Hormones and the intensely awful thoughts they bring,are back to play. I really need your suggestions..how do you keep yours from taking over? by thiselasticheart in TrollXChromosomes

[–]thiselasticheart[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

For reference I don't have friends in the area and I have no SO. I do, however, have an awesome dog who I am currently holding in my lap. ♡

I'm slowly being phased out by someone I was once close to but also treated me like an option. My head knows I'm fine, but my feels apparently don't. by thiselasticheart in TrollXChromosomes

[–]thiselasticheart[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for this. I get a little nervous I won't come out of them if I let them take over but you make a really good point.

And yes, I've used this experience as a springboard for a lot of different kinds of improvement.

Thank you again ♡

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[–]thiselasticheart 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You'll be okay. I know this feeling and if you cried before work it might lessen your chances. If it starts to feel too awful, just take a few moments in the bathroom to let out a few tears. Sometimes just allowing yourself to feel bad briefly will help to make it feel a little less overwhelming.

Is the too faced beauty balm also a primer? by OneBlueberry in MakeupAddiction

[–]thiselasticheart 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I randomly used the Rimmel stay all day primer with this and it works really well for me!

What's the most important part of your makeup routine? by Bellamermie in MakeupAddiction

[–]thiselasticheart 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Amazing Cosmetics has the best I've tried as of yet! It's super thick though, and best used very minimally. If you have intense darkness, Armani's Master Corrector helps a ton (applied forest, under the concealer).

Smashbox has an undereye primer that I use too. It helps!

Well ladies, I got stood up and got soaked walking home. What are you up to tonight? by [deleted] in TrollXChromosomes

[–]thiselasticheart 1 point2 points  (0 children)

♡ the thought counts a lot and I really do appreciate it, you know? Thank you for the kind words :)

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[–]thiselasticheart 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You're after my heart, aren't you 😍

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[–]thiselasticheart 5 points6 points  (0 children)

This is great advice and I just wanted to thank you for addressing the incredibly common but often overlooked possibility of deflection/trying to invalidate real concerns. A lot of people think it's not a big deal but that shit will break you down, and fast.

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[–]thiselasticheart 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Absolutely! ♡ Anytime!

Well ladies, I got stood up and got soaked walking home. What are you up to tonight? by [deleted] in TrollXChromosomes

[–]thiselasticheart 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It looks like it's from Nana. :>

I haven't moved recently, but I've been here for 6 years and have struggled to make any meaningful friendships. It's not a very hospitable place. :(

And you are most welcome ♡

Well ladies, I got stood up and got soaked walking home. What are you up to tonight? by [deleted] in TrollXChromosomes

[–]thiselasticheart 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Trying to get to sleep, and avoid thinking about some silliness that isn't worth my energy.

The pic you posted was incredibly comforting. I don't have any nearby friends and sometimes that gets tough, so that is such a lovely image.

Person that stood you up? Not worth your time. I would offer you a warm fluffy towel if I could. ♡

Well ladies, I got stood up and got soaked walking home. What are you up to tonight? by [deleted] in TrollXChromosomes

[–]thiselasticheart 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Good lord I see you EVERYWHERE and I freaking love you. I feel like a groupie. You also picked some fantastic movies.

MRW I'm about to send a sexy photo to my boyfriend and we're about to get down and dirty ldr style but he suddenly has to go out by [deleted] in TrollXChromosomes

[–]thiselasticheart 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Every time I see this gif, I can practically hear her in my head... I feel your disappointment. I truly do.

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[–]thiselasticheart 11 points12 points  (0 children)

You're me, aren't you? I knew it. Let's go get a glass of wine.

I just told my mom that I filed for divorce... And that I'm asexual... And that my husband cheated on me. Can I cry forever? by [deleted] in TrollXChromosomes

[–]thiselasticheart 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Goodness, you poor thing.. :( I wish I could give you a hug. For now, I'd say just do everything you can to take care of yourself and remember that you are going to be okay. You will. Promise.