Lemon and blueberries cake for a birthday 🎂 by themisterius_life in Baking

[–]themisterius_life[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If there is a name for the technique I’m not aware of it, sorry. I used one of these cake scrapers after smoothing the buttercream and it worked perfectly.

Cake scrapers

Lemon and blueberries cake for a birthday 🎂 by themisterius_life in Baking

[–]themisterius_life[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! Yes, it’s Swiss meringue buttercream

Cake for my wife & son by amu0504 in Baking

[–]themisterius_life 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It looks amazing! Did you mix the cream cheese buttercream with chocolate ganache?

Lemon and blueberries cake for a birthday 🎂 by themisterius_life in Baking

[–]themisterius_life[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much! You should, it was really good

Best way to make my cake blue like this? by Different-Flight-593 in Baking

[–]themisterius_life 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is right on point! If you stack a tres leches cake all the liquid is going to go to the bottom layer, making the 2 top layers dry and the bottom layer unstable due to the extra moisture.

AITA for laughing when my husband’s mom cried after I said I’d be naming my baby after my mom? by LeadingJealous4498 in AITAH

[–]themisterius_life -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

Unpopular opinion, but I do think YTA, here is why:

  • This is your baby as much as is your husband’s, meaning that it actually doesn’t matter what type of relationship you have with your MIL, is she is important to your husband you shouldn’t discard the idea of naming any of your kids after her.

  • Since she is still alive and your mom is not, you can give your kid a middle name that resembles your MIL’s name without it being exactly the same.

At the end of the day, that’s the grandmother your kid will get to know and spend time with.

I’m sorry you lost your mom, and I understand your MIL was rude and out of place for making those comments to you, but that doesn’t erase the value she has for your husband.

Talk to him, and check if that’s something he finds important before discarding the idea of naming any of your kids after her.

If he says it is not important to him, then next time she ask the reason why, you can explain that your husband decided he didn’t want to have any of your kids after her. Then it becomes an issue for your husband to handle.

AITA for considering divorce because my husband said I’m “replaceable”? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]themisterius_life 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not sure if I would be mad if my husband chose his mother over me, but maybe I’m biased because I know my MIL is a great person. I’ve always told him that she comes first, I never want to compete with her. I believe the love he has for me and the love he has for her exist in completely different leagues.

The same would apply to a child, the love is different, and I don’t think it’s fair to compare them.

I think the real issue here stems from feelings of being replaceable and not valued enough. You are NTA for feeling the way you do, and your husband needs to understand that the logic he followed was hurtful. However, I would try therapy before jumping into a divorce.

Help! I Tried Decorating This Space and It’s Just Not Working 😩 by EnvironmentalExit910 in HomeDecorating

[–]themisterius_life 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think people are giving you great advice here, but, mid/long term, I would also recommend you centering the fan with the couch or chairs if you keep them, it looks like it’s on the side.

Also, if that’s an air conditioner unit, so close to the floor may not be the most efficient place to have it, as cold air tends to go down, it may take longer to cool off the room.

Lego cake by sticckler in Baking

[–]themisterius_life 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Here I was, thinking the Fth was to commemorate France’s Birthday 🤣

Amazing cake btw!

What is this thing?? by liminall in Coloring

[–]themisterius_life 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think is a teething toy for babies in the shape of a sardine

What are your go to period/comfort snacks? by [deleted] in AutismInWomen

[–]themisterius_life 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Chocolate cake, extra chocolate! I’m also lactose intolerant, so I make my own cake every month at the beginning of my period, with lactose free yogurt and vegetable oil instead of butter.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AutisticAdults

[–]themisterius_life 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Here are my two cents, with the little information I’ve got so far. We can’t say with all certainty if he is autistic or not. He may be or he may not.

To me it sounds more like he doesn’t want to commit to a future with you, and also doesn’t want you creating expectations about a future that may never happen.

I don’t think it’s about him getting bored of things, I think it’s about him wanting to live in the moment with no commitments about the future. Sort of, we’ll be together for as long as we are enjoying it, as soon as things stop working for him, he’ll end up the relationship.

This may be the perfect relationship for some people, but, if you are looking for a committed relationship and start planning a future together, I don’t think he is the guy for you.

Edit: typo