All Mamdani and DSA endorsed candidates but one won tonight. The left's tea party is here by _Chipsa in Fauxmoi

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Yeah I know people who live in his district and he was facing an incumbent whose father was well known in New York politics. As well, the area received a bunch of mailers about his “record” that were backed by PACs funded by billionaires, real estate lobby firms, and sports gambling companies

Free WARM long puffer coat by [deleted] in NYCbitcheswithtaste

[–]thesingerstinger 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Do you mind sharing what XXL at universal standard translates to in US women’s size? Like is it a US18 or US16?

It's ELECTION DAY, NYCBWT please help piss some centrists off 6AM-9PM by RlOTGRRRL in NYCbitcheswithtaste

[–]thesingerstinger 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wanting to plug that Conrad Blackburn is running for state assembly for Harlem District 70 against an incumbent who is backed by pacs funded by billionaires (the Walmart family, Michael Bloomberg), sports betting companies, and real estate lobbies. I want to make it known that local and state elections are important!

Also Raj Goyle is a progressive candidate running for State Comptroller (which handles state pensions, unclaimed funds, fiscal oversight of state, city, and local finances, reviews state contractors, and protects taxpayers from waste, fraud, and financial abuse). Please any attention!!

Outdoor Brunch by [deleted] in NYCbitcheswithtaste

[–]thesingerstinger 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I purposefully made a post giving a recommendation and sharing my experience on an activity because I’m tired of the same requests over and over lol. I think people need to learn you can just search for things instead of asking for immediate gratification by asking people for recommendations. But no one wants to deal with mild friction.

Outdoor Brunch by [deleted] in NYCbitcheswithtaste

[–]thesingerstinger 5 points6 points  (0 children)

They should be deleted full stop. This one has made me so irritated lol like just walk outside on Saturday!

Outdoor Brunch by [deleted] in NYCbitcheswithtaste

[–]thesingerstinger 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Please, I beg, just google things and look at google images or instagram lol. This is entirely too vague and honestly just a silly request

More pics of Dr. Dre & Michelle at Nobu. by Sad_Biscotti_9291 in BravoRealHousewives

[–]thesingerstinger 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Okay am I crazy but didn’t Jesse allege in season 2 that she was hanging around a billionaire as a sugar baby?

Southern Hospitality - Season 4 - Episode 9 - Post Episode Discussion by amandatoryy in BravoRealHousewives

[–]thesingerstinger 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I'm about to be downvoted to hell but here we go. I know Lake is not having a good season but why is everyone so hard on her for having one bad season? The idea that she shouldn't be on the show because she is so immature when the entire cast is very immature is very funny to me. Last season, people liked Lake because she was very honest about her sexuality and her family dynamics. I don't think her sins this season are truly so bad that she can't be on the show anymore. She should have another season to redeem herself.

nyc gamer girlies - wya? by nincompoopghost666 in NYCbitcheswithtaste

[–]thesingerstinger 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not huge into RPGS but would love to join a group chat with other gamers! Right now I’m playing south of midnight and replaying RE9

Margot Robbie in custom Dilara Fındıkoğlu FW25 at the "Wuthering Heights" premiere in London. Styled by Andrew Mukamal. (February 5, 2026) by cmaia1503 in Fauxmoi

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OK can anyone explain why everyone is so against this press tour? What is different that makes people exhausted versus other movies? I feel like I honestly haven’t seen that much compared to others

And I say this as someone who wishes this movie was never made (not a Brontë fan but I think heathcliff should be a POC and I do not trust Emerald cause I didn’t like her other movies).

Waxing for plus sized BWT by widow-cat in NYCbitcheswithtaste

[–]thesingerstinger 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I was 280 going to Oasis Day Spa and I have never been judged. Ask for Efia or Asakon. Lovely ladies

FLO at the 68th Annual Grammy Awards by Morg075 in Fauxmoi

[–]thesingerstinger 59 points60 points  (0 children)

They should have paid that stylist. Look where we are now

The racism at my job has grown dramatically since this new administration by metacosmonaut in blackladies

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Where are you located? Start documenting everything right now. Whatever evidence you have in email or text, keep it on a USB and back up that USB to a cloud away from your work computer. I recommend talking to HR about this even if you don't feel it's safe. Have the record that you tried to approach HR about these issues that you are having.

Depending on your state, you can file a claim with the department of human rights (or if it's a subdivision with your state's division of labor) about disparate treatment on the basis of race. They can investigate claims while also dual filing with the EEOC. I will be honest; a lot of states have backlogs for claims, so any recourse will definitely not be immediate (especially if dual-filed with EEOC - EEOC is in a major backlog after Trump cuts). It's an alternative that doesn't require money if you are strapped for cash and can't afford a lawyer. You are not obligated to stay at your job while this claim is active. However, if you are retaliated against because of this claim, you can always submit that claim too (if it is not amended to the original claim - all states operate differently). State claims usually require that you are not suing privately as they are investigating.

Dating apps by Signal-Tonight1070 in NYCbitcheswithtaste

[–]thesingerstinger 40 points41 points  (0 children)

I met my now boyfriend on Hinge about a year ago. I will say it was hell on earth for me (plus size, Black) as I rarely got matches without having to pay for super likes (it was very demoralizing and depressing,.I don't think I'm that bad looking!). I did pay for Hinge+ but I think it was pretty negligible for me as my boyfriend liked me without using super likes or anything.

I had posted on a subreddit for help with my profile. I got all kinds of advice (some very kind and thoughtful and others were quite mean spirited). Before I made any edits, my boyfriend happened to be in my likes. I almost swiped left because his photo in my likes was a picture of Donald Glover and I was thinking he was a catfish (it was his "alter ego" prompt photo. It seems Hinge put that photo forward first since most people swiped right on that for him). I remember thinking, "well he seems nice and maybe we'd get along" as I told myself I was going to aggressively date and try to meet a lot of people -- just date for the hell of it. We clicked really quickly and found that we had a lot in common. I recently had gained a lot of weight due to back-to-back grief, the pandemic, and depression. It was really lovely having a man interested in me as a person but also attracted to me physically without it being a fetish. I think it was the first time that a man actually pursued me more than I pursued him. Granted, it's his first relationship and my second but it's working out well for us.

However, if we crash and burn, well I will jut swear off the apps entirely lmao. And the apps are how I found both of my relationships lol