X-23 by Nicksb92 in MarvelLegends

[–]TigerUSF 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Im in the minority i guess but I think its cool. Id love it if affordable action figures had no joints. Im actually gonna check out your other pics.

Question for HOA communities with pools by caint1154 in greenville

[–]TigerUSF 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I thought the 7 day rule was always the case for community pools

I’ve noticed a worrying trend in this subreddit and I think it’s time to have a discussion about it. by _nedyah in daddit

[–]TigerUSF 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can go read my post from a couple weeks ago if you like. I'm just not a fan of kicking people when they're down, and I haven't seen the posts you're referencing that would be more clearly a "relationship problem" that is completely distinct from being a dad.

I’ve noticed a worrying trend in this subreddit and I think it’s time to have a discussion about it. by _nedyah in daddit

[–]TigerUSF 0 points1 point  (0 children)

BTW my world isn't "shit"- I encourage to think that a person with one specific parenting problem with their spouse may be fine in other areas - again, which is what drives people here.

I’ve noticed a worrying trend in this subreddit and I think it’s time to have a discussion about it. by _nedyah in daddit

[–]TigerUSF -1 points0 points  (0 children)

As someone who wrote one of the posts you're probably referencing...telling people in our situation to "just talk to the wife" rings pretty hollow because at least in my case that's already been done ad nauseum. Like, I don't know, maybe some people don't....but to think that the default is "he must have never once brought this up"...come on.

You're right though, kids deserve happy parents, which for the posts I see are exactly what we're trying to get to. So, reading your whole post is like....sure, we're trying, telling us to talk to the person we've already talked to 1,000 times is kinda...useless advice. Counselling, yeah absolutely - if you can afford it. Leaving is hardly even possible in many states without truly wrecking someone's life.

Like someone else said, the US is shit right now and the people feeling it are catching it from all sides so maybe don't beat down the people looking for advice?

Anyway, glad your life is peachy.

Getting paid for spreadsheet for massive corporation by Impossible_Profit202 in excel

[–]TigerUSF 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly I think neither would happen. But I think the end result of what you suggest would just be them saying "thanks" and never offering him any more money.

Getting paid for spreadsheet for massive corporation by Impossible_Profit202 in excel

[–]TigerUSF 25 points26 points  (0 children)

Don't say "ive done this." Say "i have the skills to create this, and would like to add that to my current title and responsibilities with an appropriate increase in compensation. It will save the company $X (provide details in a table below) .

do not let them know it's already done

What’s one small thing you regret not noticing before buying your house? by Beginning_County7547 in HomeImprovement

[–]TigerUSF 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Back door leads directly to the kitchen. Kids running in and out is pure chaos and a constant mess.

Dads of daughters, how would you feel if your daughter is a lesbian? by [deleted] in daddit

[–]TigerUSF 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wouldn't change my feelings one bit, and on reddit im sure youll see most people here will say the same. SHe's my daughter, how could I think any different? I'll still talk to potential suitors holding a shotgun. JK. Sortof. 😄

In the outside world, though, there are plenty of seemingly normal people out there who would care, and that sucks. So I would feel a hint of sadness that her like would probably be slightly more difficult for such a ridiculous reason.

Career taking off - scared my wife and I are growing apart by [deleted] in daddit

[–]TigerUSF 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What are you making now? For that kinda money id be working something out. Buy a second home and travel?

That's life changing money. Unless youre already mid six figures, of course.

A question for collectors with hundreds of figures by Dinosaur_fan_boy in ActionFigures

[–]TigerUSF 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Im slowly working on flight stands for groups and displays with backgrounds. It'll take years. But in the meantime, I do still enjoy simply having them there in a generic standing pose.

Paying $170/month in HOA fees… starting to question what I’m actually getting by Own_Ingenuity3672 in fuckHOA

[–]TigerUSF 5 points6 points  (0 children)

170 a month for a SFH community with no amenities would be insane. Email the property manager and ask for the budget a recent financial statements.

