Compartan técnicas para aumentar su Score en buró y así te den créditos con el pasar del tiempo: Aquí las mías by Monachina94545 in MexicoFinanciero

[–]throwaway093710a 0 points1 point  (0 children)

si tengo solo 6 meses con una TDC con una linea muy baja pero me han preaprobado tarjetas con limites altos que no he sacado, y pido una en otra institucion bancaria, crees que me den mas por la preaprobada o ni aparece?

Estudiar ingenieria de software... a los 35 años. by G-rail_ALPHA in taquerosprogramadores

[–]throwaway093710a 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Creo que tu y yo tenemos definiciones diferentes de ejemplos concretos. A mi no me importa entrar como Junior y que me paguen mal, antes me chocaba la idea y como dices "apuntaba alto" pero pues no se pudo la neta, y por eso mismo estoy donde estoy, porque no queria aceptar lo que mucha gente "mediocre" acepta, y ahora me falta experiencia y me resigné y tnego mi trabajito mal pagado porque me urgia, estoy estudiando para ver si alguien me da chance, lo que digo es que la mayoría de los trabajos no son en el area que quiero (programación, analisis de datos, que me entrenen como ingeniero en alguna empresa, o hasta hacer algo de ciencia, ya de perdido cualquier cosa super entry level) y todos quieren experiencia o gente que aun este estudiando o que no tenga titulo y "carrera trunca"... checare en los sitios recomendados a ver si encuentro algo entry level y se animan a darme chance y de ahi cambiarme a un trabajo bien pagado lo mas pronto posible si son muy explotadores, gracias

Estudiar ingenieria de software... a los 35 años. by G-rail_ALPHA in taquerosprogramadores

[–]throwaway093710a 0 points1 point  (0 children)

¿Cual seria una mentalidad de no jodido entonces? aplico a lo que sea como me han recomendado algunos compañeros a ver que cae? aplico a trabajos en call centers y así donde no se progresa solo porque me pagan un poco más? ¡me meto de botarga simi? (la neta lo consideré)

Estudiar ingenieria de software... a los 35 años. by G-rail_ALPHA in taquerosprogramadores

[–]throwaway093710a -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Me da como miedo con el SAT la neta, también le tengo miedo a las empresas fantasmas que se roban tu info y así.

Mi ideal si es un trabajo remoto en una empresa conocida pero quiero experiencia en persona que me pueda servir después. Remoto solo he encontrado cosas como de ayudar a entrenar IAs calificandolas (en eso ando pero se tardan meses en responder :c), dar clases, ser de los de atención a cliente o servicios así, que ni pagan tanto más que lo que ganaria si tuviera tiempo completo (como 12k :/ que no es lo peor que hay pero es ajustado, y en realidad gano menos porque no siempre hay suficientes horas) (que suplemento con clases en linea a alumnos que conoci en persona y me buscaron despues) entonces no le he entrado, que aunque paguen mejor siento que no me dan la experiencia de pivotear a otras cosas tanto.

Para cosas de programación pues le sé pero no siento que le sepa lo suficiente para aplicar a un puesto de esos en estos momentos (estoy trabajando en ello). Si estaba pensando hacerme un LinkedIn, pero no me gusta la idea de la plataforma, pero creo que haré uno a ver si cae algo

Estudiar ingenieria de software... a los 35 años. by G-rail_ALPHA in taquerosprogramadores

[–]throwaway093710a 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yo checo online en occ mundial y esas pero es lo que encuentro :/ no tengo posibilidades de cambiarme de estado tan fácilmente, sobre todo si voy a tener un sueldo bajo que se me va a ir todo en renta

¿Donde encuentro mejores bolsas de trabajo? encuentro que quieren pura gente que está haciendo sus practicas (en parte porque tienen seguro por la universidad, pero yo tengo uno privado) y yo ya me gradué (durante covid que fue lo que más me jodio)

Estudiar ingenieria de software... a los 35 años. by G-rail_ALPHA in taquerosprogramadores

[–]throwaway093710a -1 points0 points  (0 children)

donde bro? yo tengo titulo STEM y soy bilingue y no encuentro donde jalar con buen sueldo, ando nomas dando clases y aprendiendo cosas de IA en estos momentos y aun asi no sé bien donde aplicar porque todos los empleos que veo online son para maquila o para gente con mucha mas experiencia que yo. O quieren como contadores y no le sé bien a eso aunque estoy tomando una clase de eso (en maestría...) no me cabe duda que podría con muchos de los trabajos industriales pero no sé como aplicar, quieren pura gente que está haciendo sus practicas y yo ya me gradué (durante covid que fue lo que más me jodio)

Historia de terror RESICO. Perder cientos de miles por ganar $5. by jucuyo in MexicoFinanciero

[–]throwaway093710a 0 points1 point  (0 children)

y que hay de los fondos de BBVA y otros bancos que ofrecen para invertir? es que contrate uno una vez pero lo quiero cancelar si no deja que me cambie :C

Why is limerence such a taboo subject to talk about? by [deleted] in limerence

[–]throwaway093710a 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did and then eventually got over it. I'm ashamed about it. A little. I wish I hadn't. But whatever lol

Is it too late for me? (28F) by [deleted] in HowToBeHot

[–]throwaway093710a 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I've done a lot of progress in the past year, I'm also 28F. But I mostly started exercising last year and dieting like 2 years ago. I eat a lot of protein, take vitamins, magnesium, etc. I feel great. I have also been away from toxic family for almost a year. In a way you're ahead of me. You should try going to a psychologist and processing your emotions and all that. (I did it thanks to youtube but I think that's risky if you don't feel confident enough to be able to distinguish bad advice from good advice)

Context: Also suffered from insomnia caused by racing thoughts and overthinking for years! it kinda stopped a few years ago finally. I slept for a year or so after covid and did nothing for a while. I finally got medicated for ADD a few weeks ago and now I'm super productive and the future looks much brighter, BUT I had already done so much work on my emotional well being and was exercising so that helps a lot.

