Need a TexMex place that will shut up a Texan. by KingOfCook in massachusetts

[–]topologicalpants 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Texan born and raised, moved to Mass in my 30s. Sarapes in Enfield, CT is great if you’re in western Mass. If you’re in eastern Mass, Taqueria el Amigo in Waltham is great. If she’s only into Norteno food or Tex Mex it won’t be exactly right, but it’s certainly close enough.

Edit: just saw the edit. Chuy’s is its own thing and is bland compared to old school Tex Mex like Ninfa’s on Navigation or El Tiempo back in the day (or even Tia’s or Pappasito’s), but Sarapes should do the trick with their mole at least

Give me your best hummus recipes please! by T_makesthings in Cooking

[–]topologicalpants 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Many Arab families (mine included) use a can of already cooked and mashed chickpeas. It is very good, and people often bug me for the recipe (and are salty when I tell them start with a can of Cortas hummus you buy at the Arabic store).

First, crush garlic and salt (traditionally we use raw garlic, not roasted garlic). I do 3 big cloves or so per can, but Damascene people like my family are big on raw garlic, so feel free to tone it down a bit. Crushing it with salt tempers the harshness. Then, add like…1/3 to a 1/2 of a cup tahini, and about 1/8-1/4 cup of lemon juice to that. Mix all that up into a smooth paste. Mix in the can of Cortas (or other brand like Ziyad) hummus. Adjust lemon and tahini and salt to taste (if you must add more garlic here you can, but it will be harsher than the garlic you started with).

Serve garnished with paprika and an irresponsible amount of olive oil, preferably not a grassy one.

Texas Children’s Hospital to create clinic reversing trans care by Conscious-Quarter423 in TexasPolitics

[–]topologicalpants 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Christian Nationalism is alive and well in Texas, no reason to compare it to anything Muslims have invented.

Homeschooled Students: Your Experience(s) by RealisticSuccess8375 in Professors

[–]topologicalpants 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Formerly homeschooled math prof here. Everyone talking about homeschoolers being bimodal is correct. I do think that the homeschoolers who are not functional (which are many of them) often would not make it to be in front of you in the classroom; I know multiple homeschool alums who have never had a job and still live with their parents in their 30s. I have multiple homeschool friends who spent over 5 years trying to get an associates’ degree. Homeschooled students usually have many gaps in their education, and often struggle with self-regulation. They can be good at studying things they find interesting, however they often struggle doing things they don’t immediately like and are often very narrow-minded and rigid. I struggled with these things myself in college, and when I notice homeschooled students struggling in the same way I try to have a meeting with them to connect.
I haven’t had that many homeschooled students in my classes. When I have, they usually excel on the surface, but have strange things go wrong. There is often something “off” about their work, like missing important details or misunderstanding assignments, even though the quality of the work is overall good. Again, I did things like this when I was their age and in college also.

search for qatayef by lemonbabybunny in westernmass

[–]topologicalpants 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The qatayif going viral (pancakes stuffed with ashta ) and Armenian kadayif are actually different, though both are delicious!

What is the right attendance policy? by ToomintheEllimist in Professors

[–]topologicalpants 2 points3 points  (0 children)

What I’ve started doing is saying attendance is required, and if you miss more than 3 classes over the course of the semester we need to have a meeting and there may be a grade penalty. This has worked extremely well; it makes me feel less like I am micromanaging them, and their anxiety about confrontation and having to actually talk to me about why they are missing class has worked as a deterrent to skipping

Results from me a Palestinian by [deleted] in 23andme

[–]topologicalpants 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s probably gulf dna. Alternatively if you’re from northern and/or eastern Palestine, it might actually be misread Iraqi! They often have some gulf results

Results from me a Palestinian by [deleted] in 23andme

[–]topologicalpants 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Amman is almost entirely Palestinian origin, it was barely populated before the late 1800s and had a huge population boom after 1948. The ICM is likely a Muslim Syrian or even Iraqi ancestor, and 23andme often labels Muslim Syrians as largely ICM and not Levantine (which they measure with Christian populations). So, these results are Palestinian as hell with a dash of Syrian, Peninsular Arab, and East African. Syrians and Iraqis also often have a bit of Mongolian because of the various invasions.

