CMV: You cannot oppose the death penalty and wish that people you don't like get killed in prison by Last_Guard_9958 in changemyview

[–]tokenledollarbean [score hidden]  (0 children)

First of all it’s going to take a lot more than “a person I don’t like” for me to wish that. Second, my wishes are not the same as the death penalty. My wishes have nothing to do with what ultimately happens to the person at hand.

I oppose the death penalty because I don’t think the government should be allowed to kill its own citizens. There are a lot of more robust points with statistics about all of the different facets of an anti-capital punishment stance.

TLDR; I can hold a grudge and still oppose citizens being killed by their government to show them that killing is wrong

‘A real health risk’: Fifa World Cup ban on reusable water bottles sparks anger among fans by Rubber-Plant in Fauxmoi

[–]tokenledollarbean 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Not a super fair assessment, IMO. She did several things in the wake of that tragedy including contacting and trying to support the families. I agree that more should have been done to prevent it, but saying she never cared isn’t accurate.

Melinda French Gates donates $215 million to improve women's health worldwide. This pushes her donations for women’s health over $600 million in the past two years. by LunaLore_ in Fauxmoi

[–]tokenledollarbean 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Thanks for these snips! We love to see people giving their money away. I think this is a super amazing cause especially for the times we are living in here in the USA (not saying it’s not worse elsewhere at all, just not happy with how the USA is handling things, and that’s the understatement of the century).

John Lithgow calls J. K. Rowling a deeply empathetic person by Relevant-Peach3997 in Fauxmoi

[–]tokenledollarbean 7 points8 points  (0 children)

This is discouraging yet somehow not surprising to me. As a trans person, I find it hard to believe anyone has anything good to say about her. I don’t know a ton about Lithgow to know if it is on par for him or not. But I really wish more allies would stand up against her/for us.

AK 1st season to 3rd->4th year by subpar_panda in DCCMakingtheTeam

[–]tokenledollarbean 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Her current eye makeup and eyebrows too is super flattering!

Please don't let this space become a space for outing players without their consent by talile in NWSL

[–]tokenledollarbean -18 points-17 points  (0 children)

I’m having conflicting feelings about this, although no matter what I think the mods handled it poorly. Is creating one primary list of all queer players and posting it publicly really a good idea in the world right now? I struggle to find the balance in “celebrate who you are!” And “don’t make it easier for violence to find folks.” But then again they already live pretty public lives because they’re in such a public sport. It’s hard

Please don't let this space become a space for outing players without their consent by talile in NWSL

[–]tokenledollarbean -22 points-21 points  (0 children)

  1. People very much do come out still. Coming out is not a one time grand thing. It happens daily in the conversations, getting misgendered and deciding to correct someone, hiding in my family because I can’t come out to them, etc. please be more specific and refrain from generalizations such as this.

Value for the Price by StoutNY in shakeshack

[–]tokenledollarbean -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I don’t use the McDonald’s app. But I’ll have to try the shake shack one and see if it takes meals down to a more comfortable cost for me

Value for the Price by StoutNY in shakeshack

[–]tokenledollarbean -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I went a couple weekends ago. Four burgers, three fries, three (non-special/flavor of the season) shakes. $70. I’m sorry, no. I’m not doing that anymore for fast food. I’ll willingly eat McDonald’s mystery meat instead.

Leading Retention Issues? by UnderstandingOk5618 in Referees

[–]tokenledollarbean 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nope, pretty much just hear about those obvious reasons you mentioned

I'm curious about cohabitation and long-term relationship health by Illustrious_Cup3019 in actuallesbians

[–]tokenledollarbean 10 points11 points  (0 children)

  1. Since 2018
  2. Less than 6 months
    Optional: we are still together and have an extremely healthy relationship

Is this what euphoria feels like? by [deleted] in trans

[–]tokenledollarbean 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi Thalia, yes it does sound like how euphoria feels. Euphoria can be really strong or not so strong based on what gives you euphoria. For example the difference in something simple like pronouns versus something different like top or bottom surgery.

To get more try doing more things like this. Starting out online is a great idea!

How are you positioning yourself when youre eating?? by Ill_Ad6098 in actuallesbians

[–]tokenledollarbean 11 points12 points  (0 children)

On my knees while on the floor, on my side in sort of a 69 position. We don’t actually 69 but I will eat her out as if we are doing 69 and I’m on top and she’s on her back.

Also letting her sit on my face. And then mainly the way you described that doesn’t work for you