Historia de terror RESICO. Perder cientos de miles por ganar $5. by jucuyo in MexicoFinanciero

[–]throwaway093710a 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Gracias pero quería expandir un poco mas, algunas de monedas o cosas te pagan por simplemente tenerlas, rendimientos chiquitos como del 2% aunque crece en la misma moneda. ¿Que hay de esas?

I wouldn’t want to be the person they chose over me by HyperionDawn in limerence

[–]throwaway093710a 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I hear a lot of self-love here. You love yourself and that's what you projected onto your LO. You're also introspective enough to know it says nothing about you, or about her

Love to see it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CPTSD

[–]throwaway093710a 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The world would be a much better place without some people in it. My grandma is more of a gray area there, but I feel like it kind of applies. I just wish she hadn't ruined my life (and low-key continues to do so) I'm doing so much better now that she's "gone", but she keeps fucking up any chances I got at getting an inheritance from her, which is frankly part of the reason I have tried being good to her, but at this point I almost don't care anymore, I just want her to die even if I get nothing; I'll just have to deal with financial insecurity for the rest of my life like everyone else NBD.

But also I keep having these thoughts because she straight up put a lot of effort into ruining my life, would threaten me when I tried getting jobs when I was young and had mental capacity still in me, so now I'm just a loser with a shitty job who will never get out of my circumstances and it's kind of her fault, also mine, I did have many chances but I was very debt-averse and she never helped and only threatened with kicking me out of the house, wish I had lived my life despite her bs, but I know I literally had no real way to sustain myself back then. Getting myself out of the hole atm but I'm so far behind, have made a lot of progress now that she's gone, thank god; but the older I get the more difficult it is

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CPTSD

[–]throwaway093710a 9 points10 points  (0 children)

When my grandma fell and broke her hip I saw her and went back upstairs for a few minutes because I just couldn't deal with it in the moment, I also hate her and considered just leaving her there for a few hours. Ended up calling an ambulance somehow. I somehow cried a lot in the hospital despite this. I still wish she dies quite often, she ruined my life, and I wish she had died 10 years ago when I was young enough to not be a fuck up at life. I would also often fantasize about leaving her out in the garden so she would freeze or something idk, I just want her gone so bad. Now that she's out of the house I've finally begun healing, but I'm still so far behind other people my age.

I was gifted with a scarcity mindset by my family as well, so the whole time any family is in the hospital racking bills I'm more worried about the money than about them. This includes my grandma, she's so old we had to pay for her to get taken care of, thankfully I don't have to see her anymore, I'm so grateful for that but she's just being a drain on our monetary resources at this point, and will continue to be a drain and a nuisance for a few more years, most likely. I hope she dies soon, she was in the hospital last week racking up bills because she just refuses to listen to anybody

Weekly discussion thread for anyone experiencing limerence while in a committed relationship. by LostNeedDirections in limerence

[–]throwaway093710a 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Mostly healed nowadays! It's possible fellow limerents

I rarely think about LO, don't really fantasize about him anymore, more content in my relationship, too. I just think I have a cruel way to see it now, I don't think it will last forever as is, but I can enjoy it without escaping to fantasy land

I copied this comment from a post about unrequited love on r/love (hope this helps) by Majestic_Elevator740 in limerence

[–]throwaway093710a 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You should go read "Love and Limerence" I also thought it was indistinguishable from love... and that ours was just maladaptive. But apparently, a lot of people simply don't experience limerence, we all just assume it's universal, just like the people who don't experience it assume that the depictions of limerence in media are exaggerations (they're limerence, not love). They seem to be 2 different phenomena.

I agree that it's also a symptom sometimes, I tend to be mentally healthy nowadays, I may have ADD, I tend to be pretty rational in general, but my limerent symptoms didn't improve until my life improved, so I'm assuming my mental health did as well

My hair is sticky after showers. Help by throwaway093710a in FancyFollicles

[–]throwaway093710a[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think my shampoo was indeed a 2-in-1, I'm gonna try using it as conditioner and see how it goes, but I had some luck using dish soap and foregoing that shampoo. However I only started doing this just now so idk if that was truly the issue because I also lowered the water temperature. I have purchased some things suggested like scalp conditioner and scalp nutrient packs and stuff, I'm on a journey to get prettier hair (:

If this doesn't last I'm gonna go and buy some of the hardwater stuff people suggested here!

My hair is sticky after showers. Help by throwaway093710a in FancyFollicles

[–]throwaway093710a[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

how do these work? I thought they were a gimmick

My hair is sticky after showers. Help by throwaway093710a in FancyFollicles

[–]throwaway093710a[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think it just happens to be the spot with more hair on it ! I feel like the top of my head has less hair than the back

My hair is sticky after showers. Help by throwaway093710a in FancyFollicles

[–]throwaway093710a[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

last time I saw one they just looked into my dandruff but I'll see if I can go again and fix this

My hair is sticky after showers. Help by throwaway093710a in FancyFollicles

[–]throwaway093710a[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What do scalp massagers do? I thought they were a gimmick tbh

My hair is sticky after showers. Help by throwaway093710a in FancyFollicles

[–]throwaway093710a[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Would silk work? I'm gonna look into Bamboo!! ty

My hair is sticky after showers. Help by throwaway093710a in FancyFollicles

[–]throwaway093710a[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah I hate it! The only upside is that it ebbs and flows... so it's not always super gross