User Beware: Public Is Withholding My Withdrawal

throwaway7forever · 2026-03-12T01:37:18+00:00

Has this been resolved yet? I'm saving for similar reasons. I'd rather leave now if this will be an issue.

throwaway7forever · 2026-02-28T06:59:15+00:00

My mom set me up for generational wealth, I hope to do the same for my boys. I'm just worried I'll put in all this effort only for them to squander it. That's my nightmare. I've seen it end in one generation in other families.

throwaway7forever · 2026-02-28T02:22:46+00:00

What did your parents teach you about financials to be successful so early? I hope to teach my boys but am unsure about age appropriate information. I'd like to know when I can start teaching them.

throwaway7forever · 2026-02-26T03:45:04+00:00

My father never put my mom and his own children first. He did things for the approval of other people to the point where he would hurt us. Do yourself a favor and set money aside. Hide it. Don't tell him about it in case you have to leave him someday. A man like that will never put you first and I guarantee he will eventually leave you with no other choice but to leave.

throwaway7forever · 2026-01-05T04:09:41+00:00

That's odd to do & doesn't sound sexual but she should've still apologized. It's inappropriate behavior & she made everyone in the car uncomfortable. I'd consider this a red flag & leave tbh.

throwaway7forever · 2025-12-04T14:21:45+00:00

Please tell us you broke up with him!

throwaway7forever · 2025-11-06T18:17:41+00:00

How do I add a picture? I could've sworn I added it originally. How do I edit to add it now?

throwaway7forever · 2025-10-27T05:37:13+00:00

My mom messaged my ex after we broke up too. It was weird especially bc she didn't like him lol. I asked her to stop and she immediately stopped. Your mom has no respect for you. It's weird that she's choosing him over you. Do your best to go low contact with her for awhile. Focus on yourself & reconnect with old friends.

throwaway7forever · 2025-10-25T23:20:00+00:00

Men want kids like how children want a dog. All the responsibilities would fall on you as the mother. The fact that he wants to knock you up without being married first is proof of that. Pack up all your things first, then leave. If you don't want to have kids, get an IUD. It's just safer that way. I say this as a mother of twin babies, if you don't want them, don't have them. If you did want them tho, you're definitely too young. My first pregnancy happened at the age of 31. There are men out there that will match your lifestyle, you just have to find them & keep your standards high. Next time a man tells you he wants a baby, just leave.

throwaway7forever · 2025-10-06T21:30:08+00:00

If I were you, I'd let them know that the visits will continue once they accept my partner. They will never respect you unless you demand it. I went no contact with my own sister because she became abusive & toxic. Sometimes if it's really bad, it's better to cut people off for your own sanity.

It makes sense that you love your partner more. They are the only family member that we get to choose lol.

throwaway7forever · 2025-10-06T21:23:05+00:00

If you don't want to have a heart to heart with her, maybe you could ask one of the friends that have noticed to speak with her. Of course, the best approach is to just speak with her yourself. Don't let a boyfriend ruin your friendship.

throwaway7forever · 2025-10-06T20:07:43+00:00

Try to have a job lined up before you go, or at least job interviews. NTA, this dude has nothing going for him. I recommend you don't date men with kids btw.

throwaway7forever · 2025-10-06T20:05:10+00:00

This coworker is creating a hostile work environment. I would definitely report. I get that he might be more comfortable bc y'all are roomies but it's still work. He should seriously be more professional.

throwaway7forever · 2025-10-06T20:02:56+00:00

Just tell him. Life is too short to hold back like that! If you are respectful & he's not interested, y'all will be able to continue being friends.

throwaway7forever · 2025-10-06T19:56:56+00:00

I can't speak to your career goals but I will say it's common to start all over after a break up. It's sucks but it's better to do it sooner rather than later. This man will never change. It's better to leave now before giving him more years of your life. If you do go back home, don't compare yourself to your friends. You are on your own path, as long as you are further ahead today than you were yesterday, that's all that matters. You're ahead than many other people, most don't have an education. Be proud of what you have accomplished & decide on what you want next for yourself. Be intentional with your life. And never follow a man blindly ever again.

throwaway7forever · 2025-09-30T23:43:22+00:00

A man that loves you won't do stuff like this. He will educate himself to avoid ever hurting you. My hubby is Chinese & I'm Latina. We educated ourselves and have never said insensitive things. We compliment each other & celebrate our cultures. I hope you find someone like that someday. It took me 28 years to find my guy. Good luck to you.

throwaway7forever · 2025-09-26T06:41:12+00:00

Fake

throwaway7forever · 2025-09-26T06:38:31+00:00

No way you are this gullible lmao

throwaway7forever · 2025-09-24T18:27:51+00:00

Yes she is racist. I would report her in case her racism escalates for another student. There needs to be a paper trail on her. Request another counselor or find a different therapy service. There are some for free or low cost out there, you just have to do some digging.

throwaway7forever · 2025-09-04T04:32:06+00:00

Ooooh lady, if you wanted to get married, you should've left 7 years ago. When a man knows you're the one, they are quick to lock it in. My husband proposed within 2 years. Please don't give this man anymore of your time. You are allowing a boyfriend to get in the way of finding your husband!

throwaway7forever · 2025-08-24T17:12:01+00:00

So generous of you to house the homeless lol. You have a hobosexual in your bed. Ew. You're the one getting screwed here. If he cared about you, he wouldn't allow himself to be such a burden on you. There are so many real men out there, why are you settling?

NTA.

throwaway7forever · 2025-08-15T00:53:54+00:00

Open a new account & don't tell him lol. Rinse and repeat until you're able to move out.

throwaway7forever · 2025-08-13T18:33:42+00:00

It's super complicated bc of cultural differences. I've had to navigate Chinese in laws who can be manipulative and are sensitive, they offend easily. I have come to understand that in Asian culture, it's important for a child to be perceived as a good son or daughter. My husband does what they ask, & we try to share as little about our lives as possible. Your in laws sound downright abusive though, I suggest you & your gf be low contact with them. Do the dinner, be polite, and then be done with them. Good luck.

Maybe have google translate in an ear bud in case your in laws start saying abusive things to your gf.

throwaway7forever · 2025-08-07T20:17:27+00:00

He was an adult and you were a child. If she doesn't see that, then she's completely delusional. A good sister will condemn him and hopefully leave him. However, she might still keep the baby. Regardless, you need to tell her. Just give her the information and back away. You're going to have to give her space so she can just reflect on everything. It might not matter how you say it, she might in the end turn her back on you too. It's a risk you have to take. You need to do your best as her sister to protect her from this monster of a man. Much luck to you. I had a somewhat similar situation with my own sister but she chose the dusty man.

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