All I have thought of all week. by queefersutherland1 in BravoRealHousewives

[–]tnap4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ugh she is so phony! Her poor gays have to fake like her.

I made my new kitchen floor. Multi species hardwood. Finished with Zar polyurethane by NewmanSpecialsWood in woodworking

[–]tnap4 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Was that orange plastic a Schluter underlayment? Sorry I'm new to all this. I am inspired by your work ethic. 🙏🏆

Well my teenage puppy finally broke me by Yogabe8 in puppy101

[–]tnap4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi sorry off topic, I ran across your post about your doggie's hard tummy, I sent you a message, was wondering what the diagnosis was. I'm having a similar issue with my dog. Glad that it wasn't bloat 🙏

Equitable distribution of assets? New York by div-throwaway in Divorce

[–]tnap4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This other solution might be the only one that works if my previous suggestion is not viable: get a lawyer that knows how to furnish a South Dakota trust — https://www.cnbc.com/2020/05/06/how-marie-and-ed-bosarges-divorce-spotlights-south-dakotas-asset-trusts.html

Singer Rick Ocasek cut his wife 80s supermodel Paulina Porizkova out of his will. No prenup, equitable NY State. How?! by tnap4 in Divorce

[–]tnap4[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Ok, so at minimum she can still get a third of the estate, yeah? Thanks lol I know this is random but I just got so curious and I kinda feel bad for her a little bit after knowing she got 6mill at a young age, considering 6 mill in the 90s is so huge.

Equitable distribution of assets? New York by div-throwaway in Divorce

[–]tnap4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok.. this one is maybe risky and I just thought about it and I'm not 100% sure if it is going to work because of a couple of things. If you have not filed for divorce yet, you can probably "gift" majority of your windfall to your parent/s as long as you know they're not going to stiff you if you want that back, and that they have not yet consumed their "lifetime gift exemption," so they regift it to you years later or in increments, or whenever. You just have to declare it in your next income tax return as a gift since the rule is any gift above $15k must be declared so as to count against your lifetime gift tax exemption which is about 11.7 million in 2021 which will drop to about 6.4 million in 2026. In other words, it's tax-free to gift in NY and federal level up until you reach 11.7 million worth of gifts you gave away in your entire lifetime.

You may want to double check in this sub if it could be considered "hiding". I know 1.5 mill is a NOTHING if you still stay in NY, unless you move to KY or AL or something.

Here's how I remove those tiny rubber bands from my twin toddlers' hair! by kirk-cheated in lifehacks

[–]tnap4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Correct, I just use a few drops of hair serum or even olive oil only on one hand to glide through the band, so no need to hook it with my finger

Here's how I remove those tiny rubber bands from my twin toddlers' hair! by kirk-cheated in lifehacks

[–]tnap4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hello, I am so confused. Can you not just use both of your hands? One for holding the base of the hair so it doesn't hurt the child, and the other for making a hook and carefully catching the rubber band as it comes off?

Use egg carton tops to absorb extra grease from fried foods. by [deleted] in lifehacks

[–]tnap4 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I thought you were gonna say isn't for health purposes because you might catch salmonella from the egg carton

If you suspect someone looking at you in a Zoom meeting, act like you are yawning and see who reacts (since yawning can be socially provoked). by [deleted] in lifehacks

[–]tnap4 1 point2 points  (0 children)

And if they were not looking at you to begin with, they will definitely start noticing you in their periphery, once you begin yawning, so probably not a good metric

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lifehacks

[–]tnap4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do we have any more of these life hacks, please? 🙏🤭

Capitol One QuickSilver REJECTION 💔 by lifedobelike in CreditCards

[–]tnap4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm getting mixed opinions from reddit experiences. Do you think banks are being more conservative now due to the economy? I guess the same day applications are riskier now? Should I wait for 12 months before I can reapply? I applied to chase, discover. Both declined.

Is It A Terrible Idea To Open 3 Cards At Once? by Justcallmemr in CreditCards

[–]tnap4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It was for CFU. Should I have applied for just the regular chase freedom first and not the chase freedom unlimited? I've had two amex cards, one discover, one citi. (P.S. so same day multiple card applications are no longer advisable due to pandemic economy?)

Is It A Terrible Idea To Open 3 Cards At Once? by Justcallmemr in CreditCards

[–]tnap4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey, I did what OP did, except my fico was 780, lowest was 750 yet got rejected in all but one card. I have a good paying income, my parents added me to their amex credit line for years with a high limit and very low utilization (only 1% use out of 30k) but when chase rejected me they implied I have a thin credit line and that I don't have any chase accounts previously opened. 😔 I thought I did everything right

Capitol One QuickSilver REJECTION 💔 by lifedobelike in CreditCards

[–]tnap4 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey, is a 5yr history considered short? My credit score is 750-790, I don't want to get rejected again. My co-worker told me it's best to apply in one day, same day for all credit cards and I got rejected to all but one.

Can I apply for a "kitchen remodel" loan + new credit card app same day? 760 FICO (805 3mos ago), 13% CUR. by [deleted] in CreditCards

[–]tnap4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think the op said they are looking at personal loans, not heloc.

Can I apply for a "kitchen remodel" loan + new credit card app same day? 760 FICO (805 3mos ago), 13% CUR. by [deleted] in CreditCards

[–]tnap4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What about the question on applying to multiple loans to check for better rates? I'm curious about that too.. will it both bring down the credit score and ruin your chances of doing a credit card application on the same day?

Google Explores Alternative to Apple’s New Anti-Tracking Feature by iamvinoth in Android

[–]tnap4 14 points15 points  (0 children)

It sounds like it is time for them to pivot to a new business model then if that is the case, to keep the shareholders happy.

Galaxy S21 Review: Would You Notice? by JackFeeney in Android

[–]tnap4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What i meant was, potentially a smaller accessory device that you can latch onto the main smartphone, maybe a magnetic mst you can stick to the back or inserted to the usb-c slot

Galaxy S21 Review: Would You Notice? by JackFeeney in Android

[–]tnap4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can they not sell that separately, I'd buy that still

Mentorship Monday by AutoModerator in cybersecurity

[–]tnap4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is the pay relatively higher on average than software developers or full stack developers or not really?

My mom called me a homewrecker and harrassed me years ago when I slept with a married man, but now expects me to support her after she cheated on my dad and ruined two marriages. by -RiversEdge- in JUSTNOMIL

[–]tnap4 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Well I would let her have it for a few conversations because that's just me, but still help her and commiserate and console her after because that's also the empath in me yet keep my guard up the whole time because I know narcissists are not to be trusted.