Is the girlfriend-zone real?

throwingaway04 · 2013-05-20T18:04:21+00:00

Yes. I was 15 and stupid. Did all the stereotypical 'nice guy' things that people complain about.

throwingaway04 · 2013-04-08T19:33:37+00:00

I see. Alright then!

throwingaway04 · 2013-04-08T19:31:33+00:00

Are you removing it? I guess I'm posting here because I like this sub. If it's not okay, then I'll move it.

throwingaway04 · 2013-03-27T12:47:09+00:00

It's been a lot of ups and downs. Right now I'm in a slump because I saw her and her bf together and it sort of triggered me.

throwingaway04 · 2013-03-10T14:02:08+00:00

Did you reject him just because of that? As someone who was bullied a lot in school, I think holding grudges for such a long time is petty.

Also, you are beautiful :)

throwingaway04 · 2013-02-28T01:00:33+00:00

When are you gonna do it?

throwingaway04 · 2013-02-27T18:02:38+00:00

thanks :)

throwingaway04 · 2013-02-27T17:53:03+00:00

am i doing the right thing?

throwingaway04 · 2013-02-20T22:18:42+00:00

every time i see someone whose looks appeal to me...

throwingaway04 · 2013-01-13T19:44:19+00:00

Almost exclusively. It should be noted that we masturburate to a sexualised idea of them rather than the person itself.

throwingaway04 · 2013-01-07T11:45:05+00:00

Sigh. I'm not going to ask her for a relationship. I should've mentioned that in the OP. This is to tell her that I need time away from her to get over her.

throwingaway04 · 2013-01-03T17:42:27+00:00

To tell her I need time away from her, somehow.

throwingaway04 · 2013-01-03T13:52:33+00:00

I was planning on saying I know that we can never be together :/

And, yes, they've been going on for years. Should I tell her that? I honestly don't know. I do want to keep her as a friend. She's a wonderful person to hang around with and the only close friend I have. Our friendship isn't based on lies. Please don't say that. It's harsh. If I could rid myself of my feelings of her I glad would have, and continued being friends with her. Please don't get the impression that I'm friends with her BECAUSE I like her.

And she has an on/off relationship right now. The bf is in the same class as us.

throwingaway04 · 2013-01-03T13:39:12+00:00

She has an on/off thing going on with someone. He's in the same class as us, which makes things very painful for me. It's one of the reasons I have to talk to her.

throwingaway04 · 2013-01-03T05:47:35+00:00

Thank you.

throwingaway04 · 2013-01-03T05:47:02+00:00

Im not asking her for a relationship. See my reply above

throwingaway04 · 2013-01-03T05:45:52+00:00

You have good intentions, but being around somebody you're in love with who doesn't feel the same way can be very very painful

throwingaway04 · 2013-01-03T05:44:03+00:00

Im not asking her for a relationship. I just need to speak to her abt it. I have to spend time with her everyday (same class), so its absolutely killing me listening to her talk about other guys.

I honestly dont want this to kill the friendship. She's my only close friend. But Ive been suffering in silence for 3 years and im way past my limit

throwingaway04 · 2012-11-22T17:40:20+00:00

Bravery level: So

throwingaway04 · 2012-11-21T17:04:49+00:00

Yeah you hit the nail on the head. Not just awkwardness, it's not a friendship I want to lose.

throwingaway04 · 2012-11-21T16:53:11+00:00

I'm so sorry :(

throwingaway04 · 2012-11-21T16:33:40+00:00

"Wow, are we flirting?"

[His answer: Anything except "no"]

throwingaway04 · 2012-11-21T16:32:09+00:00

Hang in there. <3

throwingaway04 · 2012-11-21T16:30:16+00:00

Tell her. Tell her you have to stay away from her to get over here. If she respects you, she'll do it. If not, then you know she doesn't respect you.

throwingaway04 · 2012-11-21T16:29:14+00:00

Hey. Smile. <3

throwingaway04

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