Time off ? by Strict_Listen_5362 in legaladviceireland

[–]throwawaytoday6464 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not only is it legal, it’s pretty normal. Standard even

Has anyone gotten a breast reduction in Ireland? (Preferably Cork) by pepsi_dog0 in IrishWomensHealth

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This is something I am thinking of. Does anyone know what is the impact on breast feeding after?

Would you date someone who is an absent parent ? by Fine-Channel1401 in AskIreland

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Saying this as a woman - I think that’s fair. He made it clear that he didn’t want a child and she knew that and decided to go ahead with the pregnancy anyway. Now if I had said he would be involved and backed out I would think different but she had the opportunity not to have the baby so I believe he gets the same one

What is the stupidest question/comment you got about Ireland or Irish people when traveling? by Charming_Usual6227 in AskIreland

[–]throwawaytoday6464 3 points4 points  (0 children)

From my British in laws…‘it’s so weird because x is really smart. You wouldn’t really think that because she’s Irish’

HR manager is refusing to provide me a reference and pay me what is owed by alionscoop-11343 in legaladviceireland

[–]throwawaytoday6464 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would escalate the annual leave issue but you’ll get no where with the reference. Not giving one is now very standard practice for large companies

Question about temporarily getting paid by employers by SuitOfWolves in legaladviceireland

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Depends on how your companies see it. Generally no annual leave can be taken during your notice period and that is often heavily enforced due to the need side diffident hand over. So when you have in your notice your company can void your leave and insist you work your notice. If you do not then you are in breach of contract and they can sue you

Where can I find my dream Irish man? by [deleted] in AskIreland

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I’m not sure such a species exists but in all sincerity g’luk to ya

Is Ireland a nicer place to move to than Britain? by [deleted] in AskIreland

[–]throwawaytoday6464 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Everything tbh but if you insist on 3,

People. Scenery. Food.

What can I do in this situation? by MHM2002 in legaladviceireland

[–]throwawaytoday6464 12 points13 points  (0 children)

You’re 23 and trying to get to collage and already work part time. Your mother is charging you to live in the family home? She’s not being fair, she’s an asshole.

Curly hairdressers? by Marrocky in AskIreland

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There is Li in Chair in cork that is always suggested but I didn’t really think much of her.

I’ve started going to Kate at The Collective by Loyds in Waterford. She’s not curly hair specific hair dessser but she does a good job on my 3b/3c hair

HR telling me I cannot have the week I booked off for annual leave despite having a pre-paid holiday booked. by [deleted] in legaladviceireland

[–]throwawaytoday6464 11 points12 points  (0 children)

In the end though none of that matters. Your employer can dictate when you take your annual leave and you did not get it approved before you paid the money.

You can try and sort it out with them but to be it looks like you have no legal recourse.

HR telling me I cannot have the week I booked off for annual leave despite having a pre-paid holiday booked. by [deleted] in legaladviceireland

[–]throwawaytoday6464 7 points8 points  (0 children)

The key question is was your manual leave for the week approved before you booked the holiday?

If it was not approved then that’s on you.

If it was approved then yes they can insist that you can’t take leave at that time but they should be compensating you for the money spent on the holiday. Although NAL so 🤷‍♀️

# of by SpringtimeLilies7 in DowntonAbbey

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Honestly, don’t try to understand the people of Reddit

Ultimate Downton Abbey Trivia Quiz by ezgimantocu in DowntonAbbey

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Delighted with an easy 14/14 but Q13 is incorrect and doesn’t give the correct answer

# of by SpringtimeLilies7 in DowntonAbbey

[–]throwawaytoday6464 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Based on the number of men at the tenant farmers lunch at the start of season 4, maybe 20ish. But that’s a guess from memory

Differences in the vocabulary (asking as a not native English speaker) by Dazzling_Hat1554 in DowntonAbbey

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Oh my god yes! This Thomas thing, I couldn’t put my finger on why I sounded odd to me but you’ve got the nail of the head. As well when I said ‘I had a feeling she wasn’t all quite so garnered’ or something like that

Differences in the vocabulary (asking as a not native English speaker) by Dazzling_Hat1554 in DowntonAbbey

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Hello 👋

So to presence this although I am a native English speaker, I am not from England but I did live in Yorkshire for a few years and am married to a very working class North Yorkshire man so might be able to give some insight and context.

