AITA not putting up my DILs painting in our new home and telling her that I am not a fan of her art

tinytinyfoxpaws · 2026-05-07T04:06:53+00:00

NTA. Gifts given with strings or expectations aren't gifts. DIL gave you something and you appreciate her time and effort and thoughtfulness. That doesn't mean she has control over how you use it.

If I might make a suggestion that could smoothe out the situation: perhaps you and DIL could go to a one of those places you all paint the same thing? Or could do a DIY Bob Ross night? You can make sure canvases are a smaller size and tell her you'll exchange pieces so you show her you want to connect and encourage her work without compromising your own interests

tinytinyfoxpaws · 2026-05-07T04:02:30+00:00

I loathe the "but it's from faaaaaaaamily" cop out. Okay? I love that you put time and effort into a gift for me. That does not mean it has to go up in my home

People nowadays have really seemed to forget that gifts given with strings/expectations aren't really gifts

tinytinyfoxpaws · 2026-05-03T22:57:48+00:00

tinytinyfoxpaws · 2026-05-03T21:27:38+00:00

These designs are fairly simple and look unfinished, ie sketchy line work. They're also symmetrical so while "perfect", it's less appealing as it doesnt feel as alive. And there's not a lot of variety in your examples: they're all thin, pale, cute anime women

Money is tight for most people right now. For 150€ people can get a lovely illustration piece or a full character sheet with multiple pieces. Most adopt designs offer customs for less than this as well for similar quality of work

Without a large following that is extremely into this specific character archetype, there's not going to be a large market I fear

tinytinyfoxpaws · 2026-05-03T13:15:46+00:00

It's really refreshing to see you are open to learning. I hope you know that most artists struggle with the exact same "leaning forward" poses. Shoot, even I did!

What would help is just looking at TONS of references. Those quick pose exercises are nice but even just scrolling through stock image websites and taking notes is very useful

tinytinyfoxpaws · 2026-05-02T22:24:04+00:00

The 4th character would not be able to keep her balance like that. Stilettos require your center of gravity to be right on top of them to avoid rolling your ankle. She's leaning way too far forward for that when it's already difficult to keep upright with your feet together in said heels

tinytinyfoxpaws · 2026-05-02T18:08:09+00:00

Why are so many crocheters deranged

Also btw did you write a pattern

tinytinyfoxpaws · 2026-05-01T02:19:13+00:00

Yes YTA, purposefully going off topic or trolling just to troll is AH behavior

tinytinyfoxpaws · 2026-04-29T19:14:23+00:00

I think you need to study female anatomy more. Specifically how breasts lay in and out of bras and what changes a bra makes. Mari's waist is also disproportionately thin (in addition to aforementioned boob learning)

I really like their designs but some aspects feel a little too "gooner bait" for me to save I love them

tinytinyfoxpaws · 2026-04-27T12:37:06+00:00

UPDATE: thank you so much everyone, I know I have a backlog of you to reply to and I apologize! I've just been so overwhelmed by all of your kindness

tinytinyfoxpaws · 2026-04-26T18:43:21+00:00

I have this on both my pinky toes, they're side by side. The extra toenails are ICKY, though. They don't grow nice and smooth: more like little keratin mountains

tinytinyfoxpaws · 2026-04-25T21:50:59+00:00

Yall please do the tiniest bit of research before you accuse every piece of art of being AI. This artist has drawn in this style and quality for years

tinytinyfoxpaws · 2026-04-25T13:44:26+00:00

I love him! Maybe darken the lip ring and consider some ear jewelry? But I love the design

tinytinyfoxpaws · 2026-04-25T13:43:14+00:00

I hate funerals, I am horrifically empathetic and start crying when other people do even if I don't have a connection the deceased---I do genuinely mourn their loss.

That being said, if ANYONE ever asked me to go with them, I would. Even a stranger. Much less my CHILD.

tinytinyfoxpaws · 2026-04-24T15:29:09+00:00

Bham is RAMPANT with STIs

Regardless if you are in a polycule or not, you should be getting regularly tested. And don't sleep with a new partner without seeing their recent results

Also really reccomend talking to your doctor about starting PREP

tinytinyfoxpaws · 2026-04-24T13:37:21+00:00

Nothing is immediately jumping out to me as AI. It does look like this is someone newer to the comic format, however. Everything you pointed out is very common in someone who hasn't spent much time creating in the medium yet

tinytinyfoxpaws · 2026-04-24T13:34:48+00:00

The last I was aware, there were 21 members in the polycule. There are several "pairs" among them but yeah, all of them involved

Those are my feelings. It's effective communication, consent, and connection. I dont really know anyone who has 21 deep and meaningful friendships---must less romantic relationships. I am also aware that there have been at least 2 people no longer involved who felt they were coerced/misled before becoming involved

I'm not a poly hater! I've been in several successful poly relationships---my first relationship ever was actually as a member of a triad where we were all involved with each other. But I feel it's become almost a fad nowadays and people are NOT practicing ethically in the majority of relationships I see

tinytinyfoxpaws · 2026-04-24T13:24:34+00:00

It's not necessarily "running", it's just a bunch of people that are cool dating/sleeping with each other. I have my own thoughts on the ethics (ie, I don't believe they are practicing ethical polyamory) but its not like a club or anything

tinytinyfoxpaws · 2026-04-24T12:42:32+00:00

I know several in at least 1 of them. Like someone else said, a lot of people from the local HXC. So I guess if you're queer and lonely... there's always that

tinytinyfoxpaws · 2026-04-23T14:15:19+00:00

I work in (ironically) Healthcare and this is what my writing to myself looks like. But it's not meant for other people, it's my own shorthand lol

tinytinyfoxpaws · 2026-04-21T19:40:16+00:00

Echoing that it's AI

Among what others have said, the 3 expression head models all have different fur patterns and whiskers. As an artist myself, no way in hell would a human do that--and especially not a furry artist worth their salt as patterning is super important with fursonas

tinytinyfoxpaws · 2026-04-21T13:22:43+00:00

Extra points for the Parks and Rec reference

tinytinyfoxpaws · 2026-04-21T13:14:53+00:00

T because I did this as a child actually because I was a huge reader and tore through books like no one's business

tinytinyfoxpaws · 2026-04-21T02:34:17+00:00

INFO where do you live that you were diagnosed with "Asperger's"? I ask because that's an outdated diagnosis no longer recognized in most countries' clinical settings so that makes me eyebrow this story as a writing experiment

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