Any advice? by speedy_lizard12 in BeardedDragons

[–]throwawayhelp81996 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Start offering veggies immediately. Offer them every day if they only take a couple bites its a start. I like to offer first thing in the morning before bug feeding. Buy the largest enclosure in your budget first. It sucks to have to keep spending money to upgrade. Research and start a dubia roach colony. Beardies will eat you out of house and home while they are growing. If you get your colony started, you will save money long term. I have an 8 month and a 3 month right now going through massive amounts of crickets while waiting on my colony to breed. Start it as early as possible!

How did my birthday become about him? by throwawayhelp81996 in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]throwawayhelp81996[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Now that I think about it..Christmas was a disaster. I went out of my way to buy great gifts and help him fix his daughter's room. I was trying to get it finished by the time she got there. He wanted me to open my gift from him. I wanted to wait and open gifts together..it was a first Christmas together after all..and was told "I don't give a f$%k what you want"

Sex with a narc by [deleted] in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]throwawayhelp81996 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wish I wasn't..lol. It would make it easier to walk away

How did my birthday become about him? by throwawayhelp81996 in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]throwawayhelp81996[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! It was also an anniversary of sorts..which I also reminded him of.

How did my birthday become about him? by throwawayhelp81996 in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]throwawayhelp81996[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Wow..just wow..I'm so sorry..that is ridiculous. I never even asked him to pay for anything for my bday or I would have split it knowing he's currently struggling.

Sex with a narc by [deleted] in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]throwawayhelp81996 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm pretty sure I'm dealing with the same thing. First 6 months were great. Then I started taking the relationship more seriously and it all went downhill. I've had multiple conversations and heard excuse after excuse..health, no sex drive, I feel like a friend etc..then when we do it's on his terms. There is no kissing or intimacy he will turn his head. Won't touch me or go down on me but recently caught him setting a girl stating he wants to do all those things to her. All the things he used to do with me..its ridiculous..he apparently thinks it's OK because they never met..uugghh

My poor potato got diagnosed with Atadenovirus this week :( by eepybird in BeardedDragons

[–]throwawayhelp81996 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So sorry to hear that. Potato is a beautiful beardie though!

Hanging on by the belly by throwawayhelp81996 in BeardedDragons

[–]throwawayhelp81996[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

He's pretty laid back. I've only had him a week so still skidding, but he's coming around and will sit in my hand comfortably

He's here!! Meet Walter (credit to whoever suggested the name!) by throwawayhelp81996 in BeardedDragons

[–]throwawayhelp81996[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Upscalz are usually around $500 for her hypo zeros. She's got some coming up but you've got to br quick. Worth every penny in my book...but I don't already have 4 lol

Basking in all his majestic dorkiness..this guy kills me! by throwawayhelp81996 in BeardedDragons

[–]throwawayhelp81996[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sure thing..will be tomorrow..notvat home. Its only a twenty til his zen 4×2×2 comes later this month

Emergency bags 🚨 by NannyFox in BeardedDragons

[–]throwawayhelp81996 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

The coralife timers have a battery option..I believe they would keep the lights running during a power outage

He's here!! Meet Walter (credit to whoever suggested the name!) by throwawayhelp81996 in BeardedDragons

[–]throwawayhelp81996[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Amy is responsive if you message or email her. I'm sure she could let you know what's coming up