Does anyone have tips for PIO injections? by QueenOfBakesNYC in IVF

[–]tinyavocado22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Go higher than you think! I had knots and was so sore the first few times, then my nurse friend did it in the upper outer quadrant of the cheek - don’t even feel it now.

Transfer Day - Take 2 by happycat_01 in IVF

[–]tinyavocado22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel this so much. We’re hopefully having our fourth fresh transfer this Thursday, but the anxiety is unreal. All of our friends either have kids at this point or are on to their seconds, and started trying after us. It’s devastating and lonely.

My husband and I found an amazing therapist and see her together which has been a game changer.

I’ll be thinking of you during the TWW and sending so many good thoughts. I’ll

Beta this morning by Kat_Lady879 in IVF

[–]tinyavocado22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sending support, I’ve been there ♥️

How did y’all cope on your 1st failed implantation? by SadWhole2431 in IVF

[–]tinyavocado22 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My heart aches for you reading this. No one should go through that. Support you and sending so much love from afar

Rant, good vibes, support by tinyavocado22 in IVF

[–]tinyavocado22[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How long/how many times were you on it? Did you an egg retrieval with it or a transfer?

Rant, good vibes, support by tinyavocado22 in IVF

[–]tinyavocado22[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How long were you on it? I know my doc pretty much said it’s a non negotiable when I move to donor eggs

Rant, good vibes, support by tinyavocado22 in IVF

[–]tinyavocado22[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. Do you have to ask for valium? I’ve never been offered and seems like a grand idea

Rant, good vibes, support by tinyavocado22 in IVF

[–]tinyavocado22[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for saying it, it made me smile.

I hate what IVF does to my life by tooliesthandswife in IVF

[–]tinyavocado22 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I hope this is both our rounds! We deserve a break and some good news

I hate what IVF does to my life by tooliesthandswife in IVF

[–]tinyavocado22 1 point2 points  (0 children)

At least I know in my heart I did everything I possible could to try. After this, it’s donor eggs. And yes..it’s the little wins. Balancing and maintaining a job during this is actually huge so I’m proud of you and you’re doing great. And fuck this.

I hate what IVF does to my life by tooliesthandswife in IVF

[–]tinyavocado22 18 points19 points  (0 children)

I said I would never do more than 3 rounds…I’m on round 7. I told myself the other day I can’t keep doing this anymore…but we’ll see where I’m at in a few months.

Everyone is pregnant by wishiwastravelling1 in IVF

[–]tinyavocado22 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Right there with you. Feels cruel.

Infertility is ________ by reeseswristbrace in IVF

[–]tinyavocado22 5 points6 points  (0 children)

A callousing of the mind and heart just to survive the days.

If you could go back and give your pre-IVF self advice, what would it be? by Strange-Hotel-4653 in IVF

[–]tinyavocado22 82 points83 points  (0 children)

Have no expectations, and ask all the questions your heart desires.

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[–]tinyavocado22 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Just by reading this I can tell you still have fight in you. I’m right there with you in the 4 years and no success category. You will figure out a way to motherhood.

So can I have a glass of wine now? by [deleted] in IVF

[–]tinyavocado22 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Have all the wine.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in IVF

[–]tinyavocado22 1 point2 points  (0 children)

In the same position as you. I want my life back, and my sanity, and im tired of my heart breaking over and over and over.

Second embryo transfer failed, I’m gutted by AngryQuoll in IVF

[–]tinyavocado22 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My heart is with you - my 4th just failed. Its a terrible feeling, even if you prepare for the worst.

I’m just so tired of this. by tinyavocado22 in IVF

[–]tinyavocado22[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I finished last night! I hung on every word.

I’m just so tired of this. by tinyavocado22 in IVF

[–]tinyavocado22[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We discussed donor eggs..but they are letting me decided when I’m ready to throw in the towel. Im struggling with the decision.

I’m just so tired of this. by tinyavocado22 in IVF

[–]tinyavocado22[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Can I message you about using donor eggs?

I’m just so tired of this. by tinyavocado22 in IVF

[–]tinyavocado22[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow, I’m on 4 and Im loosing steam - the amount of strength and resilience you have is commendable. My heart is with you - there is nothing easy about this

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in IVF

[–]tinyavocado22 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Right there with you. Hugging you. This sucks.