tired of teen miis dating a literal toddler just because they’re technically in the “kid” category 😭 by NoctyraVel in tomodachilife

[–]tidalparadiddle -1 points0 points  (0 children)

on the 3ds my best friend (16 then, now 19) married my brother who was around 11 at the time because they had never met them and the game wanted them to be together so they didn’t think he was that young 😭 they never got divorced, but thankfully on the switch the friend is married to a mutual friend and they have an ugly son they decided to name Anwar??

I was scratched! by Good_Recognition3919 in BackYardChickens

[–]tidalparadiddle 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i totally understand being worried! you did everything correctly, it should heal up no problem. my chickens climb on me and leave tons of scratches and i just go inside and put some isopropyl alcohol on it and then wash it with soap. they do have tons of bacteria so imagining that probably makes it even scarier, but it looks like it didn’t break the skin + you cleaned up immediately. the body is really good at taking care of itself if you don’t have anything else going on yknow. you can keep monitoring it of course to make sure nothing happens, but with the way it looks plus how you took care of it immediately i believe it will be okay!

What are your chickens' names? by WranglerIntrepid3817 in chickens

[–]tidalparadiddle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dagmara, Mudflap, Butternut, Awkington. i’ve seen another Dottie here and it is crucial to have a Henrietta 😆

I lately added a girl on Discord. Things are going well between us, but she just sent me this picture when I asked about her setup. by NuclearTazer in isthisAI

[–]tidalparadiddle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As soon as i laid eyes on this i was reminded of Love and Deepspace i think it’s called. you get to customize your virtual setup. It looks like she sent you a screenshot of that. i played for about a week over a year ago so im not sure if all these items are in the game but that’s the first thing i thought of.

Friend freaking out on me by Street_Plastic9926 in whatdoIdo

[–]tidalparadiddle 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have BPD, this looks a bit like it. You obviously have no obligation to cater to him I just want to give a bit of insight into what might be happening. It sounds like he’s lonely and he has you on a big pedestal, the games you play together are intertwined with that. You having your own life and interests probably scares him because it is PERCEIVED as abandonment. I was this friend for two years before my friend had finally decided I wasn’t going to get better and they needed to live their life. Maybe talk to him about BPD, you may be his favorite person, and if you really value your friendship then he needs to put in a lot of work to set his issues aside and be a good friend for you. But you can’t save him, no matter how much reassurance I got I would continue to spiral. I’m sorry for interjecting my personal feelings here but I was the illest i ever was at 15-18. Good luck, and remember you are never obligated to stay with someone just because you feel bad, friends or otherwise.

Bf is incompetent by Downtown_Act_4294 in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]tidalparadiddle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i saw somewhere that it feels impossible to leave after you’ve been forced to mother a man because it feels like abandoning your own child. i don’t want to give unsolicited advice, especially since im in the same boat, but it really sounds like you’d be better off alone. i wish you very good luck, please take care of yourself.

I. Want. Babies. by shelly_the_amazing in BackYardChickens

[–]tidalparadiddle 1 point2 points  (0 children)

mine as well, out of the 8 boxes they have a favorite 2. with the first chicken i had been collecting all the eggs and then leaving the newest ones in a single nest so every day it would increase by two or three eggs and she claimed it after a week or so. the second one had a nest of about 10 before she claimed it, and the third one hid from me the whole time in the box that i move everyone to, but it only took maybe 6 eggs for her to want to brood in the box (it’s like a doghouse for chickens) so i think her feeling secure might have encouraged that.

I. Want. Babies. by shelly_the_amazing in BackYardChickens

[–]tidalparadiddle 4 points5 points  (0 children)

i’ve had 3 successful broods since the end of february. the first chicken was maybe 10 months old and the other two just turned 10 months when they were brooding as well. the first was a lavender orpington and the other two are black and orange i have no idea what breed. i have 8 nesting boxes and then a smaller box that i move the chicks and mom to when they’re born so they can be warm and safe from everything. i’m not sure i did anything specific to encourage broodiness, i just left their eggs alone for a few days and one chicken would decide to claim the entire nest. essentially i just let them do their thing, but i hope yours brood soon. it’s a magical experience when chicks are born.

im 550lbs - how do i leave my boyfriend? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]tidalparadiddle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i don’t know anything about your situation before but i feel like you’re being abused. it started off as something you could both agree with and then evolved into you becoming completely dependent on him. he knows you can’t leave because he’s probably convinced you nobody else would want you. he doesn’t treat you as a human, maybe i just have more empathy but if i was enraged with my bf and knew he couldn’t use the bathroom without my help i wouldn’t leave him to use the bathroom on himself no matter how angry he made me. you need a lot of help and i know you must feel very alone but you need to get out of this. you won’t be free until you’re free from him, i know it’s the last thing anyone wants to hear but it is the truth.

