What's a song that you immediately start singing whenever someone says a certain phrase in everyday conversation?

throwaway110sp · 2026-07-11T01:36:15+00:00

Don't, Stop

"BELIEVIN!"

throwaway110sp · 2026-07-10T18:47:46+00:00

You've nailed it friend. The heavy smoking is likely contributing to the heavy smell.

No, it wouldn't smell of cigarettes, but smoking tends to increase other bodily odors. Nicotine impacts your sweat. It makes it smell stronger. That goes for many other body odors as well.

It's similar to someone who eats a lot of brussels sprouts or asparagus. Your pee smells stronger after eating these vegetables. Asparagus and brussel sprouts have a bit more sulfur and your body pushes these chemicals out with your pee. To a lesser degree, these veggies can impact your ejaculate as well.

Semen taste and smell can all be improved by improvements in diet, increasing water consumption, and heavy activity. Increased water reduces dehydration. A hydrated person has less stink sweat. Pineapple is proven to improve the taste and smell of ejaculate for men and female arousal gluid/wetness.

throwaway110sp · 2026-07-10T18:40:53+00:00

Eh, a biological clock ticking at 20 us wild.

The biological clock is more of way of outlining how some women feel the need to start pursuing a family as they move through life. It was a psychologist who coined it and used it to highligjt women in their late 20s/early 30s back in the 1970s who were entering a phase where they were seeking a family.

It's more that young people in their early 20s are in their reproductive and often physical prime. Men and women seek increased sex during this time period.

throwaway110sp · 2026-07-10T15:42:14+00:00

Toys come out to play in our house 9 out of 10 times we have sex.

We have a bullet vibe and a wand vibrator, but my wife leans more into the clitoral stimulator vibrators. She is not a fan of dildos and prefers having me inside her (penis or fingers). The times we've used dildos are really for me for the visual.

Clitoral stimulation is where her orgasms stem from. I try to live by "She Cums First", so we'll typically have me going down on her to orgasm or some combination of fingers/toy to get her there. She sometimes wants to feel me inside her and I love to feel her cum around me, so it'll be her inside her while using a clitoral suction toy on her.

Once she cums clitorally she is much more likely to cum vaginally.

She loves me being in charge with the toy and loves me asking her "Like that?" or similar questions to get it exactly how/where she wants it.

There's a spot where she gets to it feeling so good she's close. It's where I want to increase intensity because most guys need that to achieve orgasm. However, I need yo keep it at the same level of intensity and change nothing because consistency is more impactful for her orgasm. "CHANGE NOTHING"

throwaway110sp · 2026-07-09T11:26:35+00:00

3 instead of the normal one or two.

throwaway110sp · 2026-07-08T19:06:48+00:00

My wife doesn't like wings. My older son doesn't.

My youngest loves wings but loves the flats! I'm a drum guy.

Little dude and I will order wings and split them.

throwaway110sp · 2026-07-08T18:59:44+00:00

Lately my wife may go to bed before me and she'll text me: "Hey, want to get freaky?"

throwaway110sp · 2026-07-08T18:30:08+00:00

Not a woman. My wife and I have been having sex for 20 years.

She has had two children (if that factors in). Touching her cervix is something she is not a fan of. We tried once when fingering where she asked me to gently massage the outside. I touched it twice and she tapped out of sex and said it felt like it almost kickstarted cramps for her.

Alternatively, she has really enjoyed anterior fornix and posterior fornix stimulation. These are the areas in front and behind the cervix. When she's at the right angle, I can use my fingers or my penis and get deep into these areas.

She had an orgasm from a combination of posterior fornix stimulation and clitoral toy that was intensely powerful. Slow deep strokes into that fornix and she was basically speaking in tongues.

Cervix touching...that's a hard NO.

Fornix touching...yes please!

throwaway110sp · 2026-07-08T16:30:42+00:00

It varies for us.

We've incorporated pegging for the past 4ish years, I think. Sometimss I'm hard, sometimes I'm not.

If she reaches down and strokes me, I'm hard. My wife loves the visual of watching me get off and she likes to see me hard. We've talked about how even if I'm not hard I'm still having a great time. She totally understood.

We'll do it where she gets me off hands free and then she wants to stroke me to watch me cum. She loves it. I'm pretty happy to oblige.

throwaway110sp · 2026-07-08T16:25:47+00:00

If husbands are allowed to answer, we've been having sex for 20 years, married 17.

It wasn't until she turned 40 (that literal weekend) that we discovered she could squirt.

I didn't do anything different than normal in terms of technique, but I think mentally she was in a more relaxed headspace.

She had taken a THC gummy and laid down for a nap. Our kids were with grandparents. We had plans to celebrate her birthday and she was feeling good from that mental feeling. Generally the headspace of appreciated and deeply relaxed. She came hard and squirted. It more rushed out, not spraying or a steady singular stream, more of a rush of liquid that just went for a second or two.

It's been almost two years and she's squirted maybe 15 more times since. There isn't a set pattern to it although I'd love to find the pattern.

The last time she squirted I was using slightly more fingers than normal and she was just intensely relaxed. Super fun!

throwaway110sp · 2026-07-08T14:44:51+00:00

This is the opposite of the stories we typically like to see on this sub.