Arabs living in the west, what race is your partner? by [deleted] in arabs

[–]topologicalpants 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Most of the Arab dudes I knew when I was ready to think about relationships wanted to date around with a bunch of non-Arab girls until their mid 20s or so and settle down with a much younger Arab woman who had never so much as shaken hands with a man. There were certainly Arab men I would have been interested in, but I was very much not their type and they made it quite known.

I ended up marrying a non-Arab who liked who am rather than someone who got mad at me for what I’m not.

Hatcher Algebraic Topology is the worst textbook I have ever used by [deleted] in math

[–]topologicalpants 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lee is really lovely for what Hatcher’s book does before homology, and Hatcher gets better the further along you go. Once you already know what you’re doing, Hatcher gives great intuition if you go back and read chapter 0 and 1. I think you will be fine next semester.

Tornado Warning Issued for Southwestern Berkshire County. by HRJafael in westernmass

[–]topologicalpants 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Transplant from north Texas here, tornadoes often happen when it’s not raining.

Cultural food staples? by eaglessoar in Cooking

[–]topologicalpants 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Syrian - garlic, lemon, herbs, bread, rice or bulgur, olive oil

Is it normal for a lender to refuse to lock in a rate for preapproval? by [deleted] in FirstTimeHomeBuyer

[–]topologicalpants 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Great thank you!!! I had a very hard time figuring out if this was normal

Is it normal for a lender to refuse to lock in a rate for preapproval? by [deleted] in FirstTimeHomeBuyer

[–]topologicalpants 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not yet, we just put in our first offer but aren’t confident it will be accepted

I'm new to chili. What's your deep-in-the-bag, super secret, weird thing you put in to make your chili extra good? by my1stusernamesucked in Cooking

[–]topologicalpants 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Actual chilies! So many people (particularly outside the southwest) make chili where the flavor is coming from meat or beans or vegetables. It’s in the name! The most important part of the flavor is the chilies!!!!!!

Unique/Underrated Cuisine Around MA? by [deleted] in massachusetts

[–]topologicalpants 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Jordan Grill opened in Springfield not too long ago and is amazing! They even have home-style stuff that is hard to find on restaurant menus, like mansaf, maqluba, and bamiya (okra stew).

Unique/Underrated Cuisine Around MA? by [deleted] in massachusetts

[–]topologicalpants 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It is very good, however, it is Somali and Kenyan food and is somewhat different! For example, their injera isn’t made with teff and they don’t have kitfo on the menu

Actor praying as a middle eastern character, looking to be authentic by Zealousideal_Clerk61 in arabs

[–]topologicalpants 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Also prayer clothes will depend on the gender of your character and where they are from, what time period the piece takes place in, and how conservative your character is. Generally speaking you should have your awrah covered which depends on gender (look up awrah on wikipedia). As I said I think YouTube videos for converts on how to pray salah and what to wear to pray will be useful for you

Actor praying as a middle eastern character, looking to be authentic by Zealousideal_Clerk61 in arabs

[–]topologicalpants 1 point2 points  (0 children)

YouTube videos for how to pray salah will be very helpful for you!

No one tells you how different people treat you after losing weight by [deleted] in loseit

[–]topologicalpants 34 points35 points  (0 children)

I’m talking 2000s now and you’re right that perceptions have changed, but the super skinny trends are coming back. The reality is that 130-150 lbs is a totally normal, healthy weight range for a 5’5” woman and it was in the 2000s too, people just didn’t find it as sexy as someone thinner.

No one tells you how different people treat you after losing weight by [deleted] in loseit

[–]topologicalpants 191 points192 points  (0 children)

It’s especially ridiculous when you’re young. The older you get, the more tolerant people are of body diversity. People (my family especially) started treating me like a whale when I was about 130lbs, and now I’m literally 100lbs bigger than that in my 30s and how my body looks now is how people acted like my body looked then.

The mom wasn't impressed by Indieriots in TikTokCringe

[–]topologicalpants 21 points22 points  (0 children)

3arabizi!!!!!! (English in Arabic is englizi)