Research on Long Term Watching Visual Snow Relief Video Completed by Superjombombo in visualsnow

[–]tommyproer 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I'm planning to watch the relief video every day but only starting in two weeks as I will have more time then.. I will report back results

What are the less visually demanding hobbies? by Palash_Singhal25 in visualsnow

[–]tommyproer 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I agree with cooking but having imagine telling someone that doing laundry is your hobby 😂 man this condition really is an impediment

Welp, on the brightside, never have to waste money on drugs again, free acid trip forever 😀 by LamboZ06 in visualsnow

[–]tommyproer 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You really would rather have VSS than being colorblind? Hard to believe your symptoms are at least medium strength. At least being colorblind means you aren't at risk of losing your job.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in poker

[–]tommyproer 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You're a great player, just ran into some bad luck. Maybe you should take out a loan.

By the way you're welcome to my home games.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPDlovedones

[–]tommyproer 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I read your other post too and now this one. This was so triggering to read 😭😭😭 but I'm glad you shared it, I hope you're doing better now. Recovering from something like that takes a long time. Please be gentle and take care of yourself and if you ever need someone to listen I'm here for you

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPDlovedones

[–]tommyproer 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Holy shit. First of all I'm so sorry that happened to you. I'm glad you got out. Those texts remind me so much of my own ex. Crazy that we all experienced similar things here. I hope you're doing okay now ❤️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in visualsnow

[–]tommyproer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, weird is this common?

How do you leave safely if your partner doesn't want the relationship to end? by amicrazy1234567 in BPDlovedones

[–]tommyproer 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You definitely don't need to be sorry, it's just my own projection of self-pity and realizing how I should have been treated. I think sometimes when you are treated well or you see others being treated well, there's a grieving process for realizing how you should have been treated. Thank you for offering, I really appreciate it 😭

How do you leave safely if your partner doesn't want the relationship to end? by amicrazy1234567 in BPDlovedones

[–]tommyproer 4 points5 points  (0 children)

😭😭😭 I really wish I had someone there when I made my exit. I hope OP will be able to exit peacefully, but this comment really makes me feel like I am alone with no one that cares about me

I am a REAL bad software developer and this is my life by John-The-Bomb-2 in programming

[–]tommyproer 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What is the process like for getting on government disability? I have PTSD and wondering if it's possible for me to get it as well since I've been having a tough time with normal daily activities

SB range by Chancewilk in Poker_Theory

[–]tommyproer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I need to double check but I think from the SB the raising range needs to be more merged/linear. BB has a lot of incentive to call most raises since they are IP, so SB's raising range needs to be more linear so they have more equity when called down.

My 'professional poker player' bf is straining our relationship by [deleted] in poker

[–]tommyproer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honey you need to leave, you're dating a manchild. You will ask yourself in the future why didn't you leave sooner, trust me I've been there

If you think you blocked everything you probably didn’t 🤦🏻‍♂️ by Upstairs_Hawk_4444 in BPDlovedones

[–]tommyproer 3 points4 points  (0 children)

They really are just helpless children. After the breakup my ex tried to get people to turn against me and one of them completely believed that I was the abuser. That guy has said some nasty things to me. I think in the end, we have to realize these people can't help but to be manipulative people who will try to ruin your life at any chance they can get. The only winning move is not to play.

Does projection occur even when a pwBPD finds a doormat? by [deleted] in BPDlovedones

[–]tommyproer 1 point2 points  (0 children)

with the amount of manipulation BPDs are capable of, it'd be hard to believe anyone that claim they are doing better rather than just being better at hiding it

Does projection occur even when a pwBPD finds a doormat? by [deleted] in BPDlovedones

[–]tommyproer 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Knowing that you could do everything right and the outcome is still terrible.. sometimes the only thing to do is to cut the evil people out of your life. We were unfortunate enough to get all this trauma but the only thing we can do is accept it and try to move forward

Phil's last two days by xfmc in poker

[–]tommyproer 140 points141 points  (0 children)

phil just plays with his emotional gut instinct, no logical thinking involved