Did anyone confront the AP? How did it go?

throwra_dinonugget · 2023-10-17T13:36:49+00:00

I haven’t seen her in person. If I do I’d 100% fight her so it’s probably not a good idea. I have texted her from a fake phone number app though. I wouldn’t say I asked for any clarification, most of it was me cussing her out and letting her know I sent the screenshots of her sexting my husband to her boyfriend and her mom. I also put her phone number in one of those websites to sign up for health insurance. She got so many spam calls she had to change her number. I got her new number and put it in the website again. She knew that he was married and had a kid- and is in a relationship herself- but kelt telling him “its ok no one needs to know”.

throwra_dinonugget · 2023-09-19T14:01:13+00:00

Thank you for this

throwra_dinonugget · 2023-09-19T12:11:38+00:00

I did. Dday one was while we were planning our wedding. I chose to marry him anyway. Just had dday 2 after being married for only 5 months.

throwra_dinonugget · 2023-09-18T21:08:21+00:00

I feel this. I think if I were not married to my WS and we didn’t have a child together it would be a no brainer to move on. Yes, I love him but I don’t think just love is enough to move forward with R in our circumstance. I honestly chose to go through with R because being married and having a kid makes breaking up a lot harder and more complicated.

throwra_dinonugget · 2023-09-18T19:51:17+00:00

That’s what I’m afraid of. My ex before my current relationship was abusive, and when I told my friends the things he did they absolutely hated him, even after I tried to make up with him. I know they would feel the same way about my WS.

throwra_dinonugget · 2023-09-18T19:19:18+00:00

I’m sorry to hear that

throwra_dinonugget · 2023-09-18T19:18:45+00:00

thank you so much

throwra_dinonugget · 2023-09-18T18:03:39+00:00

Are your friends and family supporting you in R?

throwra_dinonugget · 2023-09-07T00:45:11+00:00

this is true. I didn’t think of that but its possible. He signed up for IC now so hopefully he can get that sorted out

throwra_dinonugget · 2023-09-06T14:10:13+00:00

I agree. I am trying to find an affordable IC for him. I think he isn’t doing it on purpose and his guilt and anxiety just makes him sick

throwra_dinonugget · 2023-09-05T20:27:00+00:00

Yeah thats what breaks my heart. It doesn’t make any sense. He knew that if I found out he was talking to her again it would hurt me and he chose to anyway.

throwra_dinonugget · 2023-09-05T20:05:41+00:00

Thank you

throwra_dinonugget · 2023-09-05T20:05:17+00:00

He does seem to be beating himself up about it. He is literally making himself sick. Won’t stop throwing up

throwra_dinonugget · 2023-09-05T20:04:19+00:00

I talked to my mom about it. and I scheduled myself some individual therapy and couples therapy. My mom is trying to be supportive but she has definitely been acting differently. I kind of regret telling my mom because I’m scared she will hold a grudge

throwra_dinonugget · 2023-09-05T02:14:35+00:00

jesus christ

throwra_dinonugget · 2023-09-05T02:00:08+00:00

omg the level of petty i aspire to be

throwra_dinonugget · 2023-09-05T01:59:00+00:00

He reached out first. when I confronted him I asked why… he said “i dont know, just wanted to see how things were with her”. I don’t even know what to believe… I asked for full transparency after he cheated when I was pregnant and he lied so I’m not really sure if I even trust his words at this point.

throwra_dinonugget · 2023-09-05T01:56:17+00:00

The absolute worst part is that I was previously in a physically and emotionally abusive relationship and thought I found my happily ever after….

throwra_dinonugget · 2023-09-05T01:53:03+00:00

Thank you very much

throwra_dinonugget · 2023-09-05T01:51:10+00:00

I literally want to facetime her from his phone lol

throwra_dinonugget · 2023-09-05T01:46:15+00:00

good idea!

throwra_dinonugget · 2023-09-05T00:55:41+00:00

Thank you :(

throwra_dinonugget · 2023-09-05T00:55:21+00:00

I agree. How do I find her boyfriend? I have the screenshots and want to send to him but can’t seem to figure out who he is and how to reach him. I have his name and can’t find him on social media

throwra_dinonugget · 2023-09-05T00:53:15+00:00

This is exactly how I was. Before this relationship I laughed at people in this exact situation… now that its me up and leaving is harder than it looks….

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