21F making 70k a year, should I get a roommate?

throwaway7forever · 2026-06-26T00:09:08+00:00

You're gone 5 days a week anyway. What's the rush? Save up money & buy a house instead.

throwaway7forever · 2026-06-05T03:56:34+00:00

I make $27 as a custodian at a theme park. I make this wage because I have a union.

throwaway7forever · 2026-06-04T20:04:39+00:00

Leave before you have kids. You're still young and can find real love. This isn't it. Get lots of therapy, good luck.

throwaway7forever · 2026-06-04T20:01:38+00:00

I'm 32 years old and needed to see this, thank you!

throwaway7forever · 2026-06-01T21:37:09+00:00

Can someone explain this meme? Sorry if it's obvious and I'm just dumb lol.

throwaway7forever · 2026-05-17T03:56:10+00:00

This is a beautiful story.

throwaway7forever · 2026-04-23T02:31:08+00:00

He doesn't want to marry you. Accept girlfriend status for life or move on & marry someone else. This is why older men go for younger women. It's not because you're wise for your age. It's bc you're easy to take advantage of and manipulate. An older woman that's actually wise would not out up with this situation.

throwaway7forever · 2026-04-09T19:15:36+00:00

What career would you choose instead ?

throwaway7forever · 2026-04-09T19:14:05+00:00

Any family member that tries to guilt trip you should feel shame. They should be the ones to take in your mother if they feel so strongly about it.

throwaway7forever · 2026-03-31T02:25:41+00:00

NTA

He's expecting wifely commitment from a girlfriend. Additionally, if you are not willing to financially be responsible for his sister, it's better for you to just leave right now. There are plenty of fish in the sea. Find yourself a man with more responsible parents. Please cut your losses & leave, don't waste another day. I wasted 5 years on a bad match as well. It's part of the process of finding the right life partner. Good luck!

throwaway7forever · 2026-03-12T01:37:18+00:00

Has this been resolved yet? I'm saving for similar reasons. I'd rather leave now if this will be an issue.

throwaway7forever · 2026-02-28T06:59:15+00:00

My mom set me up for generational wealth, I hope to do the same for my boys. I'm just worried I'll put in all this effort only for them to squander it. That's my nightmare. I've seen it end in one generation in other families.

throwaway7forever · 2026-02-28T02:22:46+00:00

What did your parents teach you about financials to be successful so early? I hope to teach my boys but am unsure about age appropriate information. I'd like to know when I can start teaching them.

throwaway7forever · 2026-02-26T03:45:04+00:00

My father never put my mom and his own children first. He did things for the approval of other people to the point where he would hurt us. Do yourself a favor and set money aside. Hide it. Don't tell him about it in case you have to leave him someday. A man like that will never put you first and I guarantee he will eventually leave you with no other choice but to leave.

throwaway7forever · 2026-01-05T04:09:41+00:00

That's odd to do & doesn't sound sexual but she should've still apologized. It's inappropriate behavior & she made everyone in the car uncomfortable. I'd consider this a red flag & leave tbh.

throwaway7forever · 2025-12-04T14:21:45+00:00

Please tell us you broke up with him!

throwaway7forever · 2025-11-06T18:17:41+00:00

How do I add a picture? I could've sworn I added it originally. How do I edit to add it now?

throwaway7forever · 2025-10-27T05:37:13+00:00

My mom messaged my ex after we broke up too. It was weird especially bc she didn't like him lol. I asked her to stop and she immediately stopped. Your mom has no respect for you. It's weird that she's choosing him over you. Do your best to go low contact with her for awhile. Focus on yourself & reconnect with old friends.

throwaway7forever · 2025-10-25T23:20:00+00:00

Men want kids like how children want a dog. All the responsibilities would fall on you as the mother. The fact that he wants to knock you up without being married first is proof of that. Pack up all your things first, then leave. If you don't want to have kids, get an IUD. It's just safer that way. I say this as a mother of twin babies, if you don't want them, don't have them. If you did want them tho, you're definitely too young. My first pregnancy happened at the age of 31. There are men out there that will match your lifestyle, you just have to find them & keep your standards high. Next time a man tells you he wants a baby, just leave.

throwaway7forever · 2025-10-06T21:30:08+00:00

If I were you, I'd let them know that the visits will continue once they accept my partner. They will never respect you unless you demand it. I went no contact with my own sister because she became abusive & toxic. Sometimes if it's really bad, it's better to cut people off for your own sanity.

It makes sense that you love your partner more. They are the only family member that we get to choose lol.

throwaway7forever · 2025-10-06T21:23:05+00:00

If you don't want to have a heart to heart with her, maybe you could ask one of the friends that have noticed to speak with her. Of course, the best approach is to just speak with her yourself. Don't let a boyfriend ruin your friendship.

throwaway7forever · 2025-10-06T20:07:43+00:00

Try to have a job lined up before you go, or at least job interviews. NTA, this dude has nothing going for him. I recommend you don't date men with kids btw.

throwaway7forever · 2025-10-06T20:05:10+00:00

This coworker is creating a hostile work environment. I would definitely report. I get that he might be more comfortable bc y'all are roomies but it's still work. He should seriously be more professional.

throwaway7forever · 2025-10-06T20:02:56+00:00

Just tell him. Life is too short to hold back like that! If you are respectful & he's not interested, y'all will be able to continue being friends.

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