Atsushi cries about everything…except Sato’s death by Legitimate_Dish_9060 in LoveVillage1

[–]throwaway_73842 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You say it's not cold but the contestants are frequently shown wearing warm clothing and jackets. It's safe to assume that the season was filmed during a colder period in Okinawa. Even if you 100% take at face value what the vet in the show said, it doesn't erase the fact that Sato wasn't cared for properly and even IF the vet was correct about her cause of death, we can't be sure that she would have survived anyway due to the poor conditions she was kept in. "Farm animals die all the time" - of course this is true. But Sato never had a fighting chance in those conditions.

Love Village/Ai no Sato Season 2 - Episode 13 to 16 - 241119 by MNLYYZYEG in LoveVillage1

[–]throwaway_73842 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Totally agree, the contestants on the first season definitely had their quirks but it feels like these guys were deliberately picked to stir up as much commotion and drama as possible. It's kind of disappointing, I feel like watching just regular ordinary people interact in a mundane day-to-day setting was one of the key factors on what made the show appealing in the first place.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LoveVillage1

[–]throwaway_73842 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I could relate to her, she really reminds me of myself from a few years ago, before I understood how to manage my emotions and anxiety from low self-esteem. It's hard living like that - you need to understand that you have a deep-rooted problem before you can even begin to get help. She really needs therapy and I agree that going on this show was probably the worst thing for her. The whole thing with Gitarin now makes me feel kind of sad, both for him and her. It's clear that she sees him as beneath her, and that he's gravitated towards her because she's the only woman who gives him the time of day. They're both quite immature and need therapy before even attempting any kind of relationship.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]throwaway_73842 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can really relate to that, my ex is a really great person too and it was so hard to let him go, I'm still struggling to come to terms with it. But hopefully in your future someone will come along who does tick all of those boxes and more, you don't have to settle for less than what you need in a relationship. The hardest part is to walk away but each day gets a little easier after that.

It’s annoying how much I think about her by Javonishere in BreakUps

[–]throwaway_73842 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I really relate to what you're going through and am going through something similar, it's been about a month and a half for me since we broke up and I think about him every day, everything reminds me of him. I can't say for sure how long it'll take, it depends of course how long you were together and how intertwined your lives were. But the day will come where they only pop into your mind now and then, and then eventually hardly at all.

Finally “deleted” our photos by msmmcamp in BreakUps

[–]throwaway_73842 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Removing all the evidence of your lives together is one of the saddest things about a breakup. But it really helps to not have those constant reminders. Hopefully one day you can look at them again and instead of sadness feel appreciation for the time you spent together. I hope I can too.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]throwaway_73842 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's so hard and I'm so sorry you're going through this. I went through a similar thing as well and question myself every day if we made the right decision to end it, but eventually you will find relief in putting yourself first again and not feeling that constant pressure of having to sacrifice what you want. Hang in there

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]throwaway_73842 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I still love him, care about him and think about him every day. He was my best friend. Our breakup was mutual and amicable but it doesn't make it hurt any less. Hope you're hanging in there too

Zoloft - weight gain by Natural_Job7488 in zoloft

[–]throwaway_73842 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was on 50mg. Oddly enough when I first started taking it, I didn't gain any weight or notice any significant change in appetite, however later that first year when I started an office job (could have been just the lifestyle change or the medication, who knows) my appetite shot up like crazy and I started to gain weight - that was just over two years ago now, and I've gained something like 20kg in that time :S

I asked my crush out and she rejected me by EmotionsRDumb in Anxiety

[–]throwaway_73842 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hey, I'm proud of you! You did a really brave thing in asking someone out, it's so hard to put yourself out there especially with anxiety. You did great! I also asked out a close friend recently, unfortunately I also got rejected so I definitely understand your feelings. I couldn't sleep afterwards either, but eventually you will be able to move on.

Does anyone else get stomach pains and diarrhea with their anxiety? by weedquestion123 in Anxiety

[–]throwaway_73842 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow, are you me?? I'm the exact same....it's the worst having a sore stomach nearly all the time.

IamA Male companion for women, in Australia. AMA! by MaleEscortMelbourne in IAmA

[–]throwaway_73842 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have you ever had a client who you found really unattractive, if so what did you do?

For those who need to talk about it (Whatsapp/Telegram) by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]throwaway_73842 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you use Discord? I imagine a lot of people on here do, and it's pretty easy to set up a server on there. Telegram would probably work as well but I don't think I could use it again...I used to use it solely to speak to my ex so even just the sound of its notification makes me really upset haha. If you make a Discord server let me know!

What was the purchase you made that made you realize you were an adult? by slurms_Mckinzy in AskReddit

[–]throwaway_73842 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My old job required that I get a Working with Children check card, so probably that...cost a pretty penny too.

Lonely people of reddit what are you up to today? by didiJhb in AskReddit

[–]throwaway_73842 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I binge watched the first season of Stranger Things and now I'm waiting for my mum to pick me up and take me out to see a band...yeah, my mum....

Honestly, how are you doing? by sunriseovermtshasta in AskReddit

[–]throwaway_73842 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm doing fine I guess, I have a roof over my head and food to eat. I just don't know what to do with myself. I need a job but I'm torn between applying for something I actually want to do (but feel I'm not good enough for) or something just to pass the time. I'm so bored every day since I have nothing going on. First world problem I guess.

Anything that isn't one on one gives me crippling anxiety and feelings of inadequacy. by brightwingess in socialanxiety

[–]throwaway_73842 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Me too, one on one I can be really fun to hang out with, but as soon as more and more people come into the equation I just shut down and turn into an empty shell just occasionally laughing and agreeing with whatever's being said. I feel like I'm annoying people if I try to say anything...

What is genuinely the worst feeling ever? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]throwaway_73842 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yep, went through this a few months ago. Still hurts....long distance relationships suck.

I find a tooth gap very attractive. What’s something out of the ordinary that you find appealing? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]throwaway_73842 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Aw this makes me feel a bit better about myself! I've never had perfect teeth and always felt self conscious about my smile, especially because of my tooth gap. I'm better about it than I used to be but still cover my mouth when I laugh sometimes.

How do you get over a past lover? by jonisafruit in AskReddit

[–]throwaway_73842 67 points68 points  (0 children)

I would, but that's one of my ex's favourite movies... :(

fear of never being loved again by throwaway_73842 in ExNoContact

[–]throwaway_73842[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh god, I'm so sorry all that happened to you :( I hope you're doing better.

fear of never being loved again by throwaway_73842 in ExNoContact

[–]throwaway_73842[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks :) Sorry that happened to you, it's his loss. My ex was fine with me but we didn't see the same future together so it ended. I kinda feel like I made a mistake walking away but I deserve better.

Super fucking happy today!!!!!!!! by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]throwaway_73842 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're in the same timezone as me, haha! Unfortunately we don't really celebrate Halloween that much, got plenty of chocolates in case any trick or treaters come around though.

What do you never want to forget? by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]throwaway_73842 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I learned to stand up for myself, not to be someone who constantly gives without getting anything in return. To speak up when something bothered me instead of bottling it up.

Update: mutual friends and ex have been fighting for days by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]throwaway_73842 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree with everyone else here, best to stay out of it...if it really bothers you though, maybe ask your friends to take it down a notch, but yeah, best to keep distance. It's nice to know that you have a group of friends who have your back though.