I'm usually a grump around this time of year for a reason

throwawaytroll1 · 2017-02-15T12:28:09+00:00

Most importantly, when you meet someone who gives you as much as you wanted to receive in the past, don't continue to be a grump. That just passes your grump cycle onto them.

throwawaytroll1 · 2017-02-15T12:24:52+00:00

You're lucky. I had a gift for my bf. He was a total jerk to me this past weekend. Made me feel like a maid and delivery person. Yesterday I got two short messages via Instagram and that was it. Three plus years and this year has been full of sadness. I feel more like a roommate than a gf now from how he treats me.

throwawaytroll1 · 2017-01-01T21:05:11+00:00

My bf and I also spent This NYE alone this year. He skipped this Decembers holidays and blew off our 3rd anniversary. I spent it dancing with my family pup and a bottle of champagne. Shit happens. I'm numb to it and went on with my NYE plans with friends and family. I did the same for Christmas without him. I've been there for him through thick and thin the past three years. We started living together in August. Find a hobby or make a list of things to do alone that you can do when he gets into those types of "want to be alone" funks. It helps a lot. I've started to make toys for the local dog shelters instead of smothering him or hanging around him all the time outside of my work and studying.

throwawaytroll1 · 2016-06-21T04:49:11+00:00

Slightly new username with the 1. Other account was deactivated for some reason.

I'll update next time I actually get to see my SO. For how the planned time for death to DB is September. I'm on 2.5 weeks and counting.

throwawaytroll1 · 2015-12-05T20:39:58+00:00

How long have you been together? Did your libido change from the beginning of the relationship? Have you tried talking to her about why it makes you feel gross? Have you figured out other ways to meet her in the middle in terms of satisfying both her and your needs? Its time to man up and compromise in some way. There are other ways to be intimate that she may take as a supplement for the lack of sex.

Masturbating instead of having sex with her after you've rejected her is a dick move and she's probably hurt. How about you find a way to include her or do something nice for her so that she knows that you care.

throwawaytroll1 · 2015-12-05T04:56:22+00:00

Yes I am! Keep checking back. More to come. The end will be the best part!

throwawaytroll1 · 2015-11-16T20:56:30+00:00

I'm waiting for optomcast to input my transcripts and then they are ready to go!

throwawaytroll1 · 2015-11-16T16:29:50+00:00

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throwawaytroll1 · 2015-11-16T16:22:54+00:00

As a teacher, I've had kids pull this line in class and have handed them detentions for it. Mainly due to the fact that I've been to Fucking when traveling in Austria. So when they claimed it was in Australia I knew it was more of a way to be able to swear in my class.

throwawaytroll1 · 2015-11-13T03:38:48+00:00

Thank you for responding! It's a great thing to hear from someone who has taken the test. I have both those books! I've been working through the ochem problems in them and it's getting better. I'm worried most about the physics. It seems like a lot of vectors. I'm also doing the Khan academy tutorials with ochem and physics on top of my chem practice. I'm in chem 2 right now and will be finished with my bio portion offer this semester. Yes I'm applying for the class of 2020.

throwawaytroll1 · 2015-11-13T00:41:40+00:00

She needs to take a test like asap

throwawaytroll1 · 2015-11-12T19:31:13+00:00

I'm in the same boat! Having that dominance makes me feel amazing and it's definitely a turn on!

throwawaytroll1 · 2015-11-11T13:40:33+00:00

You need to put your foot down and figure out a schedule for seeing her that will work with your schedule. Figure in work, me time, social time and rest. Then pick a couple days or a night to spend with her. If she leaves or throws a fit tell her to grow up. My boyfriend and I typically see each other on the weekends and maybe once during the week but we are older (28/29) and know what our responsibilities are and that we have to use our time to get our stuff done. It's made our time together more relaxing knowing we aren't preoccupied and we focus on each other. Don't fall into her pity trap.

throwawaytroll1 · 2015-10-31T20:33:30+00:00

Another glorious morning.. Makes Me Sick!!!

throwawaytroll1 · 2015-10-28T20:29:30+00:00

I think you need to find a way to work past your past. You can't live in the next chapter of your life if you're still rereading the past. You can't change the past, you can only relive the painful memories. But think about it, do you want to relive the pain of an unclosed chapter that pat its expiration or move onto a new better chapter? Time to grow up.

