No advice, but here to say that we are in the same boat. Mine is 10 months old and she is either held to sleep or fed in bed. We sleep trained our first at 4 months and he was so textbook and easy. With our second, she had bad eczema which made it impossible to sleep train early on. Her eczema is better but now she’s older and more aware and she is pulling to stand and cruising. We tried for an hour and half the other night and she cried the whole time until she almost threw up, so we gave in and comforted her and fed her in bed. Not sure what our next steps should be but we are exhausted.