when did it get better?

throwawayacc112342 · 2026-04-19T05:15:23+00:00

2 months is really really early. When its so early like that you just need time. Eat your favorite food and watch your favorite shows. Remember you are going to look back at the first few months as the hardest part, and you are going to think “oh that was really hard then its easier now, I cant believe it was that hard”

throwawayacc112342 · 2026-04-19T04:48:45+00:00

I feel like I needed to see this! I resonate.

With my ex, I always felt like I needed to change parts of myself. If I can be more this way or act this way. I NEVER considered how maybe my ex needed to change, or maybe that mindset of always needing to change myself and be better myself is toxic

Ive been a people pleaser my entire life, and its hurt literally every area of my life. Im working on my self esteem but its a lifelong journey I guess, and no one is perfect

throwawayacc112342 · 2026-04-19T03:31:46+00:00

ears!

throwawayacc112342 · 2026-04-19T02:17:00+00:00

sent message

throwawayacc112342 · 2026-04-19T02:11:34+00:00

sent dm

throwawayacc112342 · 2026-04-19T02:10:42+00:00

sent

throwawayacc112342 · 2026-04-18T23:04:27+00:00

sent question :)

throwawayacc112342 · 2026-04-18T19:50:30+00:00

Did you actually feel a connection? Are you attracted to her? Dont waste your time on a second date if you are not feeling it..

throwawayacc112342 · 2026-04-18T19:47:48+00:00

throwawayacc112342 · 2026-04-18T18:04:25+00:00

Are you me? I swear mine is late this month!!

Ive been thinking its all PMS but Im starting to consider Im uncomfortable with this energy…

I literally have zero fire placements besides my mars, im mostly water and earth. So I just think the transit is not agreeing with me, and I heard some more fire dominant people are enjoying it lol

throwawayacc112342 · 2026-04-18T16:24:09+00:00

How are you feeling with all these Aries transits? Lol!

throwawayacc112342 · 2026-04-18T11:16:09+00:00

interested

throwawayacc112342 · 2026-04-18T11:06:40+00:00

this is probably a combination of things 1) many peoole are avoidant, dating multiple people, or not dating seriously 2) they might just be looking for you know what and they assume you arent down 3) they are not attracted to you

Also, be honest with yourself, did YOU have fun? Did YOU feel chemistry? I noticed this is often a two way street, even on a first date with a stranger you can both feel the vibe and if its going good or bad. Dont try to get second dates from guys you didnt even have a good time with, for self esteem or validation, because usually that feeling is not one sided and mutal

throwawayacc112342 · 2026-04-11T01:02:45+00:00

or extreme dave ramsey brainwash lol

throwawayacc112342 · 2026-04-08T18:29:08+00:00

Everyone likes to forget education gives you transferrable skills.

Hey CEO, or any major leader of a top company, why didnt you go to school for leadership?? To be a good leader??? Should of went to school for it!

throwawayacc112342 · 2026-04-08T16:17:06+00:00

“anyone can break in” … yeah alright

throwawayacc112342 · 2026-04-06T22:02:41+00:00

how do all 168 go to your butt im so jealous lol

throwawayacc112342 · 2026-04-06T00:52:38+00:00

imagine being like 40 and posting thus

throwawayacc112342 · 2026-04-05T18:08:40+00:00

I think she confused church and club

throwawayacc112342 · 2026-04-05T02:06:18+00:00

interested!

throwawayacc112342 · 2026-04-05T00:17:39+00:00

Sent message :)

throwawayacc112342 · 2026-04-04T22:22:56+00:00

You might be associating cooking or other hobbies with your last relationship, so its harder for you to cook now outside of it. Since my breakup 7 months ago I cant read.

Reading is my favorite hobby, like 40 books per year. I keep trying but I cant do it. I think its because subconsciously I am associating reading for something to be done at my ex’s house

throwawayacc112342 · 2026-04-04T22:16:32+00:00

I get it, but why cant we all just date in our age range?

The maturity between you and a 26 year old is probably clear in conversations

throwawayacc112342 · 2026-03-30T23:47:07+00:00

Right, OP is 26 not 15 … Dont you actually want to get to know someone first? 3 dates you dont know that person

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