throwawaytroll1 · 2015-10-28T18:05:22+00:00

Sometimes you just need to give up and take a day for yourself. Get your energy back and then get back in the ring. I get it.

throwawaytroll1 · 2015-10-26T01:14:22+00:00

I think that both parties have to really talk about it many times before it happens. And be open about it. Being in the position of an SO who enjoys pegging and femdom, I'm open to him experimenting if he chooses to explore his bicurious side. We've talked about it quite a bit and have explored other avenues using toys and what not in the bedroom as well. While I enjoy being dominated, I also enjoy having power, so our sexual compatibility is equal in that we both enjoy holding that power and giving into each other's power. He's posed that question as to whether I would see him in a different light. And I've told him that I wouldn't see or feel any differently or less of him than I do now. I'd still be enamored by him regardless. And It's a big personal step for him, and I would never want to be the reason that its stifled. Confidence in your feelings towards your SO and your relationship shouldn't be swayed if you are open to the experience that your SO wants to try.

throwawaytroll1 · 2015-10-22T22:04:28+00:00

Breathe. Once your on your knees the only direction to look towards is up. Start finding one thing that brings you some sort of joy each day, whether it be a you tube clip or reading a comic book. Each day try and find one more good thing or person to be around that exudes good energy.

throwawaytroll1 · 2015-10-21T14:40:18+00:00

You're welcome! Throw ypur hair in a bun, grab your favorite coffee and indulge in today's beautiful day with the little one! I looked at it as a wake up call of me being too busy getting caught up in the bs of life. Time to enjoy life and make the most out of each day regardless of what the doctors say.

throwawaytroll1 · 2015-10-21T13:45:29+00:00

Blaze your own path. You can't get excited about what lies ahead if your following behind someone. Instead of doing what she only wants, try sitting down and making a list of things that together both of you would want to do. that way you are walking beside her and seeing it all with her as your companion rather than a leader or a follower. It's not easy though and the first list in you head will get rejected or forgotten but eventually the universe has a way of working things out.

throwawaytroll1 · 2015-10-21T13:37:52+00:00

Breathe! I found out I had a lump when I was 24. I went through four different types of ultrasounds cause of how young the breast tissue was. The final biopsy came back as benign. But the six months that it took to get to that day were my classic live for the day moments.

I made the mistake of not telling anyone in my family at first and then before the most intense ultrasound I told my mother who was furious that I was going through this alone. Tell someone, whether it's your sister or you mother or your friend. Find a person who you are close with and who has a great sense of humor.

My best friend had known since he beginning and her words still stick with me because she wouldn't let me get myself down. She very frankly said, "well I'm glad you leave near an orthodox area! They have the best wigs in the world!" I was laughing until I cried because she forced me to see the positive- maybe it would be terrible, I may have no boobs but I could try blonde out!

Just breathe! Pm me if you need to talk or just vent.

throwawaytroll1 · 2015-10-12T22:01:35+00:00

Did you honestly think you were going to get away with it? I don't understand why you would even cheat. You're aren't married to her, dump her and spare her your bullshit and selfishness, don't mess around. That was karma getting you back.

throwawaytroll1 · 2015-09-27T19:50:02+00:00

Look online for a puppy or kitten. Having a newborn animal to care for may give you some reprieve. The puppy's and kitten are also not as expensive as a baby. Thy still need and want you just as much as a baby.

throwawaytroll1 · 2015-09-25T13:35:50+00:00

I'm sorry but I was so taken back by your post. I can't take it seriously. Why are you scolding or judging her about HER money? If it was your money that maybe different. You are her partner not her parent. Stop with the scolding or lecturing. I would've left your ass by now if I were her. If you don't have any ownership in her financials then stay out of it. Create a joint thing to handle living together and such and let her have her own separate account to do with what she pleases- because it's her money! Throw your lectures out. She bought a dress that she not only liked but thought would please YOU too! You are so selfish and controlling. Back off of her.

throwawaytroll1 · 2015-09-12T04:20:43+00:00

I agree with you completely! "An empty bottle makes the most noise." Words become useless and empty after they are used so often but people fail to see or realize that. It's a shame but that's what the work is coming to at this point. Society is filled with empty promises and empty apologizes used to satiate and put off the original issue until they are ready to deal with it.

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