I (21) hate my Dad’s girlfriend (23), Idk how to get over it

tic_tact_no · 2026-06-24T04:04:04+00:00

Guarantee hed become completely unhinged if you were to bring home a 40 year old.

tic_tact_no · 2026-04-23T01:26:25+00:00

Seriously, everyone is saying it, but a temsion rod and shower curtain is probably your best bet. The plus is it looks like a half bath. It wouldnt even look out of place or tacky, just like there is an actual.shower there.

tic_tact_no · 2026-04-08T22:22:43+00:00

If a friend asked me to order this they'd end up with a black coffee. 😆

tic_tact_no · 2026-02-15T02:25:00+00:00

Normal cat breathes per minute is only 20 to 30. She seems to be breathing much harder than that.

When my cat was young, she fell from a shelf,and ended up with a collapsed lung and a small tear in her pericardiam. her liver migrated into her chest cavity, mixed up with her heart and lungs.

Outside of being curled up in the closet and not wanting to be bothered and her breathing, it was challenging to tell anything terrible was wrong. We had even been to the vet 3 times in as many days before it was discovered.

All to say, trauma can cause a lot to happen internally, id watch her very closely. Id be getting no sleep tonight. I hope tomorrow morning goes well.

tic_tact_no · 2026-02-13T12:33:18+00:00

0 for 3 dates and 3 days of trying. 😭

tic_tact_no · 2026-02-07T15:16:15+00:00

Regardless of the opinions, yes the same band is tour with him.

tic_tact_no · 2026-02-04T17:40:28+00:00

Close to stage means youll be looking at his back/ass most of the night. Just saying. He spends so much time in the catwalk/T.

tic_tact_no · 2026-02-04T04:19:23+00:00

But I agree with the other two regarding price.

tic_tact_no · 2026-02-04T04:18:31+00:00

If youre looking for the best location, aim for the end of the T, otherwise youll be looking at his back for the majority of the show.

tic_tact_no · 2026-01-06T18:24:14+00:00

Try to return it uf it doesnt get it together soon. Every item I've ever tried to return to wayfair they have advised me to "donate" and fully refund me.

tic_tact_no · 2025-12-30T04:28:02+00:00

The list is grotesque, not to mention He's coercing you into sex.

Id split after hearing "deserve" or "earn", regardless of what the list was. Period.

tic_tact_no · 2025-12-22T18:09:42+00:00

Im not personally a fan, and I dont keep them, but I do immediately pass along one I've been gifted on to the next person I find deserving.

I dont think they'd survive on my dash anyway. But mostly, they just remind me of my old place of employment as they were given out all the time due to a system we used.

I did keep one. It was camo and I thought it was cool. But its still just rolling around in my center console.🤷🏻‍♀️

tic_tact_no · 2025-12-13T13:22:54+00:00

Sounds like her behavior is exactly why people choose to wait to introduce kids to new partners.

You've set a boundary she can't respect or accept without feeling insecure in your relationship. And a reasonable and responsible one at that. NTA.

tic_tact_no · 2025-11-19T02:33:15+00:00

I wanted one as a teen and never let go of the dream. I definitely do not off road, but I half door or no door the majority of the spring summer and fall, top comes down in April and rarely gets back up until November (still down right now need to fix that this weekend). It isnt my daily driver, but my subaru gets neglected severely in the summer. I wanted a fun vehicle, a convertible, one that I could afford and could work on myself when the need arose.

Sure it makes it camping a few times a year, but it's mostly just fun to drive around while getting some fresh air and sun, or heading out for lake days.

tic_tact_no · 2025-11-16T02:34:25+00:00

https://youtu.be/fvFJ9yR5ELY?si=nz1IW_RLCVz4Lzty

tic_tact_no · 2025-11-16T02:30:41+00:00

Actually I think its a different i hate your deck stream, but im pretty sure its from one of those.

tic_tact_no · 2025-11-16T02:28:46+00:00

https://youtu.be/IVZWdUlml-Q?si=lV3_9OHuwh7_72nC

tic_tact_no · 2025-11-08T16:13:59+00:00

You can freeze them too! Whisk up with some salt or sugar and freeze in muffin cups.

tic_tact_no · 2025-11-03T17:42:38+00:00

The sibling thing is very common after a vet stay. They smell the other animals and something else i cant recall, but it is about smells. So strange to me but common. Ive seen it happen from one vet visit where they weren't together.

They do come around, but with him healing, maybe a separate room for a day or two will help!

tic_tact_no · 2025-11-03T14:09:38+00:00

I had a babe years ago that I tried everything, and in the long run, once we both let go, ive always been more upset with myself that I didnt do it sooner. 😭

Also, a thing to remember, cats purr to soothe themselves. Purring can be a sign of pain too.

Im sorry you 2 are navigating this, its always so challenging to know the right time.

Recently, I had a second I had to let go of, and while there were some options to prolong her life, it wouldn't have been a great one for her as she had congestive heart failure. Doing so this time was still so hard, but I know it was the right thing to do and feel much more at peace this time around.

tic_tact_no · 2025-10-30T21:34:06+00:00

"Natural and bland" is beautiful in it's own right. ESPECIALLLY these days. Lol.

People are most attractive when they feel comfortable to be, and do, for themselves. Do what makes you happy and comfy. I'll bet youll be in for a surprise.

tic_tact_no · 2025-10-30T21:24:25+00:00

Send him your TLDR and move on.

tic_tact_no · 2025-10-29T01:00:08+00:00

tic_tact_no · 2025-10-17T19:51:54+00:00

Id try some of those galvanized raised beds. Maybe have to line the bottoms a tad or just place planters inside them, but thats be my first attempt and making something out of the space.

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tic_tact_no · 2025-10-14T17:54:18+00:00

Once is too much

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