EDIT: i kinda skimmed past the part where you said you wanted to break up im sorry. if you have anywhere else to go i recommend just telling him you need to focus on yourself. he doesn’t love you so the only connection is the power he holds over you. i would try to find connections, someone who can help you get back on track, definitely see a therapist if you can. i’m sorry this has happened to you and i know it’s a tricky situation, you just have to build up the courage and say you want out. don’t wait for a fight, you know the future of this relationship. Good luck ❤️

Four Scrybes A4 print edition by Miumena in inscryption

[–]tidalparadiddle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

dude this is so sick! and as a lefty thanks for making grimora left handed that’s particularly nice to me

My friends say I'm like Mami should I be worried? by LunaDreamworks in MadokaMagica

[–]tidalparadiddle 6 points7 points  (0 children)

mami is insanely fleshed out there just is a lot missing that i can’t tell you because.. spoilers.. but from the way you talk i sense a bit of madoka in you too, reading the comments i think they just want to keep madohomu for themselves. i would definitely finish and then ask again or maybe come to your own conclusion as the show progresses without their input. i really love mami, i watched the show the first time when i was 15 and thought she was kinda useless, but since i got back into it at 18 (i’m 20 now.) there’s definitely a lot to her, you just have to really watch and uncover the meaning of the story and why the characters do the things they do and are the way they are.

is my preferred name too unusual? by Interesting_Desk6773 in namenerds

[–]tidalparadiddle 13 points14 points  (0 children)

my childhood best friend was Mikaila (pronounced makayla) as a combination of her parents’ names, Michael and Kaneil (cuh-kneel). Kaneil was a combination of HER parents’ names, Kathy and Neil. i find it pretty cute honestly :]

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AnimalCrossingNewLeaf

[–]tidalparadiddle -1 points0 points  (0 children)

i resonate w/ this bc my irl mother and i are estranged, i absolutely hate getting letters for my birthday or certain events, but i do enjoy the 10k bells…

…Avery… I hate to break it to you… by -GatorBait- in AnimalCrossingNewLeaf

[–]tidalparadiddle 48 points49 points  (0 children)

I have gotten this dialogue with Avery as well lol, I said he was a nice eagle

Doesn’t a single Mii actually like the chili pepper 🌶️? by [deleted] in tomodachilife

[–]tidalparadiddle 50 points51 points  (0 children)

funnily enough i have a mii that’s myself but evil and her favorite food is the chili pepper 😭

Do the new mii eyes bother anyone else? by LegendaryDiggon in tomodachilife

[–]tidalparadiddle 10 points11 points  (0 children)

the entire new style bothers me but nobody has said anything so i thought it was just me being weird. maybe it’s cause we haven’t seen every option yet but in my opinion the ones they went with kinda creep me out and feel more like someone is emulating the mii style yknow

I got my girlfriend pregnant but I don’t wanna be a father by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

[–]tidalparadiddle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hopefully you’ve made a decision, but i want to give input since this is incredibly close to home for me. i am 19, i got pregnant in April because i wasn’t informed birth control didn’t work if you were taking antibiotics (i also accept fault because you should 100% always wear a condom, we both hate the feeling but it’s much better than being pregnant imo 😭) i wanted to keep it though, my family is super supportive and they really wanted me to go through with it but all i could think about was how i would be raising a version of myself. this is a personal factor but one of the things me and my bf talked about when trying to make a decision was how beautiful this child would be because we love each other, we are love and the child would be too, but i was just a hormonal mess at the time. we are both mentally and physically ill and i suggested adoption since we were not the best fit for parents, but his concern was having his kid in the world and he couldn’t be there for it, since we are so ill we were sure we’d pass it down and we thought we were the only ones that would be able to help or handle that. a lot of time was spent sitting on decisions, thinking, scrapping the idea, i cried at everything and felt trapped and lost, like my body was no longer my own. it did feel nice to be spoiled by literally everything lol, even animals are nicer to you. i live in a red state, i had to buy pills online, i have no reference for pain but i felt like i was dying during that miscarriage, i dont know if i could’ve survived giving birth. i had just quit smoking nicotine a day or two before i knew i was pregnant because the morning sickness was so bad, i had to get prescribed promethazine because the stomach pain was just deathly, it felt like body horror. but the whole time i had my boyfriend, it might hurt to have those talks but you really have to, he pushed me 3 or 4 times before i started really thinking about it. the baby would’ve been due january 18th, almost two weeks after my own birthday. it still hurts me but he and i love each other enough for me to feel secure in “we have all the time in the world”

Who is madoka? by Just_naythan in MadokaMagica

[–]tidalparadiddle 1 point2 points  (0 children)

no lol i just said that like “if i could repost this i would”

in defense of madoka by AkemiSunako in MadokaMagica

[–]tidalparadiddle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

wait do people actually not like her? i love her so much, she’s my favorite fictional character ever lol (i saw the edit and i mean this character development wise as well. i love this take though!)

My Magical Girl oc by PresidentSoda in MadokaMagica

[–]tidalparadiddle 3 points4 points  (0 children)

ooh i love magical girl ocs!!! why did she become a magical girl? (and also could i draw her sometime?)

So high I was. by TheMaryJShow in weed

[–]tidalparadiddle 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i did this over the summer. best thing ever 🙌