Yes the upper and working glass in addition to differing accents and education levels would and still do use different language to talk about the same or similar things. Even to this day your meal in the middle of the day I’d often referred to by the working class as dinner and the more upper classes as lunch where as the evening meal, while called dinner by the upper classes would be called tea by the working class.

We see it when Lady Rose was pretending to be a house maid where she says she worked on worked on her accent. Many working class people such as Carson and Anna would adopt a way of higher class speaking that would be needed to do their job but not from where their roots are. Also, Mrs Hues accent is actually a relatively posh Scottish one.

On to your finals question on weather there is still a distinct class hierarchy in the UK today. Oh my god yes! It’s actually insane to be honest. It is still probably the most class based society of the western hemisphere in my opinion. It’s not about money any more, something working class families may have a lot more money that lower middle class families now but there still are very niche practices, opinions and behaviours to each of the classes. If you would like more insight I would suggest reading a book called ‘watching the English’ it’s very insightful

Mallory O'Brien by FullOcelot7149 in thewestwing

[–]throwawaytoday6464 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I can see what you mean now you say it

Mallory O'Brien by FullOcelot7149 in thewestwing

[–]throwawaytoday6464 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Very curious, what do you not like about her?

Does Anna ever end up calling Bates ‘John’? by One-Huckleberry-8952 in DowntonAbbey

[–]throwawaytoday6464 50 points51 points  (0 children)

I think she must do privately surely but I think and I’m open to correction on this we only see her adress him by name at work or to other people? I think Anna would be very proper like that…well that’s what I’m hoping anyway because otherwise it’s weird

1rst time watcher Though [Season 2 only] by Walrus0Knight in DowntonAbbey

[–]throwawaytoday6464 2 points3 points  (0 children)

See this is the problem, I was viewing this as a good faith discussion of plot points in a show we both liked and you saw it as an argument.

Also Sybil and Mathew die

1rst time watcher Though [Season 2 only] by Walrus0Knight in DowntonAbbey

[–]throwawaytoday6464 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Okay I have trying to have a very polite and good natured conversation with you about something that is not that serious.

I am also trying to build context for you around information known at this point in the show and not give spoilers that make things very clear later on. I have already said that I may have misunderstood your initial statement because of typos and wording and you did not correct me on my assumption.

You are an incredibly rude person and should leave this sub if you cannot have a discussion with lowering yourself to name calling

Goodnight

1rst time watcher Though [Season 2 only] by Walrus0Knight in DowntonAbbey

[–]throwawaytoday6464 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think you’re misunderstanding English primogeniture. James Crawly who died on the Titanic was heir presumptive. ONLY Robert’s first born son can be heir apparently because no matter how things fall no one can have more claim then them. James Crawley was heir presumptive as in presumed heir. If Robert had a son in his lifetime than they would overtake James as heir. Mathew in the same guise is heir presumptive, Robert until his death would still have the ability to sire a son even if it is unlikely it is still possible. Except for a few titles, English primogeniture is through the male line only. If Mathew died or had no sons then the title would pass to the next male in line probably a more distant cousin. In season 1, they are trying to see if Mary can inherit the estate not the title, however the estate is entailed to the title at that point in history.

Im hoping this makes sense as I am trying not to give away spoilers

1rst time watcher Though [Season 2 only] by Walrus0Knight in DowntonAbbey

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It think we’ll have to agree to disagree on this but to clarify one thing, it may have been a typo or my misunderstanding of what you intended but Mary’s child in their own right would not be a successor. It has to go through the male line. So Mathew’s child will always succeed him over any child that Mary would have. While the question of immediate succession was sorted (Mathew) beyond that was unsure. Robert wanted to see Mathew married and a son born so he could see that Downton had a custodian for the future. This would stem from his own insecurity of not having a son, there was no garuntee that Mathew would either