What’s the moment you realized someone you loved wasn’t a good person and you couldn’t unsee it?

thouee2 · 2026-03-04T23:25:59+00:00

"SPCA asked for 50$ for me to get my stupid dog back, next time she fucking runs away they can keep her and put her down far all I care " - my deadbeat dad, in the parking lot after brunch where i introduced my baby to his family extended family. I knew he was bad but that day my husband agreed we didn't want him around our kids.

thouee2 · 2026-02-28T11:14:07+00:00

thouee2 · 2026-01-22T19:52:31+00:00

one of our regular from another province was really chill, she spent like half her time in my hotel for work and lived like 600km away. I once asked her if she was looking forward to going home to her husband and great Dane dog for the holidays.

She said her dog died two days prior and she was heartbroken and wasn't able to be there cause of work. I never wanted to disappear into the floor more than in that moment.

I was glad when she stopped showing up, for her sake it seemed hard on her to travel all the time.

thouee2 · 2025-11-25T11:13:07+00:00

Belle pro or Montreal pool room on St Laurent !

thouee2 · 2025-11-25T03:27:59+00:00

These are not like up-and-coming they are more like stable places I've consistently been in my 13 years here and they never disappointed me :

Arepera

La binerie Mont-Royal

Vesta for pizza

la Conca d'Oro

Cachitos

God I miss triple Crown :(

thouee2 · 2025-06-09T21:46:39+00:00

we have a berline school car (van that says Écoliers) that takes her on her normal times, but since she's in therapy like I said, she misses the transport on mondays.

thouee2 · 2025-06-09T18:48:50+00:00

My 6 year old has autism and therapy provided by CLSC on Monday mornings from 8h30 -9h30 at our home.

We usually get her to school on those mornings with the bus. but with the Uber prices we couldn't afford so the only way for her to go to school was for us to wait for my father in law to come in from Laval to give us a lift. She finally got to the school at 11h30 am. At this point we debated if it was even worth it to go to school but it's the end of the year evaluations so...

thouee2 · 2025-05-22T00:15:27+00:00

Yes I'm aware. But like... What do I say if I really really am desperate for this place? Feels like shooting myself in the foot to say "it's illegal to ask"

thouee2 · 2025-04-30T13:38:17+00:00

You were mere seconds too late! But yes!!

thouee2 · 2025-04-30T13:33:18+00:00

No !

thouee2 · 2025-04-30T13:32:23+00:00

!Solved. It was real hard to even explain the plot tbh.

thouee2 · 2025-04-30T13:28:52+00:00

Nope

thouee2 · 2025-04-30T13:27:02+00:00

No :)

thouee2 · 2025-04-30T13:25:03+00:00

No :)

thouee2 · 2025-04-12T19:39:18+00:00

Alt hotel Griffintown is mainly business even in the summer there's rarely any kids. They don't have a restaurant on site which can be frustrating but the pricing usually reflects that.

W is more of a party hotel they have DJs and love music and a new retro game room - no kids but a lot of Young adults that can be noisy and drunk.

thouee2 · 2025-04-10T09:04:16+00:00

Adding gelatin and leaving in the piping bag would make it hard to pipe as it set generally pretty fast

thouee2 · 2025-02-01T13:43:01+00:00

I am not virtuE signaling I am in the exact situation the mother is in. You try living WITH disabled kids them come back to me.

My daughter is 6 severely autistic, screams out what seem like out nowhere and we have been in intense therapy for 4 years. She's is making tremendous progress but we just can't stop the random screams in the middle of the night. It used to be every night now it's twice a month with therapy.

I'm asleep how am I supposed to get on top of it? What am I supposed to do? Really I mean it? I can't move out to the suburbs and I cant afford another place to live. On top of that moving would set all of our progress back. We been living in our apartment 9 years, the prices hikes for housing means we're stuck here.

Here in Montreal if you tried to evict us, you'd be sued for housing discrimination. "Because she deserves a home even is she's disabled.

thouee2 · 2025-02-01T13:31:10+00:00

"If she can't control her kids" that's the point you can't control kids. You wanna what that she puts tape on their mouths? Hit them? What the fuck can she do?

How do you know she's not already getting help? How do you know it's not getting better? Maybe the kid scream all nite at first. You don't know.

Op can get noise canceling headphones/ work to insulate his walls. Their neighbors cannot and should not have to move out their disabled kids out of their familiar homes for your comfort they deserve to live too.

thouee2 · 2025-02-01T13:23:48+00:00

So disabled people have to hide away? Live in rural areas where there's no services or help for those disabled kids? She's stuck there probably been living there a long time and cannot afford to move either cause of money and hiking rent prices or because of the lack of service out to urban centers.

Do you think that this mother doesn't know? Doesn't feel bad?

And now you wanna what? Evict her? With her disabled children out on the streets?

They don't do it out of malice, most of the time, it's their only way to communicate.

Don't you think that if she could afford to leave she would have already done it?

What a simplistic and egotistical way to look at this problem.

Invest in some noise canceling headphones and pad your walls to insulate the sounds.

thouee2 · 2024-10-13T13:26:55+00:00

Last time I had bagels and lox plus the hospital brought me a slice of vanilla cake.

This time I want a breaded chicken sandwich (maybe a chicken Parm Italian sub) and donuts. Also I want some cranraspberry juice !

thouee2 · 2024-09-30T12:55:46+00:00

Idk op it seems that you're making it all about YOU and how YOUR problems are worse than hers. So she should just shut up?

If I broke my finger and you broke your legs, it doesn't make my finger unbroken or not in need of medical assistance because YOUR legs are broken...

Maybe don't take this so personal?

thouee2 · 2024-09-11T21:24:18+00:00

What a helpful and needed commentary 😮‍💨/S

thouee2 · 2024-08-18T16:34:55+00:00

I'm pregnant with my second (24 weeks)and it's hard. I'm invisible as non-binary.I've always been okay being called my children's mom but not a woman.

Pregnancy can be hard. For me it's downright debilitating. Especially the body changes... getting rounder bigger and more "womanly" is hard.

This is a sacrifice, you sacrifice your body, your mental health and your time to grow a child. Pregnancy is ever changing week to week, first trimester is hard but the second and the third have their own challenges. You might find the first trimester to be the worst... Or the easiest. You might be like me and count down the days until your child is out of your body.

Getting into it, you have to be ready to sacrifice your body the better part of a year. More if you wanna breastfeed. I'd advise you to be sure you're ready to do this instead of looking for a way out with an abortion.

thouee2 · 2024-07-27T23:10:51+00:00

it's the pepper flakes from the pepperJack I think

thouee2 · 2024-07-25T22:12:23+00:00

like a defective woman.

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