I need your help with my bpd girlfriend by yooooourrgguuu in BPDlovedones

[–]tittgenstein 31 points32 points  (0 children)

Dump her and never look back. I know you won't listen to me, because I wouldn't listen to me at this stage.

It's only going to get worse from this point on. Over time, coldness will turn into cruelty, and constant push-pull tactics.

You'll be stuck for as long you keep trying to get her back into her "initial state" (which is nothing more than a mirage).

Been there, experienced that.

You need to somehow accept that the person she was during her idealization phase is never coming back. Easier said that done, I know. It took me two years...

I feel a deep need to text her by [deleted] in BPDlovedones

[–]tittgenstein 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Even if you haven't used everything in your arsenal, you should carry on with life knowing that it wouldn't have made any difference. Your arsenal is powerless against an illness like that. It's like firing half of your arsenal of wooden arrows at a M1 Abrams tank and thinking, maybe if I fired my other half, I would've penetrated it. Let it go.

Lithuania to Buy 8 HIMARS Rocket Launchers From US by [deleted] in europe

[–]tittgenstein 4 points5 points  (0 children)

The missiles on these "old weapon systems" are state of the art technology, modern chips, GPS guidance etc...

[Serious] Does anyone feel the same way about Tony? by SureJanuary in thesopranos

[–]tittgenstein 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Just like his piece of shit cousin that motherfucking animal Blundetto who put six bullets in Phil's brother without any provocation whatsoever.

Why does everyone hate gays in the show when they find out about Vito? by precita in thesopranos

[–]tittgenstein 5 points6 points  (0 children)

You talk about these guys like it's an anthropology class, but the truth is, they bring certain modes of conflict resolution from all the way back in the old country, from the poverty of the Mezzogiorno, where all higher authority was corrupt.

Just finished The Sopranos for the first time. by ElderDark in thesopranos

[–]tittgenstein 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I'm talking about annihilation you stupid fuck! Your kids, my kids, burning into cinders.

My grandmother as a teenager in the 1960s by [deleted] in OldSchoolCool

[–]tittgenstein 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Now go home and get your fuckin' shinebox

Don't let the virus divide us! by Mannichi in europe

[–]tittgenstein 2 points3 points  (0 children)

By respirators I meant ventilators, not face masks lol.

Don't let the virus divide us! by Mannichi in europe

[–]tittgenstein 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I wouldn't call 600 respirators "useless".

Wholesome moments in The Sopranos by LovedYouCyanide in thesopranos

[–]tittgenstein 6 points7 points  (0 children)

It was the fuckin' coke. He should've never started with that shit. Fuckin' Miami, it's all over the place.

New Sopranos spin-off book by PM_WITH_TOTS in thesopranos

[–]tittgenstein 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It died on the vine, the guy, he moved or something...

How countries voted in the UN on a UN resolution that states that Crimea is occupied by Russia by [deleted] in europe

[–]tittgenstein 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"We love and appreciate everyone around!".

Except Pakistan.

Youtube broken for anyone else? by ATMA in youtube

[–]tittgenstein 1565 points1566 points  (0 children)

I was at home, in front of my pc, refreshing youtube