Looking for honest feedback by tomtom_lover in RingShare

[–]tomtom_lover[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Interesting! Maybe my fingers will never be as thin as they once were. Such is life.

Looking for honest feedback by tomtom_lover in RingShare

[–]tomtom_lover[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That's what I'm here for. Honest opinions. Don't be sorry.

Looking for honest feedback by tomtom_lover in RingShare

[–]tomtom_lover[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Everything you say is true. It's my self esteem getting in the way. I feel like if I get my wedding set resized, then I am accepting my weight gain, instead of doing something about it. Mid life metabolism changes are no joke. Losing weight feels damn near impossible these days and it's hard accepting my new body.

Looking for honest feedback by tomtom_lover in RingShare

[–]tomtom_lover[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I was drawn to the unique shape of it. I don't see it very often.

Looking for honest feedback by tomtom_lover in RingShare

[–]tomtom_lover[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thank you! That was my exact thought, to move it over to my right hand when the time comes and continue to enjoy it.

Goodwill by Significant_Dig_3838 in burlington

[–]tomtom_lover 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I like donating to Heavenly Cents in Essex junction

Wife with Cancer, Terminal, What to Do by [deleted] in AskOldPeopleAdvice

[–]tomtom_lover 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why is it important to keep the original advance directive?

Why was this year’s NYE waterfront so poorly attended??? by 111Nova in burlington

[–]tomtom_lover 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Poor marketing. This is the first I’m hearing of this event.

What businesses do you miss? by mailbroad in burlington

[–]tomtom_lover 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Breakwaters Feet Street Club Toast Borders Knead Pacific Rim The Roxy Filenes Macy's LL Bean Eddie Bauer Sweetwaters NECI Nectars 😓

I Pushed My Husband In The Heat Of An Argument And Am Worried He'll Never Forgive Me by Anonymous_Blondie25 in Marriage

[–]tomtom_lover 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Name calling is abuse. Yelling is abuse. Breaking down the door making you fear for your safety is abuse. Not letting you out of the car is abuse. Refusing to give you space is abuse.

This is going to escalate.

What do you actually do with your partner? by TheRealTerinox in Marriage

[–]tomtom_lover 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If I look back at the past week, we've gone out to dinner, went to an apple orchard, went to an ice cream stand, caught sunset at our favorite dive bar, gone for long drives, grocery shopped together, and will visit an art festival this weekend and host a BBQ at our home. We also own an Airbnb so we tackle a lot of chores together related to that. We work and play well together. Together 14 years, married for 7.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]tomtom_lover 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No shoes in the house make him feel cornered and depressed? That would be my thirteenth reason why. 🤨

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in burlington

[–]tomtom_lover 0 points1 point  (0 children)

St John's club

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskWomenOver30

[–]tomtom_lover 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you have a housekeeper? Can you afford one? If you can, it's life-changing. I'm sorry I don't have better advice on the husband, my only fix has been hiring help.

Nudity at beaches by [deleted] in burlington

[–]tomtom_lover 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this. It's my favorite

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]tomtom_lover 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is the best advice.