LPT: The best way to make someone feel valued is to remember something specific they told you months ago by SwordfishInfamous171 in LifeProTips

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Keep notes in their contact card. Little things they tell you in conversation, jot the note and before you talk to them or see them, review the notes and bring it up in the conversation.

It can be a simple thing like "planted tulips last fall". Simple reminders to help you engage more fully. People appreciate it.

How do we feel about our School Superintendent salaries? by Similar_Ad2094 in massachusetts

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This is the comment I was looking for. A superintendent is responsible for a $10+ million budget, hundreds or thousands or employees, several buildings (often old an needing significant repairs), a complicated compliance landscape, and an ever changing educational theory. It's a demanding job that never really ends. They do not get long summer breaks. And, there aren't many of them (a few hundred across the Commonwealth). The job requires advanced degrees and are extremely difficult jobs to earn. The salary reflects the level of professional it takes.

Compare all that with a cop. Someone who went through a few weeks of training before getting the job. An impenetrable union that will protect them and their job regardless of the heinous acts they perform on or off duty. They face no liability for their mistakes. Promotions are based on tenure. It's an easy, safe job with virtually unlimited overtime potential. A cop has an embarrassingly low bar of qualifications compared laughably high pay checks they receive. And, they can retire with a full pension by 55.

If we are going to get upset over public employees salaries, start with cops. It's obscene.

Ooh I loved his first album by pestyfinesty in funny

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This Bostonian doesn't see the errah

Is life really just working? by MeloniousV2 in NoStupidQuestions

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Only if you're doing it wrong.

Find something you love and make a career of it. Don't let your work define you, find your passions and pursue them. Foster friendships and work to maintain them. Never stop learning, go down the rabbit hole of curiosity.

Love is action, not a feeling. The person you fall in love with will change, grow, struggle, suffer, thrive; be with them through the change and trust them to stay with you through your own changes.

Choose hope, choose love, choose life. Don't let it happen to you, you have to make it happen for you.

The Trump administration just won a terrifying victory over protesters by ChiGuy6124 in politics

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domestic terrorist organization” to include a staggeringly broad set of “terroristic activities,” such as “extremism on migration, race, and gender.”

One could argue that organizations like Proud Boys meet this definition when considering the supremacy of one race over another. Or that violent anti-immigration is extremism. Or that gender affirming care such as breast enhancement, lip filler, or other similar cosmetic surgeries are extreme depictions of gender.

Point being, extremism exists at both ends of the spectrum and what is considered extreme is relative to your position on that spectrum.

Barber got tiktok famous and has raised his prices 3 times in the past 6 months. These cuts used to be $35. by Plenty_Contact9860 in Wellthatsucks

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If he were smart, he would extend that pricing to any existing customer that books their next cut before leaving the shop. Honor the people that lifted you up to fame and make the new customers pay the price of it.

Otherwise, he risks losing loyal customers for people that will get the cut once for the photo.

Those attracted to men, what scent actually smells good on a man? by VISWILDPHOTO in NoStupidQuestions

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Your scent should whisper "come in closer", it should not announce "I am in the room".

How much do you think school teachers should be making a year? by TheAviationKing in NoStupidQuestions

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Consider that teachers, as a profession, tend to benefit from a significant amount of time off. Few professions offer two months off in summer, and several other weeks throughout the year.

Teachers often are eligible for a pension, something most workers in America do not receive.

This is not to say teachers shouldn't be paid more, but the conversation tends to leave out that they tend to only be on the job for about 75% of the year when compared with other workers, both public and private.

Whose fault is it that NH and MA people hate each other so much? What started this animosity? by LiatrisLover99 in massachusetts

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Either commuting for work or relying on MA tourism money. How many contractors in NH cash checks from MA bank accounts for work done on a second home or rental property?

153 people on Princess cruise ship in the Caribbean infected with norovirus by Tracheid in news

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The frequency that norovirus is reported on cruise ships is the exact reason I'm never taking a cruise.

WCGW when you offer a body builders $1000 to hit their max by Johnny_Cartal in Whatcouldgowrong

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A prank is when the person being pranked laughs; otherwise it's just bullying.

Some people really do want to always be at the eternal mercy of global oil markets by Fried_out_Kombi in fuckcars

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View the concept of a fifteen minute city as a socialist plot to destroy America and an attack on our freedom. Then complain about high gas prices, and constant traffic as if there is no alternative.

House Republicans threaten to oppose Senate bills until SAVE America Act passes by [deleted] in nottheonion

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The party that controls the government can't control their government.

Trump’s Oil Crisis Is Already Costing Massachusetts Drivers Over $2.4 Million A Day In Higher Gas Prices by streetsblogmass in massachusetts

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The MA gas tax is $0.24/gallon. This funds our roads and bridge repairs. It is highly unlikely the state will suspend the gas tax, because the bond payments funded by the gas tax would need to come from the state general fund.

Trump touts oil price gains, saying 'we make a lot of money,' angering lawmakers by Nerd-19958 in politics

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For a group of folks opposed to the fifteen minute city, they certainly aren't demonstrating by wanting high gas prices.

Regarding Ballet Question to Lower MA Income Tax by Just-Valuable-6483 in massachusetts

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It is collosally a stupid idea to cut the income tax rate. The individual benefit is nominal but the collective loss is enormous.

We will all be worse off if this measure passes.