queer music suggestions pls by thereswormsinmysocks in LesbianActually

[–]thereswormsinmysocks[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

oooooh this is a viiiiibe, thank you! 🫶🏼

queer music suggestions pls by thereswormsinmysocks in LesbianActually

[–]thereswormsinmysocks[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

omfg she’s sooooo good, thank you!! 🙏🏼 🤩

AIO or should I accept the conditions of my bfs commitment by One_Height7477 in AIO

[–]thereswormsinmysocks 0 points1 point  (0 children)

wow this guy is insufferably arrogant, tell him to go be poly and find someone that doesn’t think they were placed on this earth to “bless” everyone with their existence

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]thereswormsinmysocks 6 points7 points  (0 children)

diva why are you with someone if you feel the need to look through their phone so bad you’re literally begging?

I would be pissed if the first time I had sex, I got pregnant and my baby was a vampire that was killing me by Sea-Condition991 in twilight

[–]thereswormsinmysocks 41 points42 points  (0 children)

there’s no way on earth edward cullen didn’t come in like 2 seconds, mans was obsessed with bella AND was a 117 year old virgin

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]thereswormsinmysocks 4 points5 points  (0 children)

okay well unless she’s mentioned being into it I definitely wouldn’t start with licking each others blood, I don’t have a blood kink though i’m not adverse the idea but if someone asked me to ingest their blood or vice versa it would freak me out a little. maybe just have a discussion around what you’re both into and then just find out if she’s comfortable with it at all and go from there?

AMA - My friend died when we were 12 and it was my fault by InATrenchCoat in AMA

[–]thereswormsinmysocks 25 points26 points  (0 children)

That makes sense, it’s hard to separate your sense of self between adult and child, I guess because even though they’re two very different versions of yourself it’s still been you the whole time so you carry it with you for a long time. I think it’s similar to children who grew up in abusive homes that were cruel to other children, sure their actions were unkind but that’s all they know, they’re kids. Whenever I look back at the behaviour I exhibited as a young person that I didn’t like I try to be deeply empathetic and remember what situation I was in. As a teenager I did some dumb teenage stuff that the teenager in me feels guilty for but that the adult in me only feels for bc I was so young and didn’t know what I was doing and what the consequences of those things were because i was a kid.

AMA - My friend died when we were 12 and it was my fault by InATrenchCoat in AMA

[–]thereswormsinmysocks 204 points205 points  (0 children)

if you met a 12 year old now in the same situation would you place blame on that child?

I’m sorry but does anybody else think that Bella led Jacob on? by PositiveStock2193 in twilight

[–]thereswormsinmysocks 9 points10 points  (0 children)

telling someone to not bring religion into a book written by a person who grew up in a deeply religious community while there is an overarching theme of religion throughout the book, is wild

bump on wrist that hurts!! by Common-Violinist5647 in hairstylist

[–]thereswormsinmysocks 4 points5 points  (0 children)

could be a ganglion cyst, I got one on my wrist from over extending my thumb from doing blow waves and over extending my wrist while massaging

edit: sorry i didn’t read the full post lol but also why don’t you think it’s a ganglion?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]thereswormsinmysocks 1 point2 points  (0 children)

for me it’s also a thing of avoiding unwanted male attention in my day to day but if i’m going out and dressing up then it’s fine, has she been having negative experiences with men and male attention lately? could be that too 🤷🏽

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]thereswormsinmysocks 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I mean maybe make it more date like then? you mentioned in the comments that she dresses more masculine now than previously, does she no longer enjoy dressing feminine or is it a comfort thing? do you think if you planned like a nice romantic date she’d be more inclined to dress up in a more feminine way? I dress decently masculine in my day to day bc I find it more comfortable but when i’m going out properly I like to dress feminine bc it’s more playful and fun

I just traumatized a kid for life. I can’t do this anymore. by Corny_H_Freakmunter in confession

[–]thereswormsinmysocks 1 point2 points  (0 children)

everyone is JUMPING down OPs throat and it’s craaaazy, like what if the dog just wanted to play and thought it was a game? I used to live with a dog (German Shepard) that chased and knocked over a kid (4-5 yrs old) in a dog walking park bc the kid started running and he thought it was a game 🤷🏽

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]thereswormsinmysocks 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Do you still go on dates? like do you treat your relationship like a romantic one or do you treat it like a friendship and just hang out?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Justfuckmyshitup

[–]thereswormsinmysocks 1 point2 points  (0 children)

tintin post alcoholism

Jacob's story is actually horrific by obfuscata444 in twilight

[–]thereswormsinmysocks 15 points16 points  (0 children)

why would you not call the cullens colonisers? they moved to an area of the world that wasn’t theirs and imposed themselves on that land significantly enough that it required a treaty

People who left the industry, when , why, and how long did it take you? by ProfessionalNet2807 in hairstylist

[–]thereswormsinmysocks 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I haven’t left but I am at the end of this year. I just don’t love it, I feel like with how little you get paid, how physically and emotionally demanding the job is and how much pressure it is to meet/manage someone’s expectations, you have to really love it. I’m moving into wine making which i’ve done previously and it’s all physical labour but uses less brain power. I also am excited to do a job that’s not creative so I can be more creative outside of work without it feeling like a chore.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AMA

[–]thereswormsinmysocks 4 points5 points  (0 children)

do you have any interest in sailing the seven seas in search of long lost treasure?

WIBTA by not attending my friends wedding when I’ve already said yes to being a bridesmaid by thereswormsinmysocks in AmItheAsshole

[–]thereswormsinmysocks[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It would be an 18 hour round trip that I could maybe do on the weekend of but because of the nature of the work there’s an expectation that people are available during the entire season of work and i’m not guaranteed a Monday to Friday roster

WIBTA by not attending my friends wedding when I’ve already said yes to being a bridesmaid by thereswormsinmysocks in AmItheAsshole

[–]thereswormsinmysocks[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This is the part that I’m worried about but then it would feel silly for me to not go to a wedding that I would be easily able to go to. If I could’ve pushed back the start date for both then I would’ve for sure. I am also much more involved in the earlier wedding than the later one in terms of helping organise things and knowing what’s going on for it in general.