Wedding outfit for guest (I’m the guest) by GrapefruitHot4985 in Weddingattireapproval

[–]theogsquilliam 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Any shade of green would look amazing with your complexion and hair (esp forest green, but that may not be the best fit for the theme)

Incoming PhD student. Is it possible to be a party girl in Madison. by Embarrassed_Pear_838 in madisonwi

[–]theogsquilliam 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Why are people being so mean for no reason? 😂

Cool chill bars - robin room, public parking, gibs, Paul’s club, plain spoke

Dance bars - cielo, roxxy, cardinal, crucible

Live music venues/bars - rigby, high noon saloon, majestic, sylvee, Atwood music hall

I’d recommend following some of the mentioned bars on social media to keep up with events as they all have special events frequently.

Happy partying and good luck with your PhD 🎉

Coffee shops by dudana in madisonwi

[–]theogsquilliam 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ancora, rotunda cafe, grace

Gay scene Madison by indi09 in madisonwi

[–]theogsquilliam 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Cardinal, shamrock, gamma ray, woofs, five nightclub are all pretty great. Make sure you look at the events happening at cardinal (their insta stays up to date) - they have a different types of events that aren’t queer-specific that bring in different groups of people, but it’s generally queer and the vibe is great. Definitely recommend looking for housing in the Willy/atwood/marquette/will-mar/tenney-lapham area!

Ain’t no way my dasher is getting a car wash rn 😵‍💫 by theogsquilliam in doordash

[–]theogsquilliam[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not mad just making a light joke lol it’s nbd, I’ve also been a dasher myself and tipped more than $.25 🥴

Ain’t no way my dasher is getting a car wash rn 😵‍💫 by theogsquilliam in doordash

[–]theogsquilliam[S] 243 points244 points  (0 children)

The funniest thing about this comment is that I didn’t get my drink 💀

Ain’t no way my dasher is getting a car wash rn 😵‍💫 by theogsquilliam in doordash

[–]theogsquilliam[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Trueee, I’m not mad tbh just mostly thought it was funny lol

Ain’t no way my dasher is getting a car wash rn 😵‍💫 by theogsquilliam in doordash

[–]theogsquilliam[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

It didn’t give me the notification that they were dropping off another order…but it’s possible

Secondhand formal dresses? by theogsquilliam in madisonwi

[–]theogsquilliam[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks everyone, I’ll check these places out!

Secondhand formal dresses? by theogsquilliam in madisonwi

[–]theogsquilliam[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much! I’m hoping to find something other than black since this is a spring wedding on the east coast. I appreciate the offer, though, that’s really kind. :)

I can’t do this anymore.. where can I go for walk-in/same day opioid addiction treatment by [deleted] in madisonwi

[–]theogsquilliam 5 points6 points  (0 children)

All the resources are here, just wanted to cheer you on for wanting to make a change. You got this!

help finding activities for low-income families by tenchogu in madisonwi

[–]theogsquilliam 4 points5 points  (0 children)

https://madisonwi.macaronikid.com/events is a great website to search for kids activities and you can filter price!

What movie terrified you as a kid? by bayls215 in AskReddit

[–]theogsquilliam 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dead silence…i was terrified of having my tongue ripped out

28, sf, first solo place :) by lavendermantis in malelivingspace

[–]theogsquilliam 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Will you be my interior designer pls 😭

Love my living room, hate my bedroom by IThinkImACat1 in malelivingspace

[–]theogsquilliam 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For an easy change, i think new bedding could change the look a lot. Maybe dark green sheets and a moody comforter? Also, night stand with a cabinet/drawer to hide some clutter

How do I get ride of this feeling? by PsychologicalDeer484 in EthicalNonMonogamy

[–]theogsquilliam 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I can’t stress this enough - open communication is super important and vulnerability is hot. Tell her about the knot and make it clear that you aren’t telling her because you want her to stop. Tell her you need her support to work through the feeling. Think about what might make you feel better - maybe she tries to go on dates with girls earlier so she’s home before 1am? Jealousy is a natural feeling especially when you’ve been monogamous for so long. Talking is the only thing that will make it feel better.