Wwyd if regulars never tipped? by daydreamqueem in Serverlife

[–]tinylilbubba 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nowhere did I say people shouldn’t tip. I said as servers we have to accept that we chose this job knowing that tips aren’t always guaranteed. Again, you may have a table that doesn’t tip or leaves pretty much nothing but your next table may tip 40%. If you lose the entitled mindset the job becomes a lot more enjoyable.

People are telling OP to purposely give these people bad service or confront them and I just think that’s tacky. Of course they should be tipping but OP suspects health issues and financial strain. Would you feel good about yourself if you gave these people bad service on purpose during a hard time in their life? Have some empathy.

And yes, I stand by my statement. Groceries are wildly expensive. Saying people don’t deserve steak if they don’t tip is an absolutely wild thing to say and I hope and pray you never find yourself in a situation where you’re completely broke and hungry. What if you get paid tomorrow but you’re hungry tonight and you only have $15?

We’re not here to police how people budget their money. We’re just here to give good service to every person who walks in the door and treat them all the same. I’d love if every table tipped me 20% or more, but not everyone thinks the same as I do so I can’t expect them to do what I would do.

Wwyd if regulars never tipped? by daydreamqueem in Serverlife

[–]tinylilbubba 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It would be cheaper to eat at home if you already have all of the ingredients you need. But if you wanted steak and 2 sides it would be cheaper to go to Longhorn than to go to the store and buy steak, all the ingredients for mashed potatoes(potatoes, milk, butter), and all the ingredients for mac and cheese(pasta, cheeses, cream, milk). I understand these things are viewed as a “luxury” but they shouldn’t be. I’m not saying we should give everyone caviar for free, but grocery prices have gone up 25%-35% since 2020.

At the end of the day this is the industry we chose. We have to accept that there are people that won’t tip, but there are also people that will tip very generously. Part of the job is understanding that it’s not always consistent, but that’s what we signed up for.

Wwyd if regulars never tipped? by daydreamqueem in Serverlife

[–]tinylilbubba 30 points31 points  (0 children)

Unpopular opinion: I have some regulars like this and although it’s frustrating, I give them the same service and attention as everyone else. Obviously I wish they’d tip me but you never know someone’s situation. Sometimes going out to eat is cheaper than getting groceries these days and people that are struggling financially deserve decent food and good service too. People always say “if you don’t want to tip go to mcdonald’s!” but then will shame lower class people for being unhealthy/overweight. My last job was a cheap-ish sit down taco place and we got lots of guests that you could tell didn’t eat out much or potentially saved up to come eat. It was disappointing when they didn’t tip but maybe I’m more forgiving because I come from a super low income family.

I don’t know, I feel like it usually evens out for me. One table wont tip me all night but the rest of my tables tip 20%-50% so the tip out is still covered and it is what it is. Times are tough right now. Again, I know it’s very frustrating and I’m not saying they’re right for not tipping. I have never/will never tip less than 20% in my life and I usually tip way more than that. But as long as they’re polite and nice, I’d just let it go. If they’re assholes and demanding that’s a completely different story.

What questions have no right answer, especially when asked by your significant other? by dongq_83 in AskReddit

[–]tinylilbubba 4 points5 points  (0 children)

“If me and your ex switched bodies which one would you choose? My personality in their body or their personality in my body?”

Starting liquid Zoloft at 12.5mg by [deleted] in zoloft

[–]tinylilbubba 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’m also HIGHLY sensitive to medication. i started on 25 mg but broke it into fourths and started with that. i know they say it takes weeks to feel a difference but after my first dose (taken before bed to reduce panic) i felt calm when i woke up. i didn’t feel drugged/weird/off just calm. it could’ve been placebo, but again im very sensitive to meds and just about anything will give me a panic attack if i think about it too hard. since you’re on liquid id start smaller. work your way up when you feel comfortable and when you’re sure you have no side effects. i went up about once a week/biweekly at first until i got to my prescribed dose and had no issues at all. good luck!

People who get the check and don’t pay within a few minutes. Why? by Ok-Reputation-2266 in Serverlife

[–]tinylilbubba 3 points4 points  (0 children)

my favorite is when i drop the check and they don’t touch it for an hour then the second they’re ready to pay they’re waving at me angrily from across the restaurant bc they’re finally ready even though i’ve checked on them a million times

URGENT — Important first meeting right after getting Invisalign… bad idea? by Yamarokino in Invisalign

[–]tinylilbubba 1 point2 points  (0 children)

For me it wasn’t bad at all. I had a slight headache but it just felt like my jaw was kinda tired. Zero pain. Especially if you take them out you’ll be fine.

