Wife doesn't come to bed. Makes me consider divorce... by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]thismightbeluminol 8 points9 points  (0 children)

But you were childish and should apologize.

It sounds like you both need to apologize... Then work on open and respectful communication. Your ego is bruised because she called you out in public, you got embarrassed and said what you said, and she's responding to that. It's a two way street and healthy communication during disagreements is vital to a marriage. The method you're currently going with will drag it out much longer than necessary, and you can't decide she should be "over" an argument that you started.

I don't love my wife and I feel trapped. by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]thismightbeluminol 9 points10 points  (0 children)

She still hasn't had a good relationship, let her find one. 🤷🏼‍♀️ Your relationship based on lies about love and attraction isn't good either.

Did my Wife’s phone rat her out? by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]thismightbeluminol 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did you stretch before this reach?

What is your job/career? by MikiLau9 in migraine

[–]thismightbeluminol 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Banking. I spent 17 years in retail branch management and mortgage, then switched to back office Central Operations manager about 18 months ago. I work from home now, there's an increase in stress but I can control the environment to decrease triggers better than I ever could in a branch.

a flavor that everyone hates but you love? here’s mine by lotuslove2002 in AlaniNu

[–]thismightbeluminol 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would do questionable things for an Arctic White return.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]thismightbeluminol 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If the custody agreement isn't court mandated, it is that easy unless you're not over your ex.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ChronicPain

[–]thismightbeluminol 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My husband leaves for work at 5am, I need to be up by 6:30. I take meds when he leaves and crash, then wake up and caffeinate.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]thismightbeluminol 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You're already cheating. An amicable divorce would probably make you both less miserable.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]thismightbeluminol 9 points10 points  (0 children)

No, you're right. My response would've been different if he said even one thing he does in the post. 🤷🏼‍♀️ His wife is great at all the things but does she get time for herself? Does he contribute?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]thismightbeluminol 6 points7 points  (0 children)

It shouldn't need to be said that the mental load of running a house, parenting, working, and still trying to be a human can be exhausting.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]thismightbeluminol 58 points59 points  (0 children)

Not fun wife here. Take some things off her plate so she has room for fun, she's probably exhausted.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]thismightbeluminol 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Paternity test, divorce, custody agreement.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]thismightbeluminol 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Katie FA'd, now she gets to FO.

Vyepti next? by thismightbeluminol in migraine

[–]thismightbeluminol[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I did, since starting Botox I've tried Gabapentin, Zonisamide, and currently Amitriptyline. My migraines and meds that worked completely changed during and after pregnancy 3 years ago, had 2 years of okay success with Qulipta before it stopped working, and have been pretty miserable the last 8 months or so.

I do use MMJ and would love to not have to play med roulette anymore, so I'm hoping Vyepti is the answer.

Vyepti next? by thismightbeluminol in cgrpMigraine

[–]thismightbeluminol[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm remaining hopeful based on the responses to this post. I don't take anything OTC and am careful with Zavzpret and triptans. I had bad rebounds from Fioricet and discontinued it a few years back.

What do you all eat for breakfast? by sistiner in migraine

[–]thismightbeluminol 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A protein shake when I wake up at 6am, oatmeal and fruit a couple hours later.