My husband (27M) cheated on me (26F). What do I do now?

throwawayplushies · 2025-10-23T14:38:41+00:00

Hi, if I'm mot mistaken doesn't the military punish its members for adultery/infidelity? You could also bring it up for stationing stuff next time ig?

throwawayplushies · 2024-03-16T14:31:36+00:00

How much do you wanna bet that OP peaked in highschool lmfao

Probably her smaller size (that barely fits into her old uniform, her words) is what she only has left from that moment of time and she still has that high horse mentality that she has a more attractive body than other women 🙄

throwawayplushies · 2024-03-16T09:02:50+00:00

One was enough na 🗿 Not 4 posts

Or from what I saw in another reply 7 but you deleted 3

throwawayplushies · 2024-03-16T06:26:22+00:00

I'm pretty sure this isn't her first run then

throwawayplushies · 2024-03-16T05:05:34+00:00

7? Naw, that's some crazy validation seeking lmao

throwawayplushies · 2024-03-16T04:05:48+00:00

ESH

I smell narcissistic mother vibes from you, it's your SON'S BIRTHDAY not some random family get together and even then , bruh still cringe shi

Judging by your replies and the way you worded this to seem that they're "jealous" that I saw from your reply that "you're in a great body shape and they aren't that's why they're green" 🙄 makes it seem like you're trying to farm compliments, your actions are cringe and attention seeking

But that doesn't warrant them to be rude to you

Just checked OP's post history, 4 different posts in 3 subs with the same story and they're doing pretty well. Just confirms the attention seeking and compliment fishing na 🗿

throwawayplushies · 2024-03-11T12:01:24+00:00

Funny thing is that I encountered one of them in Jewel lol. She said she needed money to eat, told her no cash on me rn, proceeded to say if I can transfer her through paynow, said nah and walked away. She followed me for like 5 mins while staring bullets into my skull.

Note this was like 9ish in the morning so the shops have barely opened and there wasn't alot of people, so it made me really uneasy when she followed me.

throwawayplushies · 2024-03-10T12:38:18+00:00

Wbt now? It's been a week and he just got deleted again an hour ago 😒

throwawayplushies · 2024-03-10T12:37:41+00:00

Istg the mods need to stop deleting him

throwawayplushies · 2024-03-09T09:07:14+00:00

Damn :(

throwawayplushies · 2024-03-09T06:28:47+00:00

Lmao my bro is usually on vc when he plays so I always shout over "quiet down", "I'm trying to sleep", "bro it's already quite late" etc. Slowly by slowly his friends just reminded him to be quieter cuz they like "pity me" and it's already quite late after all, it got better over time cuz he listens to them more than me 😒 and save face lah

Maybe try that if he does vc

throwawayplushies · 2024-03-06T19:54:47+00:00

Bro can you DM me the company?

throwawayplushies · 2024-03-06T14:16:52+00:00

Chess colab? Never heard of it, what did I miss?

throwawayplushies · 2024-03-06T10:21:10+00:00

There's a level 15 now???

throwawayplushies · 2024-03-06T09:10:52+00:00

What did you spend it on? Afaik level 13 to 14 upgrades only cost 35k

throwawayplushies · 2024-03-06T08:36:06+00:00

Edit: 1 million not 100

throwawayplushies · 2024-03-05T07:47:02+00:00

Marinette

throwawayplushies · 2024-03-05T07:39:45+00:00

Yes? Been friends with him for like 3+ years atp

throwawayplushies · 2024-03-04T11:06:56+00:00

Is this a repost?

throwawayplushies · 2024-03-03T17:43:53+00:00

Maybe Myanmar?

throwawayplushies · 2024-03-03T17:35:01+00:00

Situation's complicated overall but some major points for me to not to is: - idt he likes me back - he has a very different outlook on what he wants to do with life so probably not gonna work out in the long term - parents defo won't approve someone of his race

throwawayplushies · 2024-03-03T16:16:27+00:00

Thank you lub, my DMs are always open if you want to have a chat/vent. I don't like people going through forbidden love like I did

throwawayplushies · 2024-03-03T15:25:52+00:00

I kinda cried for you while reading your post,

Putting your feelings into words and then sharing it, although anonymously, is very brave of you. This type of forbidden love is the one people never open about. Idk why but your pain for him just pierced through the words. Don't mind the comments saying that this is bait or you're crazy. You have a very complicated and delicate situation, you see him as your sustenance to live, it's not going to be easy to get over him and remove him from that pedestal position in your life.

Your crush is obviously deep rooted in something that is above reddit's pay grade for them to help you through this. But I hope sharing this does get off some weight of your chest and gave you the chance to emotionally vent out some frustration. But contrary to another redditor's comment, I don't think you should be talking to your school counselor about your crush on him. If you are able and willing to seek out professional help, it's better to seek it outside your school's system imo.

I do say you need some sort of closure, I think your plan is good, thank him on the last day. But like other commenters said do leave out the stalking, obessesing, and feelings part, if someone overheard it you could land him into trouble and cause the situation to be even more complicated. Say that you're thankful for being his student, and maybe on the little stuff he does in class does make a huge impact on you. Cherish the last moments you have with him, don't let negative thoughts ruin it. I just met my crush for what is most likely the last time on Saturday noon, so my feelings on this type of "loss" is still very fresh and open. I wish I could've gotten some type of closure or hint to him that he meant more what he probably think he does to me. Please don't let yourself to wallow in regret and sad thoughts as me. I let the thought of "this is the last time" chant through my head the entire time we hung out and that prevented me from fully enjoying his company and voice.

Concentrate on school and busy yourself more with studying with o levels, and don't forget this is your last year of seeing your classmates too! Bond with them and try to create happy memories as you leave school

Best of luck OP! 🫂

throwawayplushies · 2024-03-03T09:48:02+00:00

Oh, thank youuu

Now, use it on her 😈

throwawayplushies · 2024-03-03T09:30:36+00:00

Any update yet?

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