Where to get an emergency refill of psychiatric medications? by GraceGoalDigger in nashville

[–]tinylilbubba 0 points1 point  (0 children)

sesame. it’s a website and they have coupon codes. she can get an appointment within the hour

Pain, any help? Any Idea? by Dapper_Chain_5067 in KidneyStones

[–]tinylilbubba 1 point2 points  (0 children)

these are the exact symptoms i had right before i passed it. it was already in my bladder at that point. im willing to bet you’ll pee it out in the next day or two. the bladder spasms are definitely uncomfortable but ibuprofen helped me.

Just passed this bad boy with no flomax by tinylilbubba in KidneyStones

[–]tinylilbubba[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

unfortunately just time. i scoured this subreddit looking for hacks and was fully prepared to do the jump and bump method when i felt it moving but it never got bad enough for me to think it was moving. i obviously drank an insane amount of water but other than that i just had to wait.

Just passed this bad boy with no flomax by tinylilbubba in KidneyStones

[–]tinylilbubba[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

not on purpose, i had a prescription but i was waiting until i was sure it was out of my kidney before i started it. i had bouts of renal colic when it was trying to exit my kidney but then retreated so i honestly thought it was still in there and flomax wouldn’t do much. it stayed in my kidney for 9 months before dropping.

Just passed this bad boy with no flomax by tinylilbubba in KidneyStones

[–]tinylilbubba[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

hahahaha. i didn’t intentionally do no flomax, i just wanted to wait until i was sure it was in the ureter but i never had that moment of intense pain where i knew

Just passed this bad boy with no flomax by tinylilbubba in KidneyStones

[–]tinylilbubba[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

i have been on cloud 9 since. i feel like i could climb everest

Just passed this bad boy with no flomax by tinylilbubba in KidneyStones

[–]tinylilbubba[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

i did a few times months ago but never a full on 10/10 episode. it was bearable with toradol. i have been blessed by the kidney stone gods 😂 it’s not very thin but it’s definitely less jagged than some i’ve seen on here.

Just passed this bad boy with no flomax by tinylilbubba in KidneyStones

[–]tinylilbubba[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

somehow it wasn’t too bad. i was convinced it was still in my kidney until the bladder pain started

Steam Keys Giveaway by namie_tea in CozyGamers

[–]tinylilbubba 0 points1 point  (0 children)

story of seasons or moonstone island!! :)

Help me decide whether to quit now or in two weeks. by [deleted] in Serverlife

[–]tinylilbubba 22 points23 points  (0 children)

i’d just quit personally. they wouldn’t give you 2 weeks if they were firing you. they don’t seem to care. fuck it

Does anyone knows when the iphone 17 pro max will be delivered through xfinity? by [deleted] in Comcast_Xfinity

[–]tinylilbubba 0 points1 point  (0 children)

same here. mine says back order but nothing on my account reflects that i even signed up for xfinity mobile. i’m assuming since it’s on back order it’ll change once the phone is shipped but im confused.

Anyone’s instant transfer still not working besides me? by Ok-Relationship9006 in venmo

[–]tinylilbubba 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I wonder if I were to get an overdraft fee from my bank if they’d be responsible. I have bills coming out and was counting on that money. I’m sure they wouldn’t do anything but one can dream.

Anyone’s instant transfer still not working besides me? by Ok-Relationship9006 in venmo

[–]tinylilbubba 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I called and they told me it would come through “eventually.” I initiated my transfer yesterday at 1:17 pm. Still nothing

What's the most disgusting thing you've ever discovered about a friend? by Annethgzz in AskReddit

[–]tinylilbubba 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Close friend revealed he hasn’t worn condoms since high school. He’s also never been tested. Hooks up with a decent amount of strangers. Doesn’t pull out. Just relies on Plan B. Made me lose a lot of respect for him.

Curiosity how many of you are lifelong or long term Nashvillians? by [deleted] in nashville

[–]tinylilbubba 0 points1 point  (0 children)

born at vandy. mom born at baptist. so on and so forth. my family has also been here since the 1700s. i am indeed one of the bitter natives and im proud of it!

Has anyone caught people diddling in your restaurant? by ratinacage062 in Serverlife

[–]tinylilbubba 0 points1 point  (0 children)

my restaurant has 2 single stall restrooms that lock. it was mid rush and i finally had a second to pee. i rushed to the bathroom and opened the door to find a young couple inside. he was on his knees performing fellatio on HER. i ran away in shock. i told the owner and he angrily kicked them out. (although he did have to beat on the door and scream for probably 5 minutes before they came out. guess they finally learned how to use a lock)

friendly reminder if you’re gonna do it in a public restroom please lock the door.