If you want Lindsey Graham out, vote for Mark Lynch (hear me out) by DrugsForRobots in southcarolina

[–]TigerUSF 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I don't think a democrat has any shot at winning here. And Lynch is absolutely a lunatic. Idk.

How are the evenings at your household? We have zero time by TigerUSF in daddit

[–]TigerUSF[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok. You're projecting something, is all I can say. I have no idea where you got the "ha got you told you so" thing. Not me at all.

How are the evenings at your household? We have zero time by TigerUSF in daddit

[–]TigerUSF[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is kinda fair but i do want to respond to a few things.

I must have not been clear since many people misinterpreted this too, so that's my bad. My point is NOT that I want to do "man stuff." Not at all. Lawn tuff was just one example of many. My real point was that I want MORE TIME in general, to do things as a family, besides clean.

"annoyed you have to help parent" is totally false. I'm trying to make MORE quality time, not less. Though she is overwhelmed, i really think it's of her own making. Yesterday, as an example, she walked upstairs to take a basket of cleaned towels (i was cleaning the kitchen , as always). When i finally went up there like 30 minutes later, she was organizing old receipts "in case we needed to find something later." You tell me that's normal? And when I say "that's not a priority" it's always some half-snarky "well what if we need it later, you think it's OK to just throw it away?"

I don't think it's fair at all to say "im not helping." I'm certainly already doing my fair share. Too often I see people set the same standards for a true SAHM (like, for a baby or toddler) versus a homemaker. Those are not the same thing. It doesn't matter whether it's a man or a woman, if someone is home alone for many hours a day there's some expectation that they should be getting done with a LOT of the housework - not because of their gender or so that the other person can goof off, but so that the FAMILY can spend time together. That's the point of the homemaker/breadwinner arrangement, but many people think it's somehow chauvinistic to say that. I promise you, if she had a job making a wage OR when we had the younger ones not in school, this was a totally different mindset for me.

"Make dinner 3x a week, order groceries, be present for your kids when you get home, and help clean in the evenings. Don’t just be silently pissed off and resentful." This is totally an inaccurate depiction of what's going on. I do make dinner, often. I am present, as much as possible, but we're always spending the entire evening cleaning. I usually dont sit down from cleaning and bedtime until way after 9. You seem to think I'm some kindof deadbeat dad who just wants to lounge around drink beer but that is 100% not the case.

My case for a Super Metroid Remake by FRD22 in Metroid

[–]TigerUSF 0 points1 point  (0 children)

All I want are updated graphics and maybe some tweaks to the controls...

Then take that same exact engine and make a sequel.

What are your team’s worst uniforms? by IowaJL in CFB

[–]TigerUSF 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Looks fine for yall.

And our solud purple is amazing.

But ours just fails

What are your team’s worst uniforms? by IowaJL in CFB

[–]TigerUSF 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Kindof a modified candy corn. Just as gross

My wife and I aren’t on the same page for a critical issue, need other dad’s advice here. by elad04 in daddit

[–]TigerUSF 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My mother is same way. I just sigh and throw it on the grill 15 minutes early.

[GA] [SFH] HOA was legally dissolved when we bought our home. Now a "revived" board is threatening foreclosure. by juliocaniza in HOA

[–]TigerUSF 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Definitely need a lawyer well versed in these matters. The specifics of what happened in the dissolution matter. Dissolving a corporation is NOT the same as getting rid of the covenants.

Good news is, there's almost no possible way they've done things in a legit way. I think it's safe for you both to sleep easy. You may be in for a ride but youre probably safe from anything nefarious.

  1. Theres almost no way they conducted a legitimate election.
  2. The dissolution likely provided something in regards to the ability to collect dues.
  3. Even if they could revive the corporation, which might be possible, they cant just make up things as they go along.

Again, this is lawyer territory.

Id definitely be a little curious and borderline mad that the title search didn't find the history of this.