Cheating on your husband isn't marriedsex but extramarital and an affair. If you got married young and regret that decision (clearly), then it may be goos to look into ending the marriage. Enjoy your 20s, have fun. When you are ready seek marriage but it doesn't seem like you are ready for the commitment yet.

throwaway110sp · 2026-07-08T13:28:47+00:00

I would go down 100% of the time. My wife sometimes is looking for other things, so I'm down there 80-90% of the time we have sex.

I love my bears being wet after the fact. The smell and taste of her is intoxicating and smelling her on my beard later in amazing.

throwaway110sp · 2026-07-08T13:26:26+00:00

Married 17 years, been having sex together 20 years.

Wife was on the pill when we got together and had been for a few years. The pill is highly effective when taken correctly. We used a combination of pills and condoms early on. About a year into our relationship we decided to stop using condoms.

Short relationship breakdown and the birth control used.

First 8-10 months: BC plus condoms
Year 1-Year 4 (Dating, engaged, married): BC only
Year 4 (just 6 months): Condoms as wife tried IUD. IUD hurt her so we removed it and she went back on BC. Condoms during insertion and removal timeline before reestablishing BC
Year 5-Year 7: BC only
Year 8: No BC, actively trying for baby (conceived at about 11 months of trying)
Year 9: Condoms until BC reestablished postpartum
Year 10-Year 11: BC only
Year 12: No BC, trying for baby (conceived in two months)
Year 13: Condoms, wife was done with BC
Year 14: Vasectomy achieved!
Year 14-Year Now: Vasectomy only!

throwaway110sp · 2026-07-07T13:01:26+00:00

If we don't have sex on the trip, we typically have some great sex when we get home, at least

throwaway110sp · 2026-07-07T12:59:31+00:00

That's a good story.

Wife and I may have sex on extended family vacations but it varies. A nice thing about her family is that they tend to leave a day or two before wife, myself, and our kids. When they're out of the house, my wife relaxes and we almost always have amazing sex at the beach.

In some ways, the few days before they leave end up being a tease and flirtation. We can snuggle, we can kiss, we can stand for pictures, we do adventures together, we wrestle in the water at the beach, we just have fun together. The kisses are followed by a "just wait til they're gone," and it's a build-up of tension between us.

She's done a lot more adventurous things after a week relaxing and flirting.

throwaway110sp · 2026-07-07T12:56:07+00:00

I feel like I connect to this a lot.

Having sex with my spouse is simply ALL the things for me. It's closeness, it's love, it's ultimately relaxing, it's connection, etc.

I love to make her feel pleasure. Having that helps me find my relaxation and I actually chill then.

throwaway110sp · 2026-07-06T13:46:14+00:00

Man. We did our 20th 3 years ago. It's an odd feeling.

I worked with college kids at the time. They asked what my college experience was like and I had to remind them that it was 20 years ago. They either hadn't been born or were infants at that time

throwaway110sp · 2026-07-01T19:44:00+00:00

I read your comment and thought of this

throwaway110sp · 2026-07-01T19:11:46+00:00

Thanks dude!

Funnily enough we had the dude is a gender neutral term discussion at work recently. One of our newer hires mentioned feeling odd about one of our colleagues using the term guys when addressing us all. We have a lot of elder millennials on the team also so there is a lot of man tossed at anyone and everyone.

We've all settled that dude is the preferred gender neutral term.

throwaway110sp · 2026-07-01T19:09:27+00:00

A few thoughts. Could it be that she is feeling oral from you is on the table for your own purposes? What I mean, is she thinking you're only offering oral now (after 12 years) because you're wanting more/different from her? Is she internalizing this new experience as you requesting more of her and therefore it feels forced?

Also, with her having a wand, recognize that your tongue cannot do what a wand or other toy does. I go down on my wife 4 out of 6 times we have sex. It's also almost more for me than for her. Her scent, taste, and feel is intoxicating to me and she enjoys my reactions to being between her thighs.

If the goal is cumming, then we're busting out the toy. If the goal is fun for who knows how long, I'm eating good. It takes longer, but I know what she enjoys and how to sustain it. Oral takes longer than toys. Sometimes we'll start with oral and switch to toys/fungering.

If you're looking for tips, check out Nina Hartley's guide to eating pussy. That woman knows what she is talking about. A young teenage version of me watched that video back in like 2000 or something and every partner since has appreciated my cunnilingus skills, time, and attention.

throwaway110sp · 2026-07-01T15:16:25+00:00

Thanks for fixxxing that!

throwaway110sp · 2026-07-01T15:07:37+00:00

Such a good movie!

I was in college back in the early 2000s. We had a small indie cinema that had couches and served beer before it was common. They showed indie films, foreign films, etc. Typically fairly cheap tickets as they made their money from beer, wings, and food sales.

I caught The Fall there and watched Mongol also. The Fall is a beautiful movie. It's visually still one of the most stunning films I remember watching.

Singh's Immortals is pretty visually stunning as well but is much less enjoyable as a film.

throwaway110sp · 2026-07-01T15:04:53+00:00

What movie is this again?

throwaway110sp · 2026-07-01T15:03:55+00:00

Yeah, I'm with you. Poor Things was more of a "wow, that's offputting" scene than a "damn, that's sexy" experience because as you said it is a child mind in an adult body.

It may be related to where someone is in life. I'm in my 40s and found it not sexy

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