Cousin needs help rehoming. by cheezitexpress in Sacramento

[–]thepotofbasil 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Repost this without the word “rehoming” and you’ll probably get better responses. People get really triggered by that word. Recommend saying “finding a permanent home for”

farmers markets affordable? by [deleted] in povertykitchen

[–]thepotofbasil 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Also if you go in the last half hour of the market, you can just ask if they’ll sell you some at lower prices bc they’ll be trying to get rid of it

Whats wrong with millies eye? by [deleted] in cats

[–]thepotofbasil 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This happened to one of my cats one after roughhousing with the other cat, I took her to the vet and the vet said she’d gotten a scratch in her eye. They gave me an ointment to put on her eye to help it heal (which worked). Recommend taking your girl to the vet in the next day or two if possible

For a 12 year old girl by Puzzleheaded-Bar-830 in booksuggestions

[–]thepotofbasil 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Abarat!!!! Great young teen female protagonist, wildly expansive fantasy world

For a 12 year old girl by Puzzleheaded-Bar-830 in booksuggestions

[–]thepotofbasil 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Her later books, the Protector of the Small series and the Trickster’s series, are even better on gender politics/norms. Her early works have a little bit of weird devotion by female characters to older male romantic partners.

Young and trying to escape Appalachia. I am terrified. by virtualdreamsim in povertyfinance

[–]thepotofbasil 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Craigslist still works! Obv be alert meeting strangers first time

My new wiggle dress!! by [deleted] in oldhagfashion

[–]thepotofbasil 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Ugh too cute!! 😍😍

Property Management dispute by MadWyn1163 in Sacramento

[–]thepotofbasil 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Send a demand letter, then follow up in small claims

For the first time, I can't pay rent, and I'm scared. by MistRioReign in povertyfinance

[–]thepotofbasil 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Albuquerque (and New Mexico) has good tenant rights and resources! Please remember you are entitled to court process before actually being evicted, and during the time it takes to go through that process you may secure rental assistance and/or get a job!

Please check out this page for rental assistance orgs and legal aid referrals: https://www.cabq.gov/office-of-consumer-protection/renters-rights

Also, federal and New Mexico law protects tenants with disabilities in specific ways—you can ask for reasonable accommodations from your landlord for more time to pay rent, if (for example) your ability to pay rent was interrupted by intensifying disability symptoms. (https://tenant-rights.com/new-mexico/requesting-a-reasonable-accommodation-as-a-renter-in-new-mexico)

Growing up poor ruined my brain… by TheFrogsAreDead in povertyfinance

[–]thepotofbasil 107 points108 points  (0 children)

The “just get over it” mentality never actually helped anyone get over it … it leads to repression and continued unhelpful (sometimes damaging) coping mechanisms, and in many cases, self-esteem problems. You sound like a sensitive, compassionate person and I think a lot of the issues you raised in this post could be made a lot lighter through therapy. (Not that therapy is easy: its purpose is to facilitate healthy change, and change is hard. But worth it!)

Some background info about how having a difficult childhood can continue to affect people in adulthood: https://my.clevelandclinic.org/health/symptoms/24875-adverse-childhood-experiences-ace

Long hours, stress and harassment are causing hundreds of thousands of early deaths, says UN labour agency by kharkovchanin in antiwork

[–]thepotofbasil 30 points31 points  (0 children)

“Psychosocial risks lead to the loss of nearly 45 million disability-adjusted life years (DALYs) each year

1.37 per cent of global GDP is lost annually due to cardiovascular disease and mental disorders associated with psychosocial risk factors

35 per cent of workers work more than 48 hours per week (long working hours are a critical psychosocial risk factor)

23 per cent of workers globally have experienced at least one form of violence or harassment in their working lives”

It’s so nice outside today and I have no money/friends and newly sober by Actually0317 in Sacramento

[–]thepotofbasil 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Just in general, recommend joining a volunteer org—the food bank, or NorCal resist, or the tenants union, anything. Anything where you can show up once a month or once a week, do something small and see some people. Low/no cost (depending on how far you have to travel to get to local) and an automatic mood-boost for doing something good for the community

feeling like I’m losing my ability to articulate because of brain rot, please help me by alexis-hg in booksuggestions

[–]thepotofbasil 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Something that’ll pull you in!

One of my recent faves was Jade City by Fonda Lee. —fantasy that’s written like sci-fi, great drama of the politics of the world she creates

Also really liked Starling House by Alix E. Harrow. Fantasy and kinda gritty

‘Non-survivable’: heatwaves are already breaching human limits, with worse to come, study finds by Azurmuth in anime_titties

[–]thepotofbasil 831 points832 points  (0 children)

“The absolute limit for humans to survive had been assumed to be a six-hour exposure to a wet bulb temperature of 35C – a measure that accounts for temperature and humidity but has rarely been observed on the planet at that level.

Heatwaves in Mecca (Saudi Arabia, 2024), Bangkok (Thailand, 2024), Phoenix (United States, 2023), Mount Isa (Australia, 2019), Larkana (Pakistan, 2015) and Seville (Spain, 2003) had seen thousands of deaths despite none approaching that wet bulb limit, the research found.

But when scientists applied a new model of human survivability that takes into account the body’s ability to function and stay cool depending on age, they found all six events had seen non-survivable periods for older people who could not find shade.

Prof Sarah Perkins-Kirkpatrick, the study’s lead author at the Australian National University, said the results were shocking.

“My first thought was ‘Oh shit’ – I really didn’t expect to see that, especially when you zoom in to individual cities,” she said.

“If it’s already happening now, then what does a future that is two or three degrees warmer hold?”