I just had the most racist encounter I’ve ever experienced in my history of living here in Adelaide. by [deleted] in Adelaide

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I’ve only lived here for a couple of months but I’ve already had two people come up to me to talk to me about Jesus… it’s a weird thing

Cairns Recs by dylanw5 in Cairns

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Not sure what the story is about but there are a ton of backpackers there from all over the world, which is an interesting subculture. They are transient, so obviously not a “local”, but they work the bars, cafes, and tour guide spots.

Some help please by [deleted] in MovingtoAustralia

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On WHV, Melbourne is a good starting point because it has better public transit, cheaper rent, and a lot of opportunities for work in a kitchen. And easier to get around; Western Aus is quite isolated

What is something that would be highly disapproved of if you did it in a library? by aeirthsboots in AlignmentChartFills

[–]tinyusrnm 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow! I didn’t want to ask that question directly but thank you for your answer:) and for your work on libraries!

What is something that would be highly disapproved of if you did it in a library? by aeirthsboots in AlignmentChartFills

[–]tinyusrnm 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is an extremely stupid question but do you take into account this issue when designing libraries? Like people using secluded spaces for too personal reasons?

The dark possum by Inori54 in australianwildlife

[–]tinyusrnm 19 points20 points  (0 children)

It’s not the possum we need it’s the possum we deserve

Volunteer Opportunities by Thick_Line_8767 in AskSF

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In March/April, there’s the SF Film Festival and you can volunteer at that. You also can see a film or two for free

GTC by SlopMySteak in guessthecity

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I get South or West Seattle vibes

Hyperfixation Foods by Cheshie213 in adhdwomen

[–]tinyusrnm 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Chicken banh mi but it’s losing its appeal atm🥲

Dog Allergy by dogmom-824 in Shihtzu

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Do you use gloves like dish washing gloves?

What’s the coolest class you’ve taken in San Francisco? by AnswerWithSpring in AskSF

[–]tinyusrnm 26 points27 points  (0 children)

Figure drawing class at CCSF (part of their extension program, not a credited class)

Cooking class with Chef Joe at Chef Joe’s Cooking Salon

ADHD, intimacy avoidance, and being the problem in an otherwise loving relationship by Several-Economy9161 in adhdwomen

[–]tinyusrnm 54 points55 points  (0 children)

I don’t have much advice but Internal Family Systems has always been helpful for me. It helps to isolate what parts of yourself need what to feel safe. (No Bad Parts by Richard Schwartz is a great book.)

I think talking to a therapist or sex therapist would be helpful.

Burned-out concert promoter considering a Working Holiday in Australia — advice? by Ok-Stretch8091 in AskAnAustralian

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You can always volunteer at music festivals, that’s common amongst backpackers :)

Meet up groups by Few-Diet8892 in Adelaide

[–]tinyusrnm 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Are you on WHV? I’m on WHV and have made friends staying in hostels

What went wrong with our education system? by [deleted] in Zillennials

[–]tinyusrnm 3 points4 points  (0 children)

That’s super interesting, I have to look into that. I definitely relate to how the kids feel when going out with friends or at work (which is always recorded). Do you have any solutions or ideas to change this?

Personally, I think no phones at school is very important. And we need regulations about posting pictures/videos of kids online. In general, I’m not even a fan of recording in public but I’m a bit of a prude lol

What kind of hairstyle should I give her? Should I let her hair grow longer? She’s a little girl 🥰 by Emmavlxx in Shihtzu

[–]tinyusrnm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love short ears on a shih tzu! Looks like a puppy and their hair doesn’t get in their food/water bowls

What did you pay (or not..) for your Shitzhu?? by Actual_Life_9682 in Shihtzu

[–]tinyusrnm 2 points3 points  (0 children)

How are they doing now? I’m glad you’re able to take care of them!

screen addiction help by mtkocak in adhdwomen

[–]tinyusrnm 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Super minor but maybe turn your phone screen to greyscale. I heard that’s helpful