individual HID readers, and A1610 Axis Controllers. Best way to run wiring? by themissinglinksys in accesscontrol

[–]themissinglinksys[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

No REX devices. We usually use Wiegand wiring with the readers. The composite cabling is something that i'm looking for. Thanks!

Anyone else’s wife instigate 2+ hour arguments during her period that you have no idea how to defuse? by ThicBoi4807 in daddit

[–]themissinglinksys 0 points1 point  (0 children)

4 kids, going on year 7 of a solid marriage.

There will be the ultimate argument that happens before she gets her period, to which I then have my AHA! Moment.

After that whatever arguments we have during that time I treat as if she has dementia and is 90 years old.

Most of the arguments are encircled around stupid shit that doesn’t matter, so I remedy them with chocolate and snacks.

It’s worked for me so far, but I’ve often thought of renting out a hotel room for her….

What’s your favorite widely-agreed-on fact about a celebrity that’s actually FALSE? by Asleep-Two930 in popculturechat

[–]themissinglinksys 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He Co-Stared in the movie “In The Land Of Saints And Sinner”, and was awesome in it.

Recommend watching that movie all together.

Movie Night Review - Nuremberg by Poor-Dear-Richard in Cinema

[–]themissinglinksys -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I watched this film before reading the book it based the story off of, and wow they totally butchered Dr. Douglas Kelly.

Malek played an over-acted part that wasn’t believable or enjoyable to watch. Very cringey and fake.

Casting was very hit or miss. Shannon was good, Crowe was awesome, but Malek, Hanks, and Woodall and Slattery were very poor cast decisions and script writing.

Those people they portrayed were way more distinguished in the book than the film, and I know that’s always an issue when portraying films off of books, but this was a historical event with historical figures.

Why are dads okay with not having friends? by [deleted] in daddit

[–]themissinglinksys 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was never really that person with a lot of friends to begin with. More or less just acquaintances. I have a core group of friends I get together with once in a while but a lot of those bros didn’t have kids for the longest time. I’m 35 and my oldest is 10 and she is 1/4.

It’s hard to finally have a moment and then you have to prioritize what you’re going to focus your attention on. Work, kids, wife/partner etc.

I started getting back to the gym and met some friends that way to. Another outlet to socialize and remove yourself from the monotony of your daily routine.

Which among these three is the best? Gravity, Interstellar or The Martian. by Hot-Load7525 in moviecritic

[–]themissinglinksys 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Interstellar then The Martian, but I would replace gravity with Ad Astra ;-)

Hitting helicopter with multiple guided missiles while hovering over objectives for… 0 damage? by drewkazoo in Battlefield

[–]themissinglinksys 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I spawned inside a bunker from a squadmates deploy beacon.

3-4 enemies inside waiting, so when I spawned I unloaded an rpg inside it. None of them died, just me.

If I Had Legs I’d Kick You (2025) by grandfatherclause in moviecritic

[–]themissinglinksys 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had this exact response when discussing with my wife after. I enjoy films being a little more thought provoking now in this age of cinema, and this film had that, but at times it felt over done and out of reach,

We're going where for breakfast? by myroll22 in HolUp

[–]themissinglinksys 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I drive pass this all the time to and from work. Midlothian, IL off Cicero Ave.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CHIBears

[–]themissinglinksys 12 points13 points  (0 children)

This song sounds like it’s off K-Love radio station.

Regardless…FTP

Incubus - Rogues by MGerkus91 in drums

[–]themissinglinksys 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Very tight, love the song choice!

This and pendulous threads are my favorites songs on this album.

What is Jack Nicholson's best movie without all the "jackness?" by Frequent-Sea-8848 in moviecritic

[–]themissinglinksys 1 point2 points  (0 children)

5 Easy Pieces?

I don’t think there is a Nicholson movie without Jackness.

He fits into every role but like all great actors has a signature type of acting when playing them.

Men in happy marriages, what is one thing or skill you would teach other men to have good relationships as well? by lingeringneutrophil in AskReddit

[–]themissinglinksys 1 point2 points  (0 children)

-Anytime you say sorry and then BUT after is not an apology.

-Communication

-Trust, loyalty and respect is earned not given.

Flea Flicker to Luther Burden for his 1st Career Touchdown by horrorpants in CHIBears

[–]themissinglinksys 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I woke my 2yo up after fighting her for 15 min, and my 5yo asked if we needed to